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Oh no, I questioned myself looooooong before this clown came into the picture. I have spent my lifetime thinking and re-thinking things I have done and said to death! It's one of those things I do.

Yeah we chicks are complicated. We take things more to heart, IN GENERAL not in all cases, then men do.

That is not to say that there is ANYTHING wrong with caring about what the other person thinks. In fact it's really important or I would not be rolling this around in my mind like a marble in the bathtub.