Okay, Vixens, I have a dilemma and I need your help.
Choice 1: Go to parents' house on 24th, be there for Christmas Eve.
Choice 2: Stay with BFF on 24th, drive to parents' house on 25th.
Choice 1, expanded: My dad
(priest
) will be tagging along with my mom
(deacon
) to the church she serves with once a month
(normally she serves with my dad
). So this will be his very first Christmas since before seminary
(20+ years
) that he'll be in the congregation. And he'll be all by his lonesome. Sad, huh? I want to go with him. Also, I want to spend Christmas Eve with my parents, and it'll give me more time to see them. I have to talk my dad into letting me crucifer at the late service so *I* don't have to sit in the congregation by myself.
Choice 2, expanded: I really want to spend Christmas Eve with my BFF. Okay, there's more. I mentioned a couple weeks ago that wouldn't it be fun if BFF and her girls came with me to see my parents after Christmas. Then I renegged, saying I wanted to go alone. So now I feel guilty, and think I should spend Christmas Eve with her to make up for it. Plus, I like my little church's Christmas Eve service, and I'd get to go with BFF and enjoy the service from the congregation.
I'm about ready to flip a d@mn coin. Input?