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2008-10-11 1:26 PM |
Member 115![]() Petaluma, CA | Subject: Almost DiedI attended a clinic today for a triathlon I'm doing in 2 weeks. I did the same clinic two weeks ago and it went really well. During that clinic, I was the third swimmer out of the water and felt that the swim was, by far, the easiest part. I was not so fortunate today. There is a high wind advisory in the area today with gusts in the forcast of over 50 knots. I thought this might pose a challenge on the ride, but didn't consider the OWS implications. Upon getting into the water, I was immediately shocked by how much colder it was than last time. It felt very much like ice water to me. As soon as it hit my ear drums, I suffered from equilibrium issues. A strong swimmer, I powered ahead with the lead pack until I got out into the open... where the waves were. The relentless waves combined with the equilibrium issues I was having made me feel like I had just consumed a case of vodka. I found myself completely disoriented as I was continually battered by waves. The best way I can explain this is that it was like being in a washing machine. I had come to understand that I could no longer determine up from down. Every time I went to catch a breath, I was greeting by a wave, filling my mouth with water instead of air. I was getting air about every 8-10 strokes. I tried floating on my back, but kept getting shoved around by waves and still couldn't get air. I started hyperventilating and then panicked. Once the panic came I knew I was completely screwed. As much as I have learned here at BT about not panicking, I couldn't help it, and that was about to be the end of me. I put my hand up and yelled for help... no one. I looked around and found nothing, and I was way too far from shore to get there myself. I was sure I was about to go under. As a matter of fact, I have never in my life been so sure of something as I was certain that I was about 10 seconds away from drowning. I had pretty much resigned myself to my fate. Then a woman yelled out "Who needs help?". She was probably 20 years older than I and admittedly a slow swimmer. She wasn't going to be able to physically rescue me. She immediately started talking to me, asked my name and promised to swim with me. What she did is calm me down. She got me out of my hyperventilation and got my mind out of panic. A few minutes later, a kayak showed up and I hung on the back for 30 seconds then made a beeline for the exit. I'm convinced that woman saved my life. I was in such a frenzy that I was dooming myself to drowning. I'll be forever grateful to that woman for using her mind to rescue me even though there was nothing she could physically do. That was an experience I'll never forget, and will go down as one of my all time greatest learning experiences. I'm sure that it will never happen again. As sit in my chair, still shaking and scared to death, I'm grateful for the experience. I learned some very, very valuable lessons today. First, I learned that people are good. I'm so grateful for that woman's help that I'm not sure how I'll ever be able to see anything but the good in everyone. Second, I learned that panic is doom, and that I was dooming myself to drowning. There is no reason I should have been at risk of drowning, but I forced myself toward a very dangerous path. I also learned that wearing earplugs in really cold water is a really good idea. I should have also slowed WAY, WAY down during the first half. Two weeks ago, I tackled the first half with trepidation and turned on the gas during the last half, after I got comfortable. This was a sound strategy. I got cocky and tried the opposite today and found myself without the energy I needed when things started getting rough. The most important thing I'm taking out of this, and what I hope everyone with the potential to find themselves in my situation understands is, never, ever, ever panic. It's the worst thing you could possibly do. Just before you panic you'll come to a fork in the road. One direction is zen, and survival. The other path is chaos a shortcut to doom. I have read many stories about people who needed help during races, and should not be in the water. I would internally judge them as being weak and I was wrong. As an accomplished lap swimmer in outstanding shape, I now understand that success at open water swimming relies as much, if not more, on state of mind and experience as it does on fitness. I don't think I'm being overly dramatic about my experience. I'm not sure anyone who has not been there could completely understand. This was much more than a failed swim; it was an experience that I'll never foget. I hope my story will help other new triathletes to avoid the same fate.
