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2010-06-03 11:43 PM

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Subject: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
I must admit that my guilty pleasure over the summer is watching America's Got Talent. I also watch So You Think You Can Dance because my wife and daughter enjoy it. Half the fun is watching the people who have no talent or can't dance (in fact, for the Dance show, I actually stop watching once the auditions are over and the crazies are gone). I realize that some of these "losers" are just smart-azzes trying to get some fame, but some of these people are actually disappointed when they're told that they can't dance or have no talent. And I'm not talking about the borderline folks who have a shot if they just practiced more. I'm talking about the flat out losers who have no hope.

What goes through these people's minds? I mean, they're not children. Are they delusional? Do they have an inflated self-image? Have they just lived a sheltered life? Help me understand why these people would waste other people's time and think that they even have a chance.


2010-06-04 7:44 AM
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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
I ask the same questions! And it pizzes me off that they are soooo clueless, yet they are allowed to vote AND their vote counts as much as my vote! Sheesh!

I honestly think there are a lot of people out there with various forms of dysmorphia, but a narcissistic dymorphia, where they see themselves as being much better than they really are (dysmorphia is usually seeing flaws that aren't there.) In fact, I think we could firmly establish a new form of dysmorphia: SYTYCD dysmorphia.

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2010-06-04 8:56 AM
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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
90% of everybody is certain they're above average.
2010-06-04 9:17 AM
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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
Yeah, and what about all those people at triathlons who can't swim, bike, and/or run worth a hoot? What exactly are they doing out there?

Who am I to question anyone's motivations, intentions, or self-perceptions?
2010-06-04 9:42 AM
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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
The directors search out these folks.  You just made their point, you start watching the show due to the displays of embaressment.  May not be as random as you think.   There are tryouts before the tryouts and they make sure to have the right balance of those who will move on and those who will make an idiot of themselves.  
2010-06-04 10:46 AM
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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
If someone is doing something the enjoy, who am I to question it as long as it does not harm others (For instance on AGT, an arsonist should not be able to burn down a building simply to show their skill and choosing/creating accelerants )


2010-06-04 11:13 AM
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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
I think that many of these people dont have a clue because nobody has told them they cant dance. In most cases I suspect to find extremely biased parents telling their kids how good they are and that they should audition.

Just look at American Idol. How many times do they show the crazies leaving the audition room to find their parents outside telling them its ok and the judges have no idea what theyre talking about. Really parents, you're not doing your kid a favor by letting them get embarrassed on national TV.

That being said, if you enjoy dancing, dance. Who cares what others think? Just realize that just because you enjoy dancing doesnt mean you should go on SYTYCD.
2010-06-04 11:13 AM
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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
Tundra_Man - 2010-06-04 6:56 AM 90% of everybody is certain they're above average.


Fortunately 50% of us are.
2010-06-04 11:35 AM
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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
My boss at my old job had a son who was a "prop comedian."  One morning he came into work and excitedly told us that said son was going to be a contestant on "60 Seconds To Fame," that Fox show from a few years back.  I was a bit askeered because I had watched a few episodes prior and prop comics do notoriously bad on the show.  Especially those who, on their websites, use words like ZANY!! CRAZY!! WACKY!! to describe themselves, which this guy had.

So the show came on, and out trotted this guy.  He proceeded to remove his shirt and affix toilet plungers to his chest, forehead, and back, whilst doing some sort of ZANY!! CRAZY!! WACKY!! dance.  That was it.  That was his act.  He lasted all of about 20 seconds.

The next morning, I snuck into work at 6 AM, and affixed a single toliet plunger to my boss' desk.  I went home and came back in at my normal time.  Um, let's just say he was not amused.

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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...

tealeaf - 2010-06-04 9:35 AM  

The next morning, I snuck into work at 6 AM, and affixed a single toliet plunger to my boss' desk.  I went home and came back in at my normal time.  Um, let's just say he was not amused.

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You sir are a CRAZY, WACKY fellow!

2010-06-04 11:43 AM
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tealeaf - 2010-06-04 9:35 AM  

The next morning, I snuck into work at 6 AM, and affixed a single toliet plunger to my boss' desk.  I went home and came back in at my normal time.  Um, let's just say he was not amused.

Cool

You sir are a CRAZY, WACKY fellow!



I could have lasted 21 seconds. 


2010-06-04 11:45 AM
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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
tealeaf - 2010-06-04 11:35 AM
The next morning, I snuck into work at 6 AM, and affixed a single toliet plunger to my boss' desk.  I went home and came back in at my normal time.  Um, let's just say he was not amused.


This is gold.
2010-06-04 11:54 AM
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Subject: RE: People with no talent, people who can't dance...
bel83 - 2010-06-04 10:46 AM

If someone is doing something the enjoy, who am I to question it as long as it does not harm others (For instance on AGT, an arsonist should not be able to burn down a building simply to show their skill and choosing/creating accelerants )


I completely agree. If someone likes to dance they can dance all they want in their homes, at a club, wherever. Heck, every year my daughter and I go to the father-daughter ball and have the best time dancing. But I'd never think that my dancing would win any sort of dance competition unless the competition involved dancing that most closely resembled a seizure disorder.

I guess my issue involves broader societal implications. What happens when someone with this type of mentality does get into a situation where they can cause some harm?

"But I enjoy my job and I was trying my best! It's not my fault that the patient died/my client lost a big case/$1 million is unaccounted for."
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