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Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

This is actually a question I wonder about.  There is always some tension between exhibitionism and decorum.  Some titles like"Dirty Girls Races" tilts titillatingly close to the former.  There seems to be a dare to be the most daring or the most creative about being daring.  I wonder how other people resolve this tension and how they decide the level to participate.  There is a range.

Did anyone google Fantasy Fest last night?  I did.  Some costumes went about as far to the exhibitionist side as possible.  Age and weight did not seem to dictate restraint.



2012-10-25 9:41 AM
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trinnas - 2012-10-25 9:37 AM
1stTimeTri - 2012-10-25 10:33 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:29 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 7:27 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:25 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:49 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:43 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:36 AM

Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

They were only testing you for their Mud Wrestling Team.

Well we will have no mud to partake of but I am sure we will be plenty wet when all is said and done.

*Hmmmmmm, now what does she mean??*

2012-10-25 9:43 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-10-25 9:39 AM

Speaking of wresting (or any high school sports team) who did the atomic sit up as a kid?

??? Never heard of it.  Is this going beyond "crunches"?

2012-10-25 9:43 AM
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2012-10-25 9:44 AM
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tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:39 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:29 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 7:27 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:25 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:49 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:43 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:36 AM

Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

This is actually a question I wonder about.  There is always some tension between exhibitionism and decorum.  Some titles like"Dirty Girls Races" tilts titillatingly close to the former.  There seems to be a dare to be the most daring or the most creative about being daring.  I wonder how other people resolve this tension and how they decide the level to participate.  There is a range.

Did anyone google Fantasy Fest last night?  I did.  Some costumes went about as far to the exhibitionist side as possible.  Age and weight did not seem to dictate restraint.

Attention seeking behavior is attention seeking behavior in a race or on the internet or elsewhere.  Women garner the most attention by displaying their sexuality.  Far too many still see that as their most powerful attribute.

2012-10-25 9:45 AM
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trinnas - 2012-10-25 10:38 PM
TriAya - 2012-10-25 10:36 AM

Geeeeday, TAN!

Oh looky. All my favorite peeples be here.

Good Evening Your Royal Hotness Yanti Doll, Treadmill Crusher, Taxi's Bane and Goddess of Demented Delights.

Very demented. I'm sitting in bed with compression socks on and much delighted with myself

ALL HAIL THE HALLOWED HIGH PRIESTESS OF THE HEALING YET LEFT-HOOK YORKIE'D HONEY HYPNOMELONS!



2012-10-25 9:46 AM
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1stTimeTri - 2012-10-25 10:41 AM
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1stTimeTri - 2012-10-25 10:33 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:29 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 7:27 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:25 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:49 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:43 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:36 AM

Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

They were only testing you for their Mud Wrestling Team.

Well we will have no mud to partake of but I am sure we will be plenty wet when all is said and done.

*Hmmmmmm, now what does she mean??*

Well between backsplash and sweat I figure all of us will be quite ummmm. "glowy"!

Animals Sweat, Men Perspire and Women Glow!

2012-10-25 9:48 AM
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TriAya - 2012-10-25 9:45 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 10:38 PM
TriAya - 2012-10-25 10:36 AM

Geeeeday, TAN!

Oh looky. All my favorite peeples be here.

Good Evening Your Royal Hotness Yanti Doll, Treadmill Crusher, Taxi's Bane and Goddess of Demented Delights.

Very demented. I'm sitting in bed with compression socks on and much delighted with myself

ALL HAIL THE HALLOWED HIGH PRIESTESS OF THE HEALING YET LEFT-HOOK YORKIE'D HONEY HYPNOMELONS!

As  you should be with compression socks on.

2012-10-25 9:49 AM
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trinnas - 2012-10-25 10:44 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:39 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:29 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 7:27 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:25 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:49 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:43 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:36 AM

Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

This is actually a question I wonder about.  There is always some tension between exhibitionism and decorum.  Some titles like"Dirty Girls Races" tilts titillatingly close to the former.  There seems to be a dare to be the most daring or the most creative about being daring.  I wonder how other people resolve this tension and how they decide the level to participate.  There is a range.

Did anyone google Fantasy Fest last night?  I did.  Some costumes went about as far to the exhibitionist side as possible.  Age and weight did not seem to dictate restraint.

Attention seeking behavior is attention seeking behavior in a race or on the internet or elsewhere.  Women garner the most attention by displaying their sexuality.  Far too many still see that as their most powerful attribute.