Dave Edited by DaveyG 2008-10-11 1:31 PM |
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2008-10-11 1:32 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Champion 5782![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Northridge, California | Subject: RE: Almost DiedThanks for sharing your story...obviously it's good it ended well. There's a certain conventional wisdom that shows up here sometimes that the only people who die on the swim had some sort of preexisting medical condition, i.e, that the swim didn't kill them, the medical condition did. Your story argues for the commonsense position that the swim has to be approached with a lot of care, preparation, attention to conditions, and relaxation, because swimmers--even capable swimmers--can, in fact, drown without suffering a cardiac episode or the like. |
2008-10-11 1:34 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Expert 2180![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Boise, Idaho | Subject: RE: Almost DiedGlad that ended well, Dave. I've panicked before, but not the same as your experience. I, too, am confident that there are STILL lots of 'good' people out there to help out strangers in a jam. Now it's, on you to 'Pay It Forward'. Good Luck. |
2008-10-11 1:37 PM in reply to: #1735194 |
Member 115![]() Petaluma, CA | Subject: RE: Almost DiedThanks tcovoert. I do agree about conventional wisdom, and do have to add that I'm sure I would have suffered from a heart attack had I been prone to do so. I was actually thinking while I was drowning "Christ, now I know why and how people get heart attacks during the swim." I do think my fitness got me through some of the risks that I faced. I think the combination of the issues I faced combined with poor cardiac health is a recipe for trouble. There was an accomplished swimmer who died at Escape from Alcatraz last year. She was a competitive masters swimmer. She also came to mind while I was going under. I thought "So this is what happened to her." @Jeff - Thanks man. I definately plan on paying it forward, and not just once. My outlook on life was changed in seconds. Edited by DaveyG 2008-10-11 1:38 PM |
2008-10-11 1:47 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Expert 932![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Madison | Subject: RE: Almost DiedDave - Thank you so much for sharing your story. It is an excellent reminder to all of us who are strong and not so strong swimmers. Things can change so quickly. I'm glad you're here to tell us about your experience and really proud of the woman who saved you - she was obviously very smart to know that she wouldn't be able to do much in a physical way to help you so used what she had. I hope you got her name and were able to really thank her. Tracy |
2008-10-11 1:56 PM in reply to: #1735211 |
Member 115![]() Petaluma, CA | Subject: RE: Almost DiedYou're very welcome Tracy and thanks for your words. I definitely sought out the woman who helped me and gave her a hug and told her how grateful I was that she saved me. I also stood in front of the clinic after the swim and explained what had happened. No one had a clue something had gone on; not even the coach. As embarrassing as it was, I think it's a valuable lesson. Edited by DaveyG 2008-10-11 1:57 PM |
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2008-10-11 2:01 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Expert 1040![]() ![]() SF Bay Area | Subject: RE: Almost DiedHey thanks for sharing that with us. Luckily, you realized you were in trouble and yelled out for help. About 10 years ago I had a similar experience while bodyboarding in Florida. I went over the falls on about a 8 foot wave, lost my board and got hammered by wave after wave. I was not able to really get a breath for a few minutes. I remember looking up at the sky and seeing the clouds, then I thought of my childhood and envisioned what people would think about my death, I thought of my parents and what my death would do to them. I felt like I was sinking, I seconds away from going under. I yelled out for help and luckily and surfer saw me and came over and towed me in. The ocean can humble us in mere seconds. Glad you survived this ordeal and like me, I'm sure you learned something from it. I'm shocked they would do the swim today, it is very rough out there. Also, get yourself some Mack's earplugs, they help a lot. On a lighter note, my neighbor and I go ow swimming nearly every weekend. You're welcome to join us. If interested, PM me. I live in Petaluma as well. |
2008-10-11 2:08 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Champion 7163![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Verona WI--Ironman Bike Country! | Subject: RE: Almost DiedI am glad you are ok and hope you are able to move passed the episode. While not quit the same, I nearly drowned on my honeymoon in Hawaii. It took me years to learn to trust the water. And at times the fear rears its ugly head, especially in waves. Thanks for sharing your story. |
2008-10-11 2:19 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Master 2073![]() ![]() ![]() The Redlands, FL | Subject: RE: Almost DiedHey Dave... Thanks to share your story....Glad that ended well and you are Ok.. I hope this experience helps you in what you need to work and improve... Good Luck!!!
