damn it's hard letting go... (Page 3)

yes he did, and I'm really not kidding.  I kind of knew we were at the beginning of the end at that point, when he started criticizing my underwear, LOL!!  The sad thing is, I really cared for this guy alot.  We had alot of fun together (when he wasn't criticizing me), and the thing that made me leave was that he absolutely refused to even look at it.  I have a feeling I am not the first woman to leave this man due to his insensitive side.  I used to think he was really sweet, but he's only sweet 1/3 or the time.... the other 2/3 he was a mean bastard.

Gosh it's been great venting about this!!  Thanks everyone, LOL!

yep... I spit once and I looked over and he did the whole shake head back and forth disapproval thingy.  I said "what was that"?, and he said "what was that!!!?"... and I said "what?"... and he said "you just spit, that's disgusting... I hope you don't do that in public"... and I said "oh geez relax, I spit when I run, you have a problem with that?"... and he said "you're the only woman I know who spits", and I said "that's not true", and he said "whatever"... and got all pissed off.  So of course that was the last time I spit in front of me.  I realized towards the end I was becoming someone I wasn't even familiar with anymore... and when I realized I was becoming afraid to speak to people in his presence (even my friends!!, I became afraid to talk to my own friends around him!!), I knew then, that I had to get out.. so I did.

Pigfin,  First of all, good for you for standing up for yourself and getting out of the relationship.  SO many women take that kind of abuse (and yes, it's abuse) for years because they mistake the criticism for love.

This guy sounds like a total douchebag.  (And can I just say that I'm still laughing at 2goggles calling him a cockgobbler...that is seriously my new favorite word.)  Mourn the loss but celebrate your new beginning!  There is someone out there that will love you exactly the way you are!  (We do!!)

E