Exhibitionism seems to convey fun" and adventurousness.  Decorum indicates good judgment and self awareness.  Both desirable traits.  There is an optimum but usually people go all out one way or the other.   Optimization is a too difficult math problem I suppose.

TJ was looking for her optimum.  Good strategy I would say.

ETA:  Perhaps "modesty" is a better word than "decorum" for the trait opposite of exhibitionism. 



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2012-10-25 9:50 AM
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TriAya - 2012-10-25 10:45 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 10:38 PM
TriAya - 2012-10-25 10:36 AM

Geeeeday, TAN!

Oh looky. All my favorite peeples be here.

Good Evening Your Royal Hotness Yanti Doll, Treadmill Crusher, Taxi's Bane and Goddess of Demented Delights.

Very demented. I'm sitting in bed with compression socks on and much delighted with myself

ALL HAIL THE HALLOWED HIGH PRIESTESS OF THE HEALING YET LEFT-HOOK YORKIE'D HONEY HYPNOMELONS!

Just compression socks??  Woooo Hooo Party at Yanti's!

2012-10-25 9:51 AM
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2012-10-25 9:51 AM
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TriAya - 2012-10-25 9:45 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 10:38 PM
TriAya - 2012-10-25 10:36 AM

Geeeeday, TAN!

Oh looky. All my favorite peeples be here.

Good Evening Your Royal Hotness Yanti Doll, Treadmill Crusher, Taxi's Bane and Goddess of Demented Delights.

Very demented. I'm sitting in bed with compression socks on and much delighted with myself

ALL HAIL THE HALLOWED HIGH PRIESTESS OF THE HEALING YET LEFT-HOOK YORKIE'D HONEY HYPNOMELONS!

*LIKE*

2012-10-25 9:54 AM
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You know what is great about TAN?

No ugly shoe ads.

2012-10-25 9:54 AM
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tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:49 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 10:44 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:39 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:29 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 7:27 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:25 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:49 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:43 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:36 AM

Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

This is actually a question I wonder about.  There is always some tension between exhibitionism and decorum.  Some titles like"Dirty Girls Races" tilts titillatingly close to the former.  There seems to be a dare to be the most daring or the most creative about being daring.  I wonder how other people resolve this tension and how they decide the level to participate.  There is a range.

Did anyone google Fantasy Fest last night?  I did.  Some costumes went about as far to the exhibitionist side as possible.  Age and weight did not seem to dictate restraint.

Attention seeking behavior is attention seeking behavior in a race or on the internet or elsewhere.  Women garner the most attention by displaying their sexuality.  Far too many still see that as their most powerful attribute.

Exhibitionism seems to convey fun" and adventurousness.  Decorum indicates good judgment and self awareness.  Both desirable traits.  There is an optimum but usually people go all out one way or the other.   Optimization is a too difficult math problem I suppose.

TJ was looking for her optimum.  Good strategy I would say.

I agree, there is also a certain amount of practicality that needs to be present when considering something like a run outfit.  That seems to be another thing that goes by the wayside from time to time.  I do think as you get older the more you are concerned with the practicality of the outfit than you are with the exhibitionism of the outfit.  This seems to come more from experience than anything else.  If you have had to deal with the after effect of poor outfit choices the less likely you are to make those choices again.

2012-10-25 9:57 AM
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2012-10-25 9:57 AM
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1stTimeTri - 2012-10-25 10:51 PM
TriAya - 2012-10-25 9:45 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 10:38 PM
TriAya - 2012-10-25 10:36 AM

Geeeeday, TAN!

Oh looky. All my favorite peeples be here.

Good Evening Your Royal Hotness Yanti Doll, Treadmill Crusher, Taxi's Bane and Goddess of Demented Delights.

Very demented. I'm sitting in bed with compression socks on and much delighted with myself

ALL HAIL THE HALLOWED HIGH PRIESTESS OF THE HEALING YET LEFT-HOOK YORKIE'D HONEY HYPNOMELONS!

*LIKE*

I loph you too, Phavorite Phil. Always.

Giant snuffaging snuffocating non-snorkel or supp-O2 {{{MELON PRESS}}}



2012-10-25 9:57 AM
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Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:51 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 7:44 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:39 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:29 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 7:27 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:25 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:49 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:43 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:36 AM

Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

This is actually a question I wonder about.  There is always some tension between exhibitionism and decorum.  Some titles like"Dirty Girls Races" tilts titillatingly close to the former.  There seems to be a dare to be the most daring or the most creative about being daring.  I wonder how other people resolve this tension and how they decide the level to participate.  There is a range.