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2008-10-11 2:43 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Expert 1233![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | Subject: RE: Almost DiedGood post, hopefully this will be read by a lot of swimmers. When I had a panic attack during a swim once, it was something I read on BT about 'breathing out' and talking myself through the situation that brought me out of it. Edited by vonschnapps 2008-10-11 2:44 PM |
2008-10-11 2:48 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
New user 4 | Subject: RE: Almost DiedDave - I'm grateful you posted that. I have so much trouble in the water, and I learned alot reading your post. It also made me think about what I would do if I were swimming and came across a panicing swimmer. Glad you're safe. |
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2008-10-11 3:11 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Champion 6503![]() ![]() ![]() NOVA - Ironic for an Endurance Athlete | Subject: RE: Almost DiedI am a little bit worse than a mediocre swimmer and have been contemplating the Swim Safe thingy. Would this have helped you in your situation. I have my first two OWS planned for the Spring, one 750M & one 1500M. I'm not too worried about the 750, but the 1500 is a long swim for me. |
2008-10-11 4:11 PM in reply to: #1735325 |
Member 115![]() Petaluma, CA | Subject: RE: Almost Diedpga_mike - 2008-10-11 1:11 PM I am a little bit worse than a mediocre swimmer and have been contemplating the Swim Safe thingy. Would this have helped you in your situation. I have my first two OWS planned for the Spring, one 750M & one 1500M. I'm not too worried about the 750, but the 1500 is a long swim for me.
First, thanks to everyone for their kind words and encouragement. As Jeffy_101 pointed out, it is very rough out there today, but I'm afraid I'm the only one of the group who needed rescuing. There were others panicing in the rear, but the coach was there with them to help them out of it. My rabbit start put me between the front and the rear all by my lonesome. One smart attendee opted to stay out of the water. Smart. Regarding Swim Safe... I'll tell you what, from the perspective of ego, I would never have considered such a thing. As much as I've learned about humility today, I don't know if that's the right tool for me or not. I would have given ANYTHING to have had that device today and would have absolutely used it. In many ways, I think just having something like that around your waist would be enough to keep you in a state of mind to avoid panic. I'm convinced that panic causes cardiac problems and drowning. If Swim Safe is going to put you in a better state of mind, then I would highly recommend that you consider it. Dave |
2008-10-11 4:20 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Extreme Veteran 694![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | Subject: RE: Almost DiedGreat post, thanks for sharing it. |
2008-10-11 4:30 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Master 1547![]() ![]() ![]() | Subject: RE: Almost DiedThank you for your story. Getting in trouble in the water can happen to anyone. I have had a scary experience or two in my day. not to hijak but here are some tips on staying calm: When I was a rescue swimmer I would come across survivors that just had to jump off of a sinking vessel. These folks were normally OK around water but seeing there boat sink, a guy come from the sky to help with fins and a wetsuit, the helicopter rotor wash...it almost always turned into a life or death situation where the survivor would panic. That is when problems would occur. My number one goal was always to calm this person down. Staying calm, trying to relax your body is always the best thing to do. If you ever get caught in tough seas, don't fight it, just relax, and swim easy to the shore. If you are relaxed it's no big deal if the big wave takes you under. For bad choppy seas when you are in trouble it's best to stop, lightly tread, and get your breathing under control. THe problem though is that this can be tough when the seas are so strong and in your face. For that you need to get under the water.
The only way to "simulate" this trouble is to ocasionally jump in the deep end and tumble to the bottom and stay there for 30 seconds or so. Once you get comfortable with that you should be fine. Once you have that confidence you always know you are OK...almost no wave would ever keep you under that long. FOr me (this is from surfing) when I would get in trouble I would just stay under for a few...the water was always calm below the surface and it gave me a second to gather myself. Your HR should slow under neath as well, giving you a chance to get your mind right to come up and breathe normally.
It may sound strange to suggest someone go below the surface to get under control...and if you are a beginner and not comfortable in the water it is prob not the best thing to "try out" for the first time at sea in a real situation. But if you are advanced, and can train for this trouble (simulate it in training) you can get through it.
Finally, hyperventilating is NEVER a good option during a swim. If you find yourself doing this you must get it under control immediately! Oh and...always swim with a buddy!
Do what it takes to stay safe.
