TAN # 175: ArtisTAN quality made (Page 19)

NRG42 - 2012-07-11 2:46 PM

I know lust!

NRG42 - 2012-07-11 2:47 PM

Did you just let it go?

mehaner - 2012-07-11 1:48 PM

at the time i thought it was love, but now i can see perfectly clearly that it didn't even resemble love.

NRG42 - 2012-07-11 11:43 AM Hey TAN, anyone ever fall in love with someone where the relationship was almost impossible to manage or maintain?

mehaner - 2012-07-11 1:48 PM

at the time i thought it was love, but now i can see perfectly clearly that it didn't even resemble love.

trinnas - 2012-07-11 1:48 PM

I got hurt, a lot, but ultimately yes.

 

NRG42 - 2012-07-11 2:43 PM Hey TAN, anyone ever fall in love with someone where the relationship was almost impossible to manage or maintain?

NRG42 - 2012-07-11 11:54 AM

can you be "just friends" after?

trinnas - 2012-07-11 12:02 PM

Shoot I wish mine had at least ended this well.

trinnas - 2012-07-11 12:06 PM

And here comes the rain!!!  Great I am going to get soaked again!

 

NRG42 - 2012-07-11 11:54 AM

can you be "just friends" after?

Teejaay - 2012-07-11 2:00 PM

I've tried .. but I don't think we can ever be just friends because I miss all the other parts we had.  Polite and caring to each other, sure .. but not close like when we were together.  That kind of emotional intimacy is gone.  That is what I keep as my gift for the special man in my life that gives that also to me.

NRG42 - 2012-07-11 3:19 PM

I met someone about a year ago, I was out running and a bad storm moved in very quickly.  In order to save my phone and ipod, i sought the closest shelter.  I went into a small bar right off Mich ave.  I sat down at the bar soaking wet and a man was next to me texting on his phone.  He was smirking and laughing at his text messages as he looked up at me.  When our eyes met, I'll be honest we both knew immediately, there was spark(talked about it at a later date).

When I asked him what he was laughng at he told me about a new women he had met, and within minutes he told me he fell in love with her and never thought he could be so happy.  The storm continued and we chatted, he bought me a drink and then we shared a dessert.  The night passed quickly and it need to end.  We both left and then he turn as I went to walk away, and said I will be in chicago for the next 5 days, have lunch with me tomorrow.  We hung out every day with a few hands being held and one long kiss when he left, I kissed him. 

We have remained FREINDS thourghout the year, with emails, talks and what are you up to.  I hoped our paths would cross in the future.  Well, I got my wish.  He is single and he now landed a business (short-term) deal in Chicago.  He lives in Cali, he has two children 13-16 and we seen each other quite a bit over the past three weeks. 

The days, nights have been magical and the spark, chemistry between us.....well amazing.  I dont want it to end but him leaving today for a week is a harsh reality and I understand all the pieces of the puzzle. He is not interested in a long term relationship.

The heat got turned up last night, but both were smart in knowing to not go there until we know the expectations and boundries of the relationship.   So do I enjoy it while it last and call a spade a spade, knowing it cant be what I want it to be.  Or do we remain happy with what we had for the time being and see where life takes us in later years of life? 

NRG42 - 2012-07-11 12:19 PM

I met someone about a year ago, I was out running and a bad storm moved in very quickly.  In order to save my phone and ipod, i sought the closest shelter.  I went into a small bar right off Mich ave.  I sat down at the bar soaking wet and a man was next to me texting on his phone.  He was smirking and laughing at his text messages as he looked up at me.  When our eyes met, I'll be honest we both knew immediately, there was spark(talked about it at a later date).

When I asked him what he was laughng at he told me about a new women he had met, and within minutes he told me he fell in love with her and never thought he could be so happy.  The storm continued and we chatted, he bought me a drink and then we shared a dessert.  The night passed quickly and it need to end.  We both left and then he turn as I went to walk away, and said I will be in chicago for the next 5 days, have lunch with me tomorrow.  We hung out every day with a few hands being held and one long kiss when he left, I kissed him. 

We have remained FREINDS thourghout the year, with emails, talks and what are you up to.  I hoped our paths would cross in the future.  Well, I got my wish.  He is single and he now landed a business (short-term) deal in Chicago.  He lives in Cali, he has two children 13-16 and we seen each other quite a bit over the past three weeks. 

The days, nights have been magical and the spark, chemistry between us.....well amazing.  I dont want it to end but him leaving today for a week is a harsh reality and I understand all the pieces of the puzzle. He is not interested in a long term relationship.

The heat got turned up last night, but both were smart in knowing to not go there until we know the expectations and boundries of the relationship.   So do I enjoy it while it last and call a spade a spade, knowing it cant be what I want it to be.  Or do we remain happy with what we had for the time being and see where life takes us in later years of life?