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BernardDogs - 2013-04-03 10:24 AM

This is because we're conditioned by the ads that generate the revenue. 

Sorry, there isn't an ad in this world that's going to condition me to believe that watching the WNBA is as entertaining as the NBA.  But I would really like to see the attempt.



You don't think that is a product of how you've been conditioned to view women as other than competitive? 



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But it just deflects from the bigger conversation that we're so hesitant to have. That professional athletics remain, primarily, a man's game. 

Are you also a champion for the male models of the world who don't receive the equivalent pay of their female counterparts?

 



Refer to my thoughts on the "exceptions" game above. 

2013-04-03 9:44 AM
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BernardDogs - 2013-04-03 10:24 AM

This is because we're conditioned by the ads that generate the revenue. 

Sorry, there isn't an ad in this world that's going to condition me to believe that watching the WNBA is as entertaining as the NBA.  But I would really like to see the attempt.



You do think that is a product of how you've been conditioned to view women as other than competitive? 

No, I love womens sports.  Socccer, swimming, tennis and plenty more I enjoy as much, if not more, as the men - usually depending on the personalities at the time.  I would love more coverage of womens cycling.  In fact, I probably paid closer attention to the women's Olympic sports than the men.  Nobody that watches the coverage of the Olympics, for example, will leave with the impression that women are less competitive than men.

However, in many sports, the disparity in the quality of play is just too pronounced.  Womens basketball, for example.  No doubt they are exceptional athletes, but the entertainment value is low - for me.



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1_Mad_Madone - 2013-04-03 10:12 AM

It's why Danica Patrick is offered a different type of commercial than any other professional race car driver ... where she's valued more for eye candy .... 

Better look around... My wife sure is "fond" of Denny Hamlin based on his commercial a few years ago... She asks me every once in a while if "It's Denny Time" then laughs at me.... 

...without needing to objectify women in the process.

Regarding the assertion above that my thoughts will turn bike races into funerals ... that's just another attempt to exaggerate what I'm trying to say to the point of pointing me out as a fool.  If I'm a fool, then we can go back to how it's always been.

Agree, but advertising is exactly that be it a man or woman. 

No fools here just a discussion.

IMO It "is" as it has always been only changing...

Danica may not be making as much $$$ on the Track but she is crushing the boys in the $$$ department off the track.

If asked I would guarantee she would opt for the opposite. But I would also say she would take both!

2013-04-03 9:46 AM
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BernardDogs - 2013-04-03 10:39 AM
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But it just deflects from the bigger conversation that we're so hesitant to have. That professional athletics remain, primarily, a man's game. 

Are you also a champion for the male models of the world who don't receive the equivalent pay of their female counterparts?

 



Refer to my thoughts on the "exceptions" game above. 

I didn't see many thoughts.  If you are concerned about inequality of pay based on gender in one industry, why not another?

2013-04-03 9:47 AM
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It's why Danica Patrick is offered a different type of commercial than any other professional race car driver ... where she's valued more for eye candy .... 

Better look around... My wife sure is "fond" of Denny Hamlin based on his commercial a few years ago... She asks me every once in a while if "It's Denny Time" then laughs at me.... 

...without needing to objectify women in the process.

Regarding the assertion above that my thoughts will turn bike races into funerals ... that's just another attempt to exaggerate what I'm trying to say to the point of pointing me out as a fool.  If I'm a fool, then we can go back to how it's always been.

Agree, but advertising is exactly that be it a man or woman. 

No fools here just a discussion.

IMO It "is" as it has always been only changing...

Danica may not be making as much $$$ on the Track but she is crushing the boys in the $$$ department off the track.

If asked I would guarantee she would opt for the opposite. But I would also say she would take both!

I would need to be convinced of that. I'm doubtful that such is the case. But I could be wrong.



2013-04-03 9:51 AM
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Has she released a statement yet?  Maybe Sagan and her know each other and have a "joking" type relationship.  Yes he was wrong for doing it in such a manor while in the eyes of the press and public.  We really don't know the whole side of the story.  If they know each other maybe they have an understanding, I don't know this and it's just an opinion.  I personally would love to hear her side of the story so we can make an educated decision.  I'm just pointing out there could be a lot more to the story than any of us know.

Now that said, I in no way condone what he did nor am I making any excuses for his poor judgement.  I simply would like to know both sides of the story.  He took the first step by apologizing to the media.  Let's see where it goes from here and his (or the teams) next step.

Just my two cents.

