Subject: RE: A Poet's Response to Laura Bush's Invitation (long)surfwallace - 2007-09-18 7:46 AM Politics aside. If I am throwing a party, I would rank the declining RSVP's as follows: 1. Thank you, but I can't make it (Good) 2. No because I don't agree with your politics (Not bad, but it's just a party you big goof) 3. The idea is great but the idea of breaking bread with you nauseates me (Are you f*cking kidding me?) Yeah, I gotta say, this strikes me as pretty lame. The reasoning that a husband does something atrocious and the wife, by virtue of not publicly berating him, must agree and support him and is therefore culpable for this atrocious thing. Well, that's just not right. If my husband said something at a party ) that I found obnoxious (assuming we didn't know the people well, I would wait till we were in private to call him out. That does not mean I agree with or condone his statement. Especially, if my husband screwed up at work, that really wouldn't have anything to do with me, even though we both work in the same field. Laura Bush is not a politician and not a decider, she's Bush's wife. I really think Olds is taking out her frustration on the wrong person... |