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2012-08-06 4:09 PM

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Subject: Hey guys - tell me to HTFU and just do this race

In January I did the Bermuda Triangle Challenge and got a PR in the half-marathon.  In March, I was diagnosed with Lung Cancer (small cell, extended).  It's terminal.  With chemo, life expectancy is 6-12 months.

So I cancelled all my races for this season.  Except for the YWCA Womens Triathlon which is this Sunday.  I thought if chemo wasn't too bad I might be able to do this one - it's an easy course and there's a lot of newbies so I don't think I'll come in last.  I've been training but I'm really slow.

This last week, about every other day,  I get in a pity-pot and think I won't do this race because I'm soooooo slow (and I'm bald from the chemo).  Other days, I know I should do this race just because I can - and I should be darn grateful I can.

I don't need sympathy but I do need a kick in the butt.

Thanks, Denise

ps - I'm no longer technically LadyNorth because we moved to St. Paul last month



2012-08-06 4:33 PM
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Wow, Denise!  I'll keep the sympathy to myself, but I am sure glad you wrote this post.

I think you should do the race.   If you wanted to pick a race that is support for where YOU are at at the moment, this is the one!  There will be all type of people racing, all abilities, all with different reasons for being there. 

I don't know if you get into this kind of thing, but I am sure you will also inspire a ton of people showing up with your bald head too

I really hope you will do it.  Let us know what you decide!  I have a 15k that morning, but if I can work it out to make it to see you finish, I will be there. 

2012-08-06 4:49 PM
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Denise, it would be great if you can do it. I assume racing is a big part of what defines you. Maybe have an agreement with yourself about what conditions are for you to stay in or pull out during the race so it will be a matter of fact sort of thing. It certainly would be inspirational, but most important is what it means to you. Best Wishes, Shaun
2012-08-06 8:33 PM
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The moment I read your post I had tears in my eyes. I know you didn't want sympathy, but I couldn't help but be reminded of my mother who died of lung cancer over 8 years ago.  She was given the grim diagnosis on 12/26 and died 18 days later. She never had a chance to treat her cancer. Just because you can doesn't mean you should, but I know what I would do. Slow or fast, hair or no hair, these things don't mean a thing when it comes to the spirit of triathlon. There will be that one little girl, or one grown woman, or any number of people watching the race on Sunday who will be inspired by you...just as I am now. 

2012-08-06 10:34 PM
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Do it!  Do it!  Do it!
2012-08-06 10:55 PM
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Definitely do it!  There isn't a better, more supportive race environment for this - you'll have a blast, and have TONS of cheering and support!

I know Nicole (RD), the YWCA, and your fellow racers would love to see you out there - please do it!

Cheers, Chris



2012-08-06 11:48 PM
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Subject: RE: Hey guys - tell me to HTFU and just do this race

Let us know if you're looking for someone or somepeople to join you in your race.  I'm sure others would join in and race with you to provide you love, support and motivation. 

2012-08-07 7:59 AM
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Do it! Don't allow yourself to not do something you will regret not doing.
2012-08-07 8:05 AM
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Dear Denise,  YOU CAN DO THIS RACE!!  and you will be awesome at the race, and you will inspire so many people..!!  

Also, I will not keep my sympathy to myself.  I am sending positive triathlon thoughts to you and I am praying for you!  

Sincerely,

Love SoberTriGuy.   (Jerry)

2012-08-07 8:21 AM
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If you choose to do it, you can always cut your day short if things get to be too much--but  there's no way to go back if you don't do it and regret it later.

And I will stow my sympathy, but please know you are in my thoughts as you fight this.

2012-08-07 8:44 AM
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DO IT!  This lifestyle defines who you are!  You can do it and enjoy every minute of it, because it is who you are.  DO IT!!  ?

Inspire those around you just as you have inspired us with your post.



2012-08-07 10:42 AM
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Sending you strength, agility, endurance and motivation... (Wrapped in a big virtual hug.)

Follow your heart - make it so.

..and remember to smile....  even if it's really hard.

2012-08-07 12:20 PM
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All other considerations aside - its supposed to be a beautiful day for a Tri on Sunday.

I'm volunteering at one of the water stops, so you are guaranteed a hi-five if you do it.

So - HTFU and just do this race!

 

2012-08-07 8:26 PM
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You can do it Denise!! GO for it!  I will be sending positive thoughts and looking forward to hearing all about it!  Please share the story of your victory with us! 
2012-08-07 10:00 PM
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I'll chime in with another vote for DO IT! You are a tough lady and I know you will have a great day. I wish I was not going to be in the Dells for another race, as I'd love to come and cheer you on. Now get out there and kick some azz! Cool
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2012-08-08 10:58 AM
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Subject: RE: Hey guys - tell me to HTFU and just do this race

Denise,

Thank you for posting. I will keep the sympathy and send you positive energy. I will, however, give you a HTFU response: DO it. Why not? You said you've been training for this--that takes a lot of courage to keep at it. Keep going. You are all kinds of awesome. You will inspire so many people--showing us all what is possible.  

But more importantly, you.  Here's the question: Will you feel better doing it, even if you're slow? Or will you feel better sitting at home wondering if you should have gone? 

Being slow is no reason to stay home. Otherwise, I wouldn't be going. Laughing

I hope to see you there!

2012-08-08 12:14 PM
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BT ROCKS

You guys are great - I certainly didn't expect so much feedback.

I will race - there's no way I'd skip it after all this support - I am motivated.

Thanks guys,

Denise

2012-08-08 12:56 PM
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LadyNorth - 2012-08-08 12:14 PM

BT ROCKS

You guys are great - I certainly didn't expect so much feedback.

I will race - there's no way I'd skip it after all this support - I am motivated.

Thanks guys,

Denise

Woo-hoo!

2012-08-08 1:57 PM
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BikerGrrrl - 2012-08-08 12:56 PM
LadyNorth - 2012-08-08 12:14 PM

BT ROCKS

You guys are great - I certainly didn't expect so much feedback.

I will race - there's no way I'd skip it after all this support - I am motivated.

Thanks guys,

Denise

Woo-hoo!

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2012-08-08 4:03 PM
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Do it!!

Doing Northwoods this weekend?

LadyNorth - 2012-08-08 12:14 PM

BT ROCKS

You guys are great - I certainly didn't expect so much feedback.

I will race - there's no way I'd skip it after all this support - I am motivated.

Thanks guys,

Denise



2012-08-08 6:12 PM
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2012-08-08 8:27 PM
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leapdog - 2012-08-08 4:03 PM

Do it!!

Doing Northwoods this weekend?

LadyNorth - 2012-08-08 12:14 PM

BT ROCKS

You guys are great - I certainly didn't expect so much feedback.

I will race - there's no way I'd skip it after all this support - I am motivated.

Thanks guys,

Denise

Jeff - this weekend IS the YWCA Tri that she was wondering about.  So no, I am guessing Northwoods is out

2012-08-08 8:32 PM
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Subject: RE: Hey guys - tell me to HTFU and just do this race

Hey Denise - Will you be wearing the outfit from your profile picture (purple & black top)?  I just want to know how to look for you on course.

-Emily

2012-08-15 2:33 PM
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So how did it go ??
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