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2008-11-10 2:48 PM

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Subject: HELP, I like need a like intervention

My 5 year old has started working the word "like" into every sentence. 

Granted, I'm always a big fan of a simile, but he is 5 and has begun to butcher the English language.

 

Any tips for a "like" exorcism?  



2008-11-10 2:51 PM
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He has to pay you (nickel, dime, penny?) for each. Does he have an allowance, any sense of money?

Take away 'x' amounts of tv, computer, game time.

Make him clean something.

2008-11-10 2:56 PM
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2008-11-10 2:58 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
I am having a similar issue with a 10 year old. I am planning on setting up a diminishing returns policy. Start of with an amount of money and a time frame. With a 10 year old I'm thinking of $20 over a weekend. Take away a dollar for every "like" and they get to keep whatever is left at the end of the time period. Would have to be modified for a 5 year old. Maybe a shock collar.
2008-11-10 3:07 PM
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2008-11-10 3:10 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
Do you know what worked for my brother and I? My father would scream every time he heard us say "like" inappropriately. 5 years old might be too young for that - he'll probably giggle. I was old enough to be incredibly annoyed. My brother and I removed "like" from our lexicon after the first dinner.


2008-11-10 3:10 PM
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surfwallace - 2008-11-10 4:07 PM Please don't reward your children with money for stupid things. I know a lot of kids that are screwed up because of it. Now they only do things for money. It's one of the most sickening things I have ever seen.

 

I'd argue that properly used, financial motivation is not only very effective, but helps prepare kids for life, when they get like paid at their job or something.

2008-11-10 3:16 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention

ignore it.  He won't always butcher the english language and I would argue he is too young to really get it.

 

 

2008-11-10 3:19 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
My daughter, who is 7 years old, started saying "seriously" with almost every sentence.  We started saying "Seriously?" back at her until she would go "Mother" or "Dad" and it made her aware enough of it that she eventually stopped.  Seriously.
2008-11-10 3:23 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention

at least we've passed the phase where 6 months ago he looked at me just said:

 

"Dude"

2008-11-10 3:32 PM
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condorman - 2008-11-10 3:23 PM

at least we've passed the phase where 6 months ago he looked at me just said:

 

"Dude"

I know some adults who never made it past the "dude" phase.



2008-11-10 3:33 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
condorman - 2008-11-10 3:23 PM

at least we've passed the phase where 6 months ago he looked at me just said:

 

"Dude"

Sweet.

In a 5 year old, while the "like" overusage is annoying...he's 5, and all his little friends probably talk similarly (which is where he probably picked it up).  Now, if he were 23, a college graduate and used the word "like" for every other word, then you just kick him. (I work with a 23 y/o recent college grad who does this...can you tell?  She knows her stuff, but the constant use of "like" makes her sound, well, like an imbecile. Or someone from the valley.)

2008-11-10 3:37 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention

 A few million studies (hyperbole) have proven that negative reinforcement never works long.  (like doing something negative every time he says it)

Instead, just say pardon me?  and have him repeat what he said without the word "like"  then praise his correct use of language.

K

2008-11-10 3:52 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
surfwallace - 2008-11-10 3:56 PM

Maybe you can like stop saying it all the time or something.


mrbbrad - 2008-11-10 4:10 PM

I'd argue that properly used, financial motivation is not only very effective, but helps prepare kids for life, when they get like paid at their job or something.



That right there is like funny or something.
2008-11-10 4:00 PM
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D.Z. - 2008-11-10 4:10 PM Do you know what worked for my brother and I (wrong)? My father would scream every time he heard us say "like" inappropriately. 5 years old might be too young for that - he'll probably giggle. I was old enough to be incredibly annoyed. My brother and I (right) removed "like" from our lexicon after the first dinner.

 

Would it work as well if I screamed every time you used "I" when you should use "me"?

2008-11-10 4:05 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
If he knows it bugs you, he will keep doing it.  Take away whatever tv show he is getting it from and model good language.  Just ignore it when he does it.  Like ya know.


2008-11-10 4:23 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
I've got a 12 and a 10 year old.  I've come to the point where I have hills to die on and other things just aren't that big of a deal.  My guess is that like will fade away soon enough to be replaced by the next potentially more annoying thing.
2008-11-10 4:40 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
condorman - 2008-11-10 2:48 PM

My 5 year old has started working the word "like" into every sentence. 

Granted, I'm always a big fan of a simile, but he is 5 and has begun to butcher the English language.

 

Any tips for a "like" exorcism?  

[hijack on]  My wife's two cousins, one who was about 15, their Dad (my wife's uncle),
my wife and I, all drove out to Colorado to his condo in Breckenridge.  The trip took about 17 hours, one way (started just outside the Illiana border).  My wife's cousin, the 15-year old, was a non-stop talker, with a habit of using "like".  Imagine a 17 hour trip listening to that.  I am totally serious here.  And then there was the return trip.  We tried to cure her of the habit.  We weren't successful. [/hijack off]

2008-11-10 4:47 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
When my oldest son was about 8 yrs old he said "like" constantly. We got rid of it by saying the word "kumquat" (which he found hilarious!) every time he said "like". Worked LIKE a charm....and it resulted in a lot of giggles.
2008-11-10 4:48 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
mrbbrad - 2008-11-10 2:00 PM

D.Z. - 2008-11-10 4:10 PM Do you know what worked for my brother and I (wrong)? My father would scream every time he heard us say "like" inappropriately. 5 years old might be too young for that - he'll probably giggle. I was old enough to be incredibly annoyed. My brother and I (right) removed "like" from our lexicon after the first dinner.

 

Would it work as well if I screamed every time you used "I" when you should use "me"?


*snerk*
2008-11-10 5:00 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
Calling attention to it every time he uses it, the way other people have suggested, would probably work. It did with me. I asked my friends to say "similarrrrrr" every time I said "like" in front of them. Caused me to not only slow down my speech and really think about what I wanted to say, but also wasn't mean. The kumquat idea is good.


2008-11-10 6:12 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
puellasolis - 2008-11-10 5:48 PM

mrbbrad - 2008-11-10 2:00 PM

D.Z. - 2008-11-10 4:10 PM Do you know what worked for my brother and I (wrong)? My father would scream every time he heard us say "like" inappropriately. 5 years old might be too young for that - he'll probably giggle. I was old enough to be incredibly annoyed. My brother and I (right) removed "like" from our lexicon after the first dinner.

Would it work as well if I screamed every time you used "I" when you should use "me"?


*snerk*



Don't encourage him...


2008-11-10 7:25 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention
D.Z. - 2008-11-10 7:12 PM
puellasolis - 2008-11-10 5:48 PM
mrbbrad - 2008-11-10 2:00 PM

D.Z. - 2008-11-10 4:10 PM Do you know what worked for my brother and I (wrong)? My father would scream every time he heard us say "like" inappropriately. 5 years old might be too young for that - he'll probably giggle. I was old enough to be incredibly annoyed. My brother and I (right) removed "like" from our lexicon after the first dinner.

 

Would it work as well if I screamed every time you used "I" when you should use "me"?

*snerk*
Don't encourage him...

heh heh 

2008-11-10 8:20 PM
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Subject: RE: HELP, I like need a like intervention

Aquagirl hit the nail on the head. I call it the "Maggpie theory". Show a child a shinny object or funny catch phrase and that's all they will focus on forgetting everything they did before.

Oddly enough...I find it also works on my wife....

 "Look at the shiny object!" :-)

2008-11-10 11:44 PM
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One time i was correcting my then 6 year old and she told me dad that's not a complete sentence. I had to laugh.
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