looking for swim help

I would try looking into the Fishers YMCA.  They offer group and private lessons.  Maybe also look into Lifetime fitness if there is one in your area.  I believe they offer adult swim lessons as well.

This will not replace lessons, but also look at youtube videos of swim techniques.  There are a lot of resources on the internet about swimming technique.  Swimsmooth.com is a good sight as well. 

I was in your shoes two years ago.  Took a couple of lessons and watched a lot of videos.  Swimming was hard at first because the technique to breathing and proper stroke takes time to acquire, but with practice you can learn to swim.  Having lessons is a great start because the instructor can guide you on the process of swimming basics and lead you into more formal instruction on proper swimming form.  Good luck.  

http://www.carmelswimclub.org/SwimLessons.jsp?_tabid_=26235&team=incsc

carmel swim club is putting on triathlon swim clinics. i have not been, but would if i didnt live 50-60 minutes away.

I agree with the folks above; private lessons are the best way to get started. One PL per week, plus two additional practice swims per week, and you will be on your way.

Once you get to where you can swim laps, look into the Jordan YMCA MultiFit program. They have 16 coached swim workouts each week. Some are designated 'alpha' where there is an extra coach to help beginners in a beginners' lane. There are also running and cycling group workouts too, and the whole program is $35/month for Y members. Great group, great coaching, and a great value.