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2005-12-29 9:27 PM
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TriComet - 2005-12-29 9:07 PM

See, so much to learn from BT!

tyrant - 2005-12-29 8:56 PM Alot of good advice here.... now i know how im gonna dump my GF... we shall "go on a break," when i tsart back at school. Thanx



and she thpought that tri training was bad BC i spent money on it. she will have 2 reasons soon.


2005-12-29 9:31 PM
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Oh, no. That is just terrible. Why are you waiting when you go back to school? Do it now.

tyrant - 2005-12-29 10:27 PM
TriComet - 2005-12-29 9:07 PM

See, so much to learn from BT!

tyrant - 2005-12-29 8:56 PM Alot of good advice here.... now i know how im gonna dump my GF... we shall "go on a break," when i tsart back at school. Thanx

and she thpought that tri training was bad BC i spent money on it. she will have 2 reasons soon.
2005-12-30 8:46 AM
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Although I'm having a really difficult time understanding exactly what the problem here is, I think I can offer some advice for the forlorn male.

Teasers is on Duval Street in Key West.

You're only sad until the next time you get to_________. 

Beer..helping _______ men get ________ since 1862.

2005-12-30 2:42 PM
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I just wanted to throw out that I'm another happily married woman who survived a break! I broke up with hubby, 8 months later, I realized that was the STUPIDEST mistake of my life. I went back to him on my hands and knees and after lots of grovelling and explaining, he took me back. There was some trust to rebuild, but about 3 years after that, we got married, and have been for 3.5 years. I was really lucky he opened his heart back up to me... Good luck!  Don't be fooled, even if she initiated this, it's not that easy on her either.  Take care of YOU now, and the rewards will be there later.

 

2005-12-30 7:09 PM
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TriComet - 2005-12-29 9:31 PM

Oh, no. That is just terrible. Why are you waiting when you go back to school? Do it now.

tyrant - 2005-12-29 10:27 PM
TriComet - 2005-12-29 9:07 PM

See, so much to learn from BT!

tyrant - 2005-12-29 8:56 PM Alot of good advice here.... now i know how im gonna dump my GF... we shall "go on a break," when i tsart back at school. Thanx

and she thpought that tri training was bad BC i spent money on it. she will have 2 reasons soon.


i start on the 9th. now is basically when i start.
2005-12-31 1:15 AM
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slovegreen - 2005-12-30 2:42 PM

Don't be fooled, even if she initiated this, it's not that easy on her either. 


i do not want anyone to misconstrew my thing. its not easy to dump my gf but i understand that we CAN NOT work out. "take a break" when school starts is the "best break" i see!

edit: what else should i say "you havent fu$%ed me in 6 months. you spend my money, and that sucks now that im a poor college student."

Edited by tyrant 2005-12-31 1:25 AM

2005-12-31 10:59 AM
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TriComet - 2005-12-29 10:31 PM

Oh, no. That is just terrible. Why are you waiting when you go back to school? Do it now.

tyrant - 2005-12-29 10:27 PM
TriComet - 2005-12-29 9:07 PM

See, so much to learn from BT!

tyrant - 2005-12-29 8:56 PM Alot of good advice here.... now i know how im gonna dump my GF... we shall "go on a break," when i tsart back at school. Thanx

and she thpought that tri training was bad BC i spent money on it. she will have 2 reasons soon.



I agree w/ TriComet. It sucks doing it around the holidays, but the last thing you need her to think is that she's starting out 2006 with a guy she loves and loves her back and is fully committed to her. (Although, if you have big New Year's plans, I kind of understand that you may want to wait until after the day to do it..but you need to use your own discretion on that.) Why are you waiting until you go back to school? Please don't tell me that you go to different schools and will wait until you both return so you can do it via email or over the phone. And, please don't use school as the excuse - tell her the truth!