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It's why Danica Patrick is offered a different type of commercial than any other professional race car driver ... where she's valued more for eye candy .... 

Better look around... My wife sure is "fond" of Denny Hamlin based on his commercial a few years ago... She asks me every once in a while if "It's Denny Time" then laughs at me.... 

I can play the "exceptions" game all day long. We can start with testimonies of models who don't "like it". 

But it just deflects from the bigger conversation that we're so hesitant to have. That professional athletics remain, primarily, a man's game. We're hesitant to have it because we might actually come to the realization that we should share better. Especially the revenue streams that feed the machine. Right now, the male athletes get the huge majority of the small portions of that revenue that trickle down. This is because we're conditioned by the ads that generate the revenue. From the guy who's laughed at, in his skirt, for choosing the wrong beer to the podium girls who give it up for the winners.

I think it warrants interruption.  We can still find plenty to smile about regarding a healthy competition without needing to objectify women in the process.

Regarding the assertion above that my thoughts will turn bike races into funerals ... that's just another attempt to exaggerate what I'm trying to say to the point of pointing me out as a fool.  If I'm a fool, then we can go back to how it's always been.

Talk about jumping to conclusions! 

2013-04-03 9:54 AM
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BernardDogs - 2013-04-03 10:47 AM 

I would need to be convinced of that. I'm doubtful that such is the case. But I could be wrong.

This list has her #8 in 2011, and much of that was just based on Indy earnings.

http://www.forbes.com/sites/kurtbadenhausen/2012/02/22/nascars-highest-paid-drivers/

 

2013-04-03 9:55 AM
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Burd - 2013-04-03 10:51 AM

Has she released a statement yet?  

No matter what she says, she would be attacked.  No statement is probably the best thing for her career.

 

2013-04-03 9:57 AM
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It's why Danica Patrick is offered a different type of commercial than any other professional race car driver ... where she's valued more for eye candy .... 

Better look around... My wife sure is "fond" of Denny Hamlin based on his commercial a few years ago... She asks me every once in a while if "It's Denny Time" then laughs at me.... 

I can play the "exceptions" game all day long. We can start with testimonies of models who don't "like it". 

But it just deflects from the bigger conversation that we're so hesitant to have. That professional athletics remain, primarily, a man's game. We're hesitant to have it because we might actually come to the realization that we should share better. Especially the revenue streams that feed the machine. Right now, the male athletes get the huge majority of the small portions of that revenue that trickle down. This is because we're conditioned by the ads that generate the revenue. From the guy who's laughed at, in his skirt, for choosing the wrong beer to the podium girls who give it up for the winners.

I think it warrants interruption.  We can still find plenty to smile about regarding a healthy competition without needing to objectify women in the process.

Regarding the assertion above that my thoughts will turn bike races into funerals ... that's just another attempt to exaggerate what I'm trying to say to the point of pointing me out as a fool.  If I'm a fool, then we can go back to how it's always been.

Talk about jumping to conclusions! 



That's not what I meant. But I can see how it was interpreted that way. I meant "give it up" in a more general sense of "now I'll step up onto this podium, kiss a guy I've never met, and have my a$$ grabbed in the process". I think think they're giving something up in that sort of scenario. Or asked to give it up. 


2013-04-03 9:58 AM
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Burd - 2013-04-03 10:51 AM

Has she released a statement yet?  Maybe Sagan and her know each other and have a "joking" type relationship.  Yes he was wrong for doing it in such a manor while in the eyes of the press and public.  We really don't know the whole side of the story.  If they know each other maybe they have an understanding, I don't know this and it's just an opinion.  I personally would love to hear her side of the story so we can make an educated decision.  I'm just pointing out there could be a lot more to the story than any of us know.

Now that said, I in no way condone what he did nor am I making any excuses for his poor judgement.  I simply would like to know both sides of the story.  He took the first step by apologizing to the media.  Let's see where it goes from here and his (or the teams) next step.

Just my two cents.



I'm going with the simplest, most-likely scenario. That usually plays. Rationalize much? 
2013-04-03 10:01 AM
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Never really was insulted by podium girls before.  They always seemed to be a little weird to me, although the women do appear to enjoy their job (but I have been told that some women are good at faking it). 

I wonder what the riders think of it.  Do you always get a kiss.  Certainly wouldn't be something that I would look forward to.

I have no desire to see them, or for professional cheerleaders (an exception for those that are clearly skilled and provide a spectacle of their own).

