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In May of this year, I participated in a Ragnar relay with a group of friends.  Ragnar is a relay race that lasts about 24 hours and, in this case, covers about 175 miles.  My portion of the relay was 3 legs of running totaling about 24 miles.  Afterwards, my sciatic nerve was bothering me, so I took it easy leading up to the Mystic YMCA triathlon at the beginning of June.  The race was only a sprint distance, but my lack of bike training showed as my times didn’t really improve over the previous year.  I also sold my tri bike (which I regret).  Then, in June, I got sick with a bacterial infection in my intestines.  I didn’t swim, bike, or run for over 6 weeks.  That made it official that I wasn’t doing any more tris this summer. 

Without the tris, I had no goals related to fitness.  That was fine, I needed to focus on my Equine Sciences studies, and with the increasing horse hoof trimming business, it was easy to push the workouts to the back burner.  Before I knew it, I was only working out a couple of time a month.  Then my sciatic nerve started bothering me again because I was still doing occasional hard and fast runs, but didn’t really have the fitness to support the effort.  That’s when I realized, I was off the wagon. 

I haven’t done laps in the pool but twice in the past 6 months.   I haven’t ridden my bike for training but once in the same time.  I was even considering getting rid of my winter biking apparel.

Then, at dinner the other night, my 7 year old daughter asked a question completely out of the blue.  “Daddy, how do people get diabetes?”  I imagine the fact that Grandpa had just been visiting had something to do with it.  Regardless, my wife and I ended up in a conversation about diabetes and healthy life choices.  It made me realize, I had abandoned my fitness regimen, and put my health at risk.

Today I got back on the wagon.  I might fall off again, but just like in horseback riding, you have to get back on.

 

Sometimes it is good to go back and review out goals from the past.  In case you missed it, this is my story to fitness, when I got on the wagon in the first place.

In January of 2009 I was at a personal crisis with health, career, and family stress.  I knew that I could not continue on my life path in the same way without losing something; I felt like I was near the breaking point and my marriage and family were at risk.  I weighed almost 200 lbs, wore a size 38 pants, and couldn’t walk up stairs without getting winded.  My hair was always greasy and I was unhappy, mostly because of my appearance and health risks I had developed.  While only about 30 lbs overweight, in the military, that made me the fat guy.  My single biggest fear was diabetes.  The family history, my lifestyle, and my weight made me worried that every time I had blood work done, the results might indicate diabetes.

I realized the changes were within my control, and no matter how many external factors contributed to my choices to that point, I was to blame for my health.  In February 2009, I quit smoking and chewing tobacco.  I tried to develop a workout routine, but while at sea I was only able to manage 2-3 workouts a week.

In May 2009, I transferred off USS Annapolis at 195 lbs.  The job change relieved most of the professional stress and gave me the time I needed to decompress mentally.  I started a regular workout routine and set a goal to lose 20 lbs.  At first, I could only run short distances and was at >11:00/mile.  Others in my office were into cycling, so I began to use my mountain bike to ride to work occasionally.  It was 7 miles each way and took over 40 minutes when I started (about 10 mph).  I enjoyed swimming some because it was low impact; 1000 yds was a long workout at the time.

By October 2009, I had worked up to running 5-6 miles at a time, but it hurt and took a few days to recover.  A friend from the Annapolis who had started a very similar journey at the same time was preparing for his first marathon in November and was running 20 miles.  He had decided to do triathlon training after the marathon and was going to race in 2010.  Since I am a goal oriented person, triathlons seemed perfect for me to keep a varied workout schedule and continue on my fitness journey.  Along the way, my mental health had recovered and I was gaining satisfaction in all areas of my life.

The idea of competing in triathlons re-invigorated me.  I bought a used road bike and continued to occasionally bike to work.  I ran more often and faster.  I swam more.  By January 2010, I weighed 186 and realized my workouts were not resulting in the weight loss I desired.  I started to focus on my diet and, on the advice of my wife, finally began a food log in March.  I ran a half marathon (the first in my life) on February 28, 2010.  My goal was under 2 hours; I completed it in 1 hour 57 minutes (8:59/mile average pace).  Goal met.

As Spring in New England arrived, my training intensity increased a bit.  I worked out every day.  My weekly averages were usually >800 calories burned a day from exercise.  49 weeks after setting my 20 lb weight loss goal, I completed it.  I am now at 171 lbs.  I had to replace all my pants with size 34’s.  I recently completed a 2.7 mile race at a 6:59/mile pace (over 4 minutes per mile fast than a year earlier).  Now the only family stress is when I haven’t worked out and feel cooped up – my wife sends me running to fix it.

My first triathlon was the Mystic River Valley sprint triathlon in Mystic, CT on June 6th.  I wasn’t nervous, I was ready.  I had been training for 7 months.  I completed the race in 1:20:19 which was 76/254 overall, 6/15 in my age group, and my family was there to cheer me on, including a new 2.5 week old daughter.  By the way, that friend I mentioned ran the same race, also as his first triathlon, and placed 10th overall.

I no longer worry about diabetes myself; however, I worry about the rest of my family and friends.  So 1 week later, on June 13th, I biked 100 kilometers for the American Diabetes Association Tour de Cure.  I raised over $500 for the ride and it was the longest bike ride I ever completed in one day; I specifically chose that event because of the significance diabetes played in my choice of fitness.  June 17th was my second triathlon.  I’m hooked and have races planned for about every 2-3 weeks through the summer.  I chose fitness.

I have shared my story because I hope you will also choose fitness.  Start small, but dream big.



2012-11-26 8:42 PM
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Inspiring story.

Wishing you all the best in your training. 

2012-11-26 8:49 PM
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Nice!  Keep looking at the big picture. Fall down/get back up.
2012-11-26 9:53 PM
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thanks for taking the time to write that. I saw myself in the same situation. I'm down 40 lbs 4 pant sizes. Thanks to people like you and others on this board I stay motivated. The thought of going back to that person I was scares the s^&t out of me. Keep up the good work and again, thanks...
2012-11-26 10:24 PM
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I honestly haven't been here on the board for the past few months.  It made it easier to justify not working out.  Coming here made me guilty. 

 

I have decided it guilt makes me work out, I need guilt.

2012-11-27 12:43 AM
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Inspiring story. Thanks for posting it. Smile


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Remember, the best people shine when it gets tough. Keep coming back, and good luck!
2012-11-27 4:48 AM
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sawfish99 - 2012-11-26 11:24 PM

I have decided it guilt makes me work out, I need guilt.

Get on your feet cupcake!!!! Get your sorry butt in the saddle and your feet on the road. NOW!!!

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Great story.
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Great story.
2012-11-27 10:34 AM
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This is a great story.

Looking back at my own path it seems to me those we start fitness to loose weight fail to redefine their driver once the weight has been lost.

I too started to loose weight and now at 203lbs (6'6") comments about me being to skinny, make the original driver of weight loss obsolete.

Now starting into my 2013 season with the 70.3 Austin at the final race I need to do some soul searching in order to understand what drives me, what drives my motivation?

Once I manage to understand my inner desire I will put this on a big piece of paper and display it proudly in my house.

I believe this way I will remind myself about the "WHY?" and thereby stay on track.

In your case, you are aware of your inner driver. It seems you just forgot, thankfully your kid reminded you. Maybe a poster, note, quote or just a picture of something near and dear to your heart on display will keep your memory fresh and thereby aid you in staying on track, BEFORE you fall of the wagon?



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Congratulations!!  Well done.
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Thank YOU for posting this and providing YOUR story!  May you continue your journey and keep improving, and welcome back to getting healthier!
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Thanks for all the encouragement.
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