Did anyone google Fantasy Fest last night?  I did.  Some costumes went about as far to the exhibitionist side as possible.  Age and weight did not seem to dictate restraint.

Attention seeking behavior is attention seeking behavior in a race or on the internet or elsewhere.  Women garner the most attention by displaying their sexuality.  Far too many still see that as their most powerful attribute.

But the reality is ..we all do it. Be it at a race...out on the town ...on the Internet ...in TAN. Dressing a certain way or talking a certain way. Flirting on the interwebs. I think it's just human nature and always a choice to participate or not.

I totally agree.  But, it goes beyond a binary choice of whether to participate or not.  There is a question of limiting behavior, participating up to a certain point, and how far to go before the behavior is viewed as inappropriate.

My question in general is just how other people resolve that question, even how conscious they are of the choice.  Fascinating stuff I tell you.

2012-10-25 9:58 AM
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Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:51 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 7:44 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:39 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:29 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 7:27 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:25 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:49 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:43 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:36 AM

Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

This is actually a question I wonder about.  There is always some tension between exhibitionism and decorum.  Some titles like"Dirty Girls Races" tilts titillatingly close to the former.  There seems to be a dare to be the most daring or the most creative about being daring.  I wonder how other people resolve this tension and how they decide the level to participate.  There is a range.

Did anyone google Fantasy Fest last night?  I did.  Some costumes went about as far to the exhibitionist side as possible.  Age and weight did not seem to dictate restraint.

Attention seeking behavior is attention seeking behavior in a race or on the internet or elsewhere.  Women garner the most attention by displaying their sexuality.  Far too many still see that as their most powerful attribute.

But the reality is ..we all do it. Be it at a race...out on the town ...on the Internet ...in TAN. Dressing a certain way or talking a certain way. Flirting on the interwebs. I think it's just human nature and always a choice to participate or not.

Yes and we all have our levels of comfort.  It seems your level of comfort was subordinate to a desire for conformity.  That is another trade off we make from time to time and again to our own level of comfort.

2012-10-25 10:00 AM
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mehaner - 2012-10-25 10:57 PM 1?

You, in my book, always, Meh Meh.

2012-10-25 10:00 AM
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trinnas - 2012-10-25 9:54 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:49 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 10:44 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:39 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:29 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 7:27 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:25 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:49 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:43 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:36 AM

Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

This is actually a question I wonder about.  There is always some tension between exhibitionism and decorum.  Some titles like"Dirty Girls Races" tilts titillatingly close to the former.  There seems to be a dare to be the most daring or the most creative about being daring.  I wonder how other people resolve this tension and how they decide the level to participate.  There is a range.

Did anyone google Fantasy Fest last night?  I did.  Some costumes went about as far to the exhibitionist side as possible.  Age and weight did not seem to dictate restraint.

Attention seeking behavior is attention seeking behavior in a race or on the internet or elsewhere.  Women garner the most attention by displaying their sexuality.  Far too many still see that as their most powerful attribute.

Exhibitionism seems to convey fun" and adventurousness.  Decorum indicates good judgment and self awareness.  Both desirable traits.  There is an optimum but usually people go all out one way or the other.   Optimization is a too difficult math problem I suppose.

TJ was looking for her optimum.  Good strategy I would say.

I agree, there is also a certain amount of practicality that needs to be present when considering something like a run outfit.  That seems to be another thing that goes by the wayside from time to time.  I do think as you get older the more you are concerned with the practicality of the outfit than you are with the exhibitionism of the outfit.  This seems to come more from experience than anything else.  If you have had to deal with the after effect of poor outfit choices the less likely you are to make those choices again.

Example:  Back in 1983, I graduated H.S., was 18, and my brother-in-law (who was in the Navy and went overseas) brought me a pair of "British briefs" (the skin-tight, just-about-smaller-than-Speedos undies with the British flag on them).  I wore them during an airband contest.  I won.
Would I do that again now, even though I still have the same body shape and kid mentality?  Probably not, due to the fear of the Interwebz and smartphones with cameras on them.

2012-10-25 10:02 AM
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Subject: RE: TAN 186 - A Presidential ElecTAN
lonoscurse - 2012-10-25 10:48 PM
TriAya - 2012-10-25 9:45 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 10:38 PM
TriAya - 2012-10-25 10:36 AM

Geeeeday, TAN!

Oh looky. All my favorite peeples be here.

Good Evening Your Royal Hotness Yanti Doll, Treadmill Crusher, Taxi's Bane and Goddess of Demented Delights.