I am not necessarily offended by paying someone just to look good.   After all, everyone has their own collection of skills.

2013-04-03 10:04 AM
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Bernard - I NEVER assumed "she liked it"......in fact, I would be more inclined to think she didn't like it.  That doesn't change anything I wrote. 

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Dude, they're models.....they like their jobs...ask a woman who is a model. 

 

Left Brain - 2013-04-03 10:26 AM

On another note.....I have 4 daughters.......trust me when I tell you that they don't need "validation" for any of their endeavors. 

As for Danica.....I don't hear her whining.  Probably because she perfectly understands that if you're going to make "Go Daddy" commercials with the innuendos that they contain (and take the $$$$ that comes from it), you're going to have to be able to deal with the perceptions of some idiots.

In short......you don't give women enough credit....they don't need your help in standing up for themselves. 



Like you, I live in a house full of women. But I don't do this interruption stuff primarily for them. I also work in a position that has to confront college aged men who have never been taught the meaning of consent. I hear every sexual assault case that is brought to the attention of our conduct office at the University at which I work.

Certainly, I'm interested in a creating  a world where my daughters attend a university that looks different from the one I attended ... or the one currently defined by the numbers of assaults by clueless men. I've been doing this work since my daughters were very young. One attends the college at which I work right now and the other is about to decide where she'll attend next year. Sadly, in the 20 years that has spanned that time, things haven't changed (I have stats). Mostly, because men feel entitled to perpetuate the mentality that never challenges and dissects the sort of behavior presented by the actions captured in the OP's submission.

We, as men, are defined by the least of our peers. Fair or not, that's true. This is me trying to improve that. With all due respect (and you're due quite a bit ... I've gained quite a bit over the past 2 years listening to what you have to say), you don't give men enough credit for recognizing what's in it for them to begin this sort of interruption. 

Bernard, I said they like their jobs....I said I'm quite sure she didn't like the pinch...so don't put words in my mouth.

As for your other point....no way am I defined by the least of my peers....no way in hell.  I understand what you are trying to do here,  but you're painting with an awful big brush.  And maybe you're right, I don't  "give men enough credit for recognizing what's in it for the to begin this sort of interruption"....but I'll tell you this, I sure as hell know what's in it for them if they pinch one of my daughter's arses in that situation, and it won't take any intervention from me or you.

Again, I don't think you give women enough credit.

 

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Left Brain - 2013-04-03 11:04 AM

Again, I don't think you give women enough credit. 

There will be some that agree with you. I'm really not doing this "for" women. Not as my primary motivation, anyway. It really is a men's issue.
 

2013-04-03 10:12 AM
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You will stop having podium girls when men stop looking at attractive women, good luck.  As for the pinch, I'm also 23 years old, and while it was probably a silly thing to do, holy crap give the kid a break. He didn't assault someone like I hear about football players doing all the time. He didn't use a racial or homophobic slur, he didn't cheat.  All he did was make a joke in poor taste, had it explained to him, and apologized. Its called learning, and 23 year olds are allowed to make some mistakes and learn from them. So please get off of your high horse and take the "situation" for what it actually is, not a treatise on the terrible subjugation of women by evil men.


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Left Brain - 2013-04-03 11:04 AM

Again, I don't think you give women enough credit. 

There will be some that agree with you. I'm really not doing this "for" women. Not as my primary motivation, anyway. It really is a men's issue.
 

I don't disagree with that, but it's not an issue for ALL men, anymore than it's an issue for ALL women.  I'm for looking at incidents as they are.....not deciding that all incidents are the same or that everyone involved in any incident feels the same....because that is surely not the case.

If you want to really help the situation, as a man.......raise strong women!!

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BernardDogs - 2013-04-03 11:11 AM

Not as my primary motivation, anyway. It really is a men's issue.

 

You know, I agree with you fundamentally, and I bet many of the people seemingly disagreeing with you here do as well.  However, you lose listeners when you overreact.  Removing podium girls from professional cycling isn't going to fix the problem.  It's a distraction.  We need to address the real problem.  It's like trying to outlaw soft drinks to help solve the obesity crisis.



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dmiller5 - 2013-04-03 11:12 AM You will stop having podium girls when men stop looking at attractive women, good luck.  As for the pinch, I'm also 23 years old, and while it was probably a silly thing to do, holy crap give the kid a break. He didn't assault someone like I hear about football players doing all the time. He didn't use a racial or homophobic slur, he didn't cheat.  All he did was make a joke in poor taste, had it explained to him, and apologized. Its called learning, and 23 year olds are allowed to make some mistakes and learn from them. So please get off of your high horse and take the "situation" for what it actually is, not a treatise on the terrible subjugation of women by evil men.

