Subject: Should I invite her? Ok, to make a long story short, I have a friend who used to be a good friend but who I have not spoken to for about 4 months. We had been friends for 7 years and our kids grew up together. We used to talk 2-3 times a week & get together with our kids for playdates often. But in the past year, she had been doing/saying things that annoyed me (being negative, causing her own problems & then complaining endlessly about them, etc. ) We didn't have a falling out or a fight, but we did have a tense phone conversation after which I started distancing myself from her. I do not regret ending the friendship, but I feel bad that we still have a couple mutual friends who now feel a little akward about it (we used to all get together and do things with our kids ). I also feel a little bad because my son is friends with her son and has not gotten to see him since my decision to distance myself from her. My son asks about his friend. So here is my question. I'm having a birthday party for my son. Should I invite her and her son? Our kids are still little (5 years old ), so the parents still stay for the entire party. Like I said, our kids get along and my son has asked to play with him. I know we would act friendly with each other but it would prob be very akward. What do you think? |