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Men: If you are looking to date a woman 40+, are you looking for her to have your babies?
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Yes. I expect her to have my babies.1 Votes - [1.85%]
No. I don't expect her to have my babies.30 Votes - [55.56%]
no, but it'd be great if she still likes to practice "trying" to make one.16 Votes - [29.63%]
Either way, I'd be put off if she brought it up on the first date3 Votes - [5.56%]
Yes, I would expect her to have boobies.2 Votes - [3.7%]
I would be glad to find her unable to have kids!1 Votes - [1.85%]
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2012-06-04 9:35 PM
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Subject: RE: Men: If you are looking to date a woman 40+, are you looking for her to have your babies?
Gaarryy - 2012-06-04 10:13 AM

Hey Karen..

This is the reason I usually date women 40+.  I don't want to have children.  and in that dating range while I will hear women say that they are open to the thought of having kids, when you really talk with them about it they don't. since the timeline reallyl doesn't add up. ? A year or so of dating, being married apx a year then the 9 month preg. puts the woman around mid 40's   .

it's the women from 34-39 that I meet that are really looking for someone to have children with.  Again only my experiences. but it's seems to be pretty true for the other guys I know my age {45}

That's why I would rather date a single divorced  mom, that has had children and doesn't want more, over a never been married that is hoping to still have kids

ETA.. it doesn't bother or faze me when a woman brings up kids on the first date,  It's something that's important to her and I agree I'd rather know much sooner than later

This is where the tension comes. Speaking as a relatively-youthful-looking, never-married, childless woman in my early 40's, I can see how women in my shoes would worry about being mistaken for this.  But not first date, no.  Even when I was starting a relationship a few years ago, the "(probably) no kids" conversation didn't come about until we were starting to get serious.  He was a bit younger, and childless, so he needed to know... but not on the first or second date.

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