In the spirit of capitalizing on the learning moment presented, check your local statutes for what constitutes assault. 

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Not as my primary motivation, anyway. It really is a men's issue.

 

You know, I agree with you fundamentally, and I bet many of the people seemingly disagreeing with you here do as well.  However, you lose listeners when you overreact.  Removing podium girls from professional cycling isn't going to fix the problem.  It's a distraction.  We need to address the real problem.  It's like trying to outlaw soft drinks to help solve the obesity crisis.

You know that really would help.....right?

2013-04-03 10:28 AM
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dmiller5 - 2013-04-03 11:12 AM You will stop having podium girls when men stop looking at attractive women, good luck.  As for the pinch, I'm also 23 years old, and while it was probably a silly thing to do, holy crap give the kid a break. He didn't assault someone like I hear about football players doing all the time. He didn't use a racial or homophobic slur, he didn't cheat.  All he did was make a joke in poor taste, had it explained to him, and apologized. Its called learning, and 23 year olds are allowed to make some mistakes and learn from them. So please get off of your high horse and take the "situation" for what it actually is, not a treatise on the terrible subjugation of women by evil men.

In the spirit of capitalizing on the learning moment presented, check your local statutes for what constitutes assault. 

Bernard is correct.  In fact, in my state it constitutes a sexual assault.  The law is very clear that touching of certain areas, even through the clothing, is sexual assault. 

BUT....you have to have a victim willing to prosecute, and there DOES have to be criminal intent, which would be very closely looked at in this case.  Again, alot would rest with the victim, or lack thereof.



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BernardDogs - 2013-04-03 11:11 AM

Not as my primary motivation, anyway. It really is a men's issue.

 

You know, I agree with you fundamentally, and I bet many of the people seemingly disagreeing with you here do as well.  However, you lose listeners when you overreact.  Removing podium girls from professional cycling isn't going to fix the problem.  It's a distraction.  We need to address the real problem.  It's like trying to outlaw soft drinks to help solve the obesity crisis.

You're still listening. Respectfully, I don't think it's an over-reaction. 

In my original post to this thread, I called his actions shameful (they are). The real problem, as I define it, is that we've been conditioned to value women as eye candy (more than athletes, in this case). That's the problem perpetuated by having them serve as eye candy (there for the grabbing) on the podium of bike races.

So, to restate, I think if we were to primarily value the role of women in competitive cycling, as athletes instead, there wouldn't be a call for podium girls. To that end, I think identifying the role of podium girls as "part of the problem" is appropriate. 

You're right, though ... it distracts from the main issue in this case. That this guy felt entitled enough to get grabby. I'm not excusing why he felt entitled, just pointing out the process of conditioning that led to it. I think that's important to do and not an over-reaction.

You're free to dismiss me if you wish. 

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let me rephrase, he didn't beat up his girfriend. my point remains the same.
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dmiller5 - 2013-04-03 11:12 AM You will stop having podium girls when men stop looking at attractive women, good luck.  As for the pinch, I'm also 23 years old, and while it was probably a silly thing to do, holy crap give the kid a break. He didn't assault someone like I hear about football players doing all the time. He didn't use a racial or homophobic slur, he didn't cheat.  All he did was make a joke in poor taste, had it explained to him, and apologized. Its called learning, and 23 year olds are allowed to make some mistakes and learn from them. So please get off of your high horse and take the "situation" for what it actually is, not a treatise on the terrible subjugation of women by evil men.

In the spirit of capitalizing on the learning moment presented, check your local statutes for what constitutes assault. 

Berhard is correct.  In fact, in my state it constitutes a sexual assault.  The law is very clear that touching of certain areas, even through the clothing, is sexual assault. 

BUT....you have to have a victim willing to prosecute, and there DOES have to be criminal intent, which would be very closely looked at in this case.  Again, alot would rest with the victim, or lack thereof.



Yes. It's a "tree falling in the forest" sort of thing. Many college-aged guys just can't get their heads around that. Add to the mix how we tend to vilify a woman who DOES prosecute, and you'll understand why this conversation is so hard to have.
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dmiller5 - 2013-04-03 11:32 AM let me rephrase, he didn't beat up his girfriend. my point remains the same.

So what is your threshold that would require interruption?

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