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2006-06-06 6:45 PM

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I thought I would share a little something about my 4th son Duncan (age 8).  He inherited his fathers poor eye site and also has a bit of depth perception problem too, so base ball and other sports like that are out.  That being said he has been sitting on the side line and not doing any sports. 

 

Two months ago his school started a track program during recess.  Kids could run around the track and for every lap they collected a peg from the teacher and at the end of recess everyday they turned them in and miles were logged.  He came home one day and told me about it and I said "well that sounds great...I'll pay you a dollar a mile..."  Stupid me.  I thought I might be paying out 10 bucks or so....but NOoooo...the kid logged a grand total of 68 miles in 8 weeks.  

As you can see....I now have tri partner.  He's going to enter the kids tri in September when I do mine.  

Now he's out riding around on his bike putting 3 miles a day on it.  He's so excited for this and I'm so proud of him.

 

Thanks for letting me brag.  If feels so good to find something he can do and excel at.

 



2006-06-06 6:48 PM
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Wow! That's some great mileage there. Sixty-eight bucks' worth, lol!!!

Yep, definitely, a kids tri on the agenda. He'll do great!

2006-06-06 6:49 PM
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Wonderful!!!  Congrats to Duncan!! 

and thanks for bragging!

2006-06-06 6:55 PM
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Wow! That is awesome.

The track program sounds like a great thing for the kids. I'm glad your son found something that will keep him involved athletically. You have every right to be proud!

2006-06-06 7:00 PM
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That's
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2006-06-06 8:27 PM
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Way Cool!


2006-06-06 9:26 PM
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Da'ts Cool!
2006-06-06 9:33 PM
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You should be very proud.  That is awesome.  Would you like to pay me for every mile I run for the next month???
2006-06-07 12:12 AM
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Wow! My 8 year old gets tired/bored after 2x around the track.
2006-06-07 12:49 AM
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That is awesome, I am glad that he found his sport since the baseball thing didnt turn out. For what its worth I played baseball at a high level and then started tris after my career was over. I wish I had been doing this since I was a kid. Just for the record, I don't have 68 miles logged over any 8 week period in 2006.
2006-06-07 7:33 AM
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Meredith,
I have a son who also inherited his bad eyesight from MY father. He is extremely nearsighted (myopia) and has esotropia with ambliopia in the left eye in addition to stationary night blindness. Apparently, all of this is genetic and is passed on from one male to another through the female. So I have passed it from my father to my son. It is quite rare.

None of this is terribly serious or life threatening, but it is a minor disability of sorts which I am sure has kept my son from doing any sport which involves fast moving, air born objects which must be caught, hit, kicked or swatted at due to his lack of depth perception.

My son is now 16 and in the process of learning to drive. He will have restricitions for sure.

Long story short though is that my son also found running to be a way to participate in sports. He is on his high school cross country team and has enjoyed being part of the team. He ran his first road race about 3 years ago when I was doing it for maybe the second time. He insisted on running the race with me which took place in Cambridge MA (a couple of hours from where we live) I was scared to let him run as I knew he would be behind me and there was a huge field of runners in a city we were unfamiliar with. He insisted, so I gave in. He was 13 at the time. He ended up finishing just a minute or 2 behind me. It was an incredible moment to see him cross the finish line completely unscathed and feeling quite proud of himself. A great and memorable moment for my husband and I.

Since then we have competed in many road races together and it continues to be an activity we can share as he goes through these tricky teenager years.



2006-06-07 7:37 AM
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I am going to be getting my son (6) into track and tri-ing eventually as well... He has a form of CP, and his left side doesn't work very well for him. However, I am thinking I can get him one of those recumbant bikes. Those are, for the most part, legal in tri's right?
2006-06-07 10:29 AM
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the thing about swimming, biking and running is that it is 9/10th desire

if you have some natural talent or ability, that's great

but if you have a desire to participate—you can accomplish just about anything for yourself regardless of your ability or percieved obstacles

kudos to all the folks out there who are encouraging other (the kids especially) that they can do anything they set their minds too
2006-06-07 10:47 AM
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That's awesome!

I have never had depth perception. My eyes work independently from each other (strubusiness- a birth defect)... so I could NEVER play ANY sport that required a ball flying at me... or me having to kick, catch, throw a ball. It was so hard growing up and playing sports in school w/PE... because I was ALWAYS last.

At least he is finding that he can be good at sports... that don't involve balls! It can be a real challenge for a kid to keep his/her self-esteem up, if they think they can't be good at sports.

I was very happy that I found swimming High School. If it hadn't been for that... I would have been tortured in PE until graduation. Swimming was great! And it has helped me later in life... as I am a top swimmer when I compete in tri's!

My son is now 16 and in the process of learning to drive. He will have restricitions for sure.


I don't know the extent of his problems... but .... as I said previously... I have NO depth perception. I do just fine with not hitting other vehicles and slowing down appropriately. He should be fine. When you grow up without it, you learn to compensate.


Now, I would like to add that not having depth perception has made me very leary when it comes to riding in a pack and drafting. I can't really tell when someone makes a minor speed reduction... so it makes me nervous. Oh well, at least in tri's you can't draft!




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2006-06-07 11:31 AM
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KSH - 2006-06-07 10:47 AM

That's awesome!