Good luck. I hope the "break" helps you guys both get what you want out of life.
2005-12-31 12:57 PM
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LaurenSU02 - 2005-12-31 10:59 AM

TriComet - 2005-12-29 10:31 PM

Oh, no. That is just terrible. Why are you waiting when you go back to school? Do it now.

tyrant - 2005-12-29 10:27 PM
TriComet - 2005-12-29 9:07 PM

See, so much to learn from BT!

tyrant - 2005-12-29 8:56 PM Alot of good advice here.... now i know how im gonna dump my GF... we shall "go on a break," when i tsart back at school. Thanx

and she thpought that tri training was bad BC i spent money on it. she will have 2 reasons soon.



I agree w/ TriComet. It sucks doing it around the holidays, but the last thing you need her to think is that she's starting out 2006 with a guy she loves and loves her back and is fully committed to her. (Although, if you have big New Year's plans, I kind of understand that you may want to wait until after the day to do it..but you need to use your own discretion on that.) Why are you waiting until you go back to school? Please don't tell me that you go to different schools and will wait until you both return so you can do it via email or over the phone. And, please don't use school as the excuse - tell her the truth!

Good luck. I hope the "break" helps you guys both get what you want out of life.


we currently live together. i will do it face to face, but i need the time to get arrangments for my living situation. i think she sees it coming though, we fight every day it seems like, we arent intimate, we dont even say "i love you." we act like an old bitter married couple, like ramonds parents in "everybody loves raymond." just for an example, last night she left me at the bar to hang out with a "friend," i didnt even have a ride. i asked her not to leave, and she rolled her eyes. it seems like the past 6 months we have been broken up but we havent said it. i guess i feel that our relationship is like a sick old dog, and i have to "pull the trigger" to put us out of our misery.

rant over, and sorry about the hijack.
2005-12-31 1:27 PM
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Got it. It sounds like it needs to be done. Good luck.
2005-12-31 1:37 PM
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LaurenSU02 - 2005-12-31 1:27 PM

Got it. It sounds like it needs to be done. Good luck.


thanks. just wanted to clear my name on BT, before all the tri hotties think im some kind of monster.
2005-12-31 2:50 PM
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Yes, good luck. Why would someone leave someone at the bar?!? What about compromise? Sheesh.

2005-12-31 3:00 PM
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TriComet - 2005-12-31 2:50 PM

Yes, good luck. Why would someone leave someone at the bar?!? What about compromise? Sheesh.


to be fair though, its the bar that i always go to, and i know a ton of people so getting a ride home wasnt hard... (i make freinds easy). there hasnt been compromise in a long time. its what she wants. and i have talked with her about the fact that i feel like a pet. thanks for the support.
2005-12-31 7:12 PM
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I haven't read the other posts, so I apologize if I'm redundant.

I have two things to say, one cynical, one real.

1) Getting in tri shape is the BEST revenge and if she wants you then, too bad, she should have loved you before you had an 8-pack.

2) If you are still in college, a break might not be a bad thing. Sometimes when we are younger we need to step away for a little while to see what it is we have and what we really want. If you do get back together and make it to the altar, you will know that neither of you will be wondering "what if I examined the world for a while". You will know that it was an informed, loving decision to be together. I am sad for you and I wish you the best of luck.
2006-01-01 2:32 PM
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tyrant-what you describe is way past "done". Hit the road and don't look back!


my 2cents

PK_ Lots of good thoughts from people here- best in my opinion is focus on you and your goals-see where it goes.....
2006-01-01 2:38 PM
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wait a minute, wait a minute,

now...what about them seminar girls?

2006-01-01 6:44 PM
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Thought I'd read this thread as my BF and I broke up last week. And he's been dating someone else since the day we broke up... Go figure.

We needed to end our relationship though, so I'm kind of ok with the fact that we aren't together. We weren't right for each other. Kinda irritating that he's already dating someone who he told me "we're just friends" only a few days ago. Oh well. Live and learn.

tyrant - here's my advice to you (and everyone else too). It's something I read the other day in The Kite Runner (excellent book, btw):
"It's better to be hurt by the truth than comforted by lies"
I'm not at all implying that you're planning on lying, but I thought this was a very cool comment that everyone should live by. It really is true.

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