Very demented. I'm sitting in bed with compression socks on and much delighted with myself

ALL HAIL THE HALLOWED HIGH PRIESTESS OF THE HEALING YET LEFT-HOOK YORKIE'D HONEY HYPNOMELONS!

As  you should be with compression socks on.

Howdy, Sir Cursey.

And dear Kate, yes, just comp socks ... although I did put on a little batik minidress because I was cold.



2012-10-25 10:03 AM
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2012-10-25 10:03 AM
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Subject: RE: TAN 186 - A Presidential ElecTAN
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:57 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:51 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 7:44 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:39 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:29 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 7:27 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:25 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:49 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:43 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:36 AM

Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

This is actually a question I wonder about.  There is always some tension between exhibitionism and decorum.  Some titles like"Dirty Girls Races" tilts titillatingly close to the former.  There seems to be a dare to be the most daring or the most creative about being daring.  I wonder how other people resolve this tension and how they decide the level to participate.  There is a range.

Did anyone google Fantasy Fest last night?  I did.  Some costumes went about as far to the exhibitionist side as possible.  Age and weight did not seem to dictate restraint.

Attention seeking behavior is attention seeking behavior in a race or on the internet or elsewhere.  Women garner the most attention by displaying their sexuality.  Far too many still see that as their most powerful attribute.

But the reality is ..we all do it. Be it at a race...out on the town ...on the Internet ...in TAN. Dressing a certain way or talking a certain way. Flirting on the interwebs. I think it's just human nature and always a choice to participate or not.

I totally agree.  But, it goes beyond a binary choice of whether to participate or not.  There is a question of limiting behavior, participating up to a certain point, and how far to go before the behavior is viewed as inappropriate.

My question in general is just how other people resolve that question, even how conscious they are of the choice.  Fascinating stuff I tell you.

That is a very individual question as it has to do with comfort levels and personality of the individual. 

There are those who are more willing to subordinate their own selves to the will of others and some where that is less the case.  There are just so many things that go into it that it is a very complex process which yes does make it a fascinating study.

2012-10-25 10:04 AM
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Subject: RE: TAN 186 - A Presidential ElecTAN
I have worn knee-tall socks (not compression) with short shorts as part of a running costume. Hardly exhibitionist. I dunno, you can be the judge
2012-10-25 10:05 AM
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Subject: RE: TAN 186 - A Presidential ElecTAN
trinnas - 2012-10-25 10:58 AM

Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:51 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 7:44 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 10:39 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:29 AM
tech_geezer - 2012-10-25 7:27 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 10:25 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:49 AM
Teejaay - 2012-10-25 9:43 AM
trinnas - 2012-10-25 6:36 AM

Morning TAN

 

Anybody got a van I cam borrow and drive across the country?

Head race coming up this weekend should be fun!!!  My crew wants me to wear pink and black argyle knee socks with black spandex shorts and a red, black and white tank.  I have told them Hades will become exothermic first.   What say you TAN?

Pink and red clash. I'd say nooooo.

Thank You!!!

Plus no way am I wearing knee sock with shorts.

I told them I would be OK to wear compression sleeves but not argyle socks!

I got roped into that "costume" for a mud run we did. I wore compression shorts under my "sexy sailor" shorts. And I did the knee socks. It was awful. I have. Pic in my BT album. I felt foolish dressed that way.

You were concerned with being stylish for a mud run? 

I wasn't. It was a fun thing. Dirty Girls race series. Teams. They all dress up. But our outfits were to exposed for me. I'd of worn a tutu over my running tights. But short shorts for rolling in the mud? No.

This is actually a question I wonder about.  There is always some tension between exhibitionism and decorum.  Some titles like"Dirty Girls Races" tilts titillatingly close to the former.  There seems to be a dare to be the most daring or the most creative about being daring.  I wonder how other people resolve this tension and how they decide the level to participate.  There is a range.

Did anyone google Fantasy Fest last night?  I did.  Some costumes went about as far to the exhibitionist side as possible.  Age and weight did not seem to dictate restraint.

Attention seeking behavior is attention seeking behavior in a race or on the internet or elsewhere.  Women garner the most attention by displaying their sexuality.  Far too many still see that as their most powerful attribute.

But the reality is ..we all do it. Be it at a race...out on the town ...on the Internet ...in TAN. Dressing a certain way or talking a certain way. Flirting on the interwebs. I think it's just human nature and always a choice to participate or not.

Yes and we all have our levels of comfort.  It seems your level of comfort was subordinate to a desire for conformity.  That is another trade off we make from time to time and again to our own level of comfort.



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