for what it is worth, i just started counting calories, i find it very easy to comsume 2800 calories in a day. I avoid fast food and processed foods and eat a lot of fruit and veggies. Have larger breakfast 6-800 calories, and eat every two hours.
ex
breakkie: 2 eggs and wheat toast with a touch of butter, bannana and glass of 2% milk 8am
snack: peach or bannana 10am
lunch: salad with grilled chix or hamburger with pickle 1 slice of cheese no bread tuna from water light mayo on wheat bread type lunch, 12 noon
snack: pretzels or nuts 12 noon
snack: apple or orange 2pm
snack: item varies usually carrots or fruit 4pm
dinner: grilled chix, broiled pork or steak, veggie on the side, sometimes potato 6pm
snack: cherries, or some pretzels or other fruit 8pm
i find it hard to not go over 3000 calories.
I also weigh 230 and workout 6-10 hours a week, and according to Livestrong, this should net me a 2lb loss a week, my goal is 215 by October 4th. I find myself hungry all day long, and have no problem consuming the food. I guess we are all different. with no diet and just excercise, i am down from 262 a year ago. These last 15-20lbs are the hardest so far.
Good luck!!!