Other Resources My Cup of Joe » It's about to hit the fan. Rss Feed  
Moderators: k9car363, the bear, DerekL, alicefoeller Reply
 
 
of 6
 
 
2006-03-09 9:45 AM
in reply to: #364991

User image

Pro
3906
20001000500100100100100
St Charles, IL
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.

bradword - 2006-03-09 8:09 AM Where is the pro choice in pro-choice? Why do we forget about the person inside the mother. Having had two kids already I just don't understand. Just because the baby can't have it's own choice yet shouldn't mean we have the right to distroy that life. What we are essentially doing is taking a choice away from the person having the life and giving it to the Mother. My son is 9 months old, he can't talk. He can't choose, yet I have no right to say I don't want him and destroy his life. There are heartbeats and brain functions well before birth. The baby can sustain life just as well before 9 months as at 9 months. I expect people's opinions, I just can't wrap my head around thinking it's ok to take another life just because the child happens to be developing inside you.

And that is your choice, and I support you for it.  However, I don't expect everyone to have come to the same decision, I choose to leave the choice to them, rather than arrogantly deciding for them.

Regarding your other points, the fetus is not self sufficient at all stages of development, nor does it have a heartbeat and brainwaves from the moment of conception. 

-Chris 



2006-03-09 9:48 AM
in reply to: #365050

User image

Pro
4909
20002000500100100100100
Hailey, ID
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.
Neither is a person in a coma sometimes. If I get in a car reck, I go into a coma, but the doctors say I will be well and better in 9 months, should someone be able to take my life just because I can't sustain my own for a few months? Just a question.
2006-03-09 9:54 AM
in reply to: #364580

User image

Philadelphia, south of New York and north of DC
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.

drewb8 - Well, by granting the parents, as the literal creators, the right to endow personhood you are granting a time period from conception up to a point where the government would be forced to grant these rights in place of the parents, where an abortion would be acceptable. For parents who are pro-life and believe personhood begins with conception, the granting of rights would be conception. For those who believe otherwise, it would be later. But isn't giving the ability to grant these rights to anyone other than the parents an endorsement of that set of religious beliefs by the government? Just thining out loud now.

Drew, for me this begins to look like we are endowed with priviledges rather than rights.

For example, I have a couple of teenagers who will be driving in the next few years. The cliche story is for a teenager to say that they have a right to drive the family car, and for a parent to say, "no, you don't have a right to the car, only a priviledge, and only as long as I say so".

I'm also very uncomfortable with the notion that the government would later have the power to endow rights. I don't think that's what Jefferson was talking about. It's actually what the founders were reacting against.

They saw these rights as being endowed by something larger than themselves or the government. Jefferson called it a creator. I think his notion of a creator was not so much God, which is how we tend to read it, but more the prime-mover/first cause/Being concept of the Greek philosophers.

2006-03-09 10:07 AM
in reply to: #364569

User image

Philadelphia, south of New York and north of DC
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.
kimta -

I am struggling with one thing. Can't someone be pro-life but still believe others should have the right to freedom of choice?

Kim, thanks for being willing to consider my arguement.

Your question brings my wife to mind. My wife does not accept the description of either pro-choice or pro-life. She says she is not pro-choice because she believes it could never be acceptable to kill your offspring. She says she is not pro-life because of all of the other baggage that is usually associated with the term pro-life.

So she's trying to find a third way. Quakers are weird like that. She also does not necessarily support making abortion illegal, but again as a Quaker she tends to disagree with many laws, and trusts more that people will do the right thing of their own accord.

 



Edited by dontracy 2006-03-09 10:09 AM
2006-03-09 10:22 AM
in reply to: #365046

User image

Philadelphia, south of New York and north of DC
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.

lighthouse1123 - They are not comfortable with making life or death decisions based on a guess about when life begins, and take the position that we should assume the unborn are separate human persons unless we can prove otherwise. I think some of the people in this group would probably be willing to let people do what they want if we were talking about something other than a human life.

Kevin, that's the heart of the matter for me.

If we were talking about other issues that involved the right to privacy, it becomes a completely different discussion.



Edited by dontracy 2006-03-09 10:27 AM
2006-03-09 10:39 AM
in reply to: #364885

User image

Master
2278
2000100100252525
State of Confusion
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.
hangloose - 2006-03-09 7:22 AM

KSlostStar - 2006-03-09 1:06 AM
kimta - 2006-03-08 5:00 PM p>I am struggling with one thing.  Can't someone be pro-life but still believe others should have the right to freedom of choice?  Do you know what I am trying to say?  I guess what I am still trying to wrap my brain around is why some people feel they have the right to tell other people what decisions they can and cannot make based on their own opinions.  It seems very self-righteous to me for someone to think that they have all the answers.

 

<

 

Absolutely they can.

Actually I don't think so.  If I'm misspeaking for pro-lifers I hope they will correct me but I think if you are pro life you believe that life begins at conception.  It follows logically that any abortion after that is actually murder so if that is what you truly believe how could you just stand around and say nothing while murder is being committed? 

I know women who are pro-choice advocates, but they would never in a million years get an abortion themselves.  There is a big difference between being a pro-choice advocate who would not get an abortion and being a pro-lifer.

 



I guess I agree with that. I am guessing that is what kimta meant, but could be wrong.


2006-03-09 11:12 AM
in reply to: #365055

User image

Pro
3906
20