spokes - 2007-11-19 12:53 AM
TriAya - 2007-11-18 10:49 PM
He just turned 38. He took me out for his birthday. 
Frequency--he's a one-hit wonder (first time, I did manage to squeeze two out of him). Duration ... minimal. Single-digit minutes. We manage to string out the preliminaries pretty far, which is great and it helps, but still ...
Viagra will help with the erection issue, and recovery, perhaps, but a quick trigger... you could juice him up and then apply ice cubes when he gets ready to blow... LOL.
Chances are, if he's this way now, he's *always* been this way. That sucks. From a guy's perspective, I can't really offer much advice. I can see being really excited if its the first time or two that you've been together, but my own experience has been that:
a) her pleasure comes first (not to make a pun).
b) You get out of it, as a guy, what you put into it (that also sounds like a pun, does it not?).
Yanti, I don't know what to say, there are lots of aspects to a relationship, the physical one seems to fade over time (unfortunately)