I have never had depth perception. My eyes work independently from each other (strubusiness- a birth defect)... so I could NEVER play ANY sport that required a ball flying at me... or me having to kick, catch, throw a ball. It was so hard growing up and playing sports in school w/PE... because I was ALWAYS last.

At least he is finding that he can be good at sports... that don't involve balls! It can be a real challenge for a kid to keep his/her self-esteem up, if they think they can't be good at sports.

I was very happy that I found swimming High School. If it hadn't been for that... I would have been tortured in PE until graduation. Swimming was great! And it has helped me later in life... as I am a top swimmer when I compete in tri's!

My son is now 16 and in the process of learning to drive. He will have restricitions for sure.


I don't know the extent of his problems... but .... as I said previously... I have NO depth perception. I do just fine with not hitting other vehicles and slowing down appropriately. He should be fine. When you grow up without it, you learn to compensate.


Now, I would like to add that not having depth perception has made me very leary when it comes to riding in a pack and drafting. I can't really tell when someone makes a minor speed reduction... so it makes me nervous. Oh well, at least in tri's you can't draft!




KSH,
You are right about the depth perception (or lack thereof). Caused by strabismus—the eyes not working together.

My son has none and we can tell when he is driving. Has trouble turning into the driveway and seems to wait too long to hit the break when traveling behind another car. Causing a few grey hairs on me and my husband. We are hoping he will develop a better feel for it with more practice.

True about learning to compensate.

I am glad that he took to the running, especially in highschool — where is so hard to fit in.

Good to hear from someone who has already been down the same road.

Thanks!
2006-06-07 12:10 PM
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Stumfossil and KSH,

Thanks for your remarks.  I have been worried about what it will be like for him later on but you have helped me out and I know that he will make it just fine.  

Last year when the kids were in swim lessons I was surprised to see that Duncan passed up his older brother and I was trying not to make that big of a deal out of it.  Now a year later I can see how he has some self esteem issues (his brother is a real advanced reader) and I really just have to let him go at his own pace and do what he really enjoys doing.   Every child is different and if this is his "calling" then so be it and we'll be there for him. 

 

I glad we have a couple of years to deal with the driving but we will cross that bridge when we get to it.

Again thanks for the input.  I so happy that we have found something he loves and is good at.  It gives him a great outlet and out look on life right now and new goals we can "tri" and look forward to. 

 



2006-06-07 12:25 PM
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You're going to be buying him a DA equipped BMC Time Machine soon with all those miles...
2006-06-07 12:45 PM
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Very cool, now you will have to really kick butt in training so he does not beat you.  lol  As a parent you can never let your kids beat you or it is over.  Seriously though congrats, kids are sooooooo cool.
2006-06-07 12:50 PM
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That is AWESOME!!!
2006-06-07 12:57 PM
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stumfossil - 2006-06-07 9:31 AM  KSH, You are right about the depth perception (or lack thereof). Caused by strabismus—the eyes not working together. My son has none and we can tell when he is driving. Has trouble turning into the driveway and seems to wait too long to hit the break when traveling behind another car. 

 Pretty sure that this is a problem with most new drivers.  My little sister does the same thing....Thanks the gods she can't drive on real roads yet!  I thyink it's just a matter of learning when you need to stop/turn.

2006-06-07 1:38 PM
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meredith - 2006-06-07 12:10 PM

Every child is different and if this is his "calling" then so be it and we'll be there for him. 

 

I glad we have a couple of years to deal with the driving but we will cross that bridge when we get to it.

Again thanks for the input.  I so happy that we have found something he loves and is good at.  It gives him a great outlet and out look on life right now and new goals we can "tri" and look forward to. 

 



Thank you Meredith!

Glad to have someone to share with

So true that every child is different and each has his own road to travel.

I think Duncan will be fine and continue to do things that amaze you.

Good luck and keep tri'ing!


2006-06-07 3:41 PM
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oh the joy of running and doing individual sports
2006-06-07 4:14 PM
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reading this thread has reminded me of a conversation i had with a good friend of mine recently. she is an orienteerer and i am pretending to be a triathlete (i'm a swimmer really). i've previously enjoyed playing football (soccer) to an amazingly low standard and got force fed field hockey and netball at school along with track and rounders.

all the sports i have done prior to my training for my first ever tri (july 2nd - ahhhh!) apart from swimming have required a certain level of co-ordination AND often speed. my school when it did track made us do 100m and long jump.

both elli and i were extoling the virtues of endurance sports and were almost religiously zealous about how much more welcoming they are than faster sports and ball sports.

reading this today makes me wish that the pe teachers out there would realise the all-encompassing nature of endurance sport and start to incorporate them into the school curriculum to ensure the duncans, the kshs and the ellis and mes have a more enjoyable and participatory pe career.



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2006-06-07 4:44 PM
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Meredith that's great, brag all you want!  Is he a BT member yet? 

My son is 6 and we just signed him up for his first tri in 2 weeks.  Swim is 100 yards and he's got the whole swim team now opening up practice with a 100 yard medley!  I'm going to help my son with BT logging until he gets the hang off it.

Don

 

2006-06-07 5:53 PM
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That is soooooo awesome. I am hoping that my older son 3 today. Young I know but enjoys exercising with mom will one day want to tri with me too. Soo cuool. Billie
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