Edited by sax 2008-10-11 4:35 PM |
2008-10-11 5:37 PM in reply to: #1735288 |
Champion 7558![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Albuquerque, New Mexico | Subject: RE: Almost DiedToddosaurus_Rex - 2008-10-11 2:48 PM It also made me think about what I would do if I were swimming and came across a panicing swimmer. Glad you're safe. Do exactly what that person did. You'll notice she didn't get close enough to be grabbed, but she calmed him down with her voice until other help arrived. Panicky swimmers are: |
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2008-10-11 5:53 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Expert 1379![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Woodland, California | Subject: RE: Almost DiedThat's crazy. I'm glad you're ok, and thanks for sharing your story. |
2008-10-11 6:07 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Pro 4277![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Parker, CO | Subject: RE: Almost DiedScary...glad you came out of it ok! Thanks for sharing. |
2008-10-11 6:24 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Veteran 381![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | Subject: RE: Almost DiedIm glad your ok, would you suggest wearing a swim cap or did you have one on>? |
2008-10-11 6:55 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Master 1887![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Loveland, Ohio | Subject: RE: Almost Died |
2008-10-11 8:01 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Royal(PITA) 14270![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() West Chester, Ohio | Subject: RE: Almost DiedWow. That woman who helped you was amazing. Glad she ws able to help you calm down and be able to finish the swim. Great lesson, glad you shared it ith the group after the clinic. My first OWS race found me in a panic. In fact, ater that week when my family and I went to a different lake I couldn't even look at it without feeling sick. It took a lot to befriend OWS. I'm by no means strong or proficient, but I no longer panic--as long as the water isn't too cold. |
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2008-10-11 8:16 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Champion 19812![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() MA | Subject: RE: Almost DiedVery scary...so glad that women was there to calm you down, help you overcome your panic and be safe. Thanks for sharing as it is a good reminder that strange things can come up. So very happy that you are okay. May I suggest next swim you do, you do it soon and have someone stay next to you the whole time..just to get back in the saddle so to speak soon and also know you will be safe. |
2008-10-11 8:54 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Pro 6767![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() the Alabama part of Pennsylvania | Subject: RE: Almost DiedI'm glad you ended up being OK. Panic was obviously your biggest enemy out there. It sounds like there are several lessons to be had, including what to do if you see a panicky swimmer (offer encouragement, stay nearby but not too close). I would also point out that you reported equilibrium issues almost from the start, but then kept trying to power through. A lot of disasters turn out to be the accumulation of a series of smaller problems that end up working in concert to bring about a much much bigger problem. Also, people tend to revert to whatever was the first plan, and have trouble coming up with a new plan. This is why disaster drills (fire, earthquake, or whatever is approrpriate where you are) are important. That way the "bail out plan" is well rehearsed. In your case, it sounds like you hit much colder water than expected, as well as wind and waves. Because you stuck with the original plan of pushing yourself harder based on the last swim, when you started to get mouths of water instead of air, you were too tired to think clearly, and panicked. I always try to get a sighting to either a buouy or boat when I do OWS so I know where the potential rest stop could be if I start to panic (which has happened several times, usually after a long hiatus between OWS). There is a big mental game at work as well. If I think about the fact that I cannot touch the bottom, I panic. If I focus on anything else, I stay more relaxed. Obviously people's trigger issues may vary, but if you know what they are, and when they start to activate, you can respond without panic more easily. |
2008-10-11 8:58 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Member 115![]() Petaluma, CA | Subject: RE: Almost DiedThanks again for all the kind words. All of your advice has been great, and I'll definitely take it all to heart. Someone asked if I had a swimming cap on. I did. I also had earplugs, but they were in my bag. I'm pretty sure that I'll be OK if I end up in that situation again. It was just a rookie problem problem that experience will solve. I'll tell you all something that I find a little funny. One of the participants went in with no wetsuit. I think he weighed no less than 100 lbs more than me, probably closer to 200. He had absolutely no problem with that swim and came out looking as fresh as he went in. I think his weight had nothing to do with his fitness as I think he is an accomplished open water swimmer. I do think much of that accomplishment, however, comes from his experience. So, moving on, my mind is still a mess and I've been having issues catching my breath all day. I'm sure I'll be good to go in the morning. Thanks again kind people! Dave Edited by DaveyG 2008-10-11 8:59 PM |
2008-10-11 11:49 PM in reply to: #1735185 |
Master 1924![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Denver | Subject: RE: Almost DiedGlad that the story has a happy ending. Thank you for posting. Even though I am comfortable in open water I don't swim OW very often and am cautious about my planning. |
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