How tight should a wet suit fit?

I always feel like a circus bear stuffed into a prophylactic when I put mine on, if that gives you any idea how it feels.  They're tight. Many people feel claustrophobic in them when they get into the water because the pressure around your chest seems to make you feel that breathing is more difficult.

Once you do stuff your shoulders into the suit, how does it feel? Does it constrict your movement? 

I still haven't worn a tri wetsuit, but I am a scuba diver and those suits are really thick and restrict your movement bad.

Personally I have just gotten used to wearing them over the years.

Seems to me that tight is good, except in the shoulders where yuo have to swing your arms. Everything else doesn't matter much.

The tighter the better--in the right places, like the others said. Otherwise water starts to circulate inside the suit and negates its purpose. You only want some water in it that warms up and provides insulation. You'll get used to wearing a wetsuit. Just don't wait until race day to try it out. Do a few practice OWSs in it beforehand.

Rocky, I think the only way we can truly help you is for you to glide your little butterball into the suit, take pics, and post them so we can evaluate the fit.

Front, side, back will do.

I am totally serious.

Well like I said on sunday morning I am not even ready to look at myself in a cycling jersey let alone, the ridicule from the pictures you request. 

 You all have answered my question and I will eventually have to wear it in public so you can take all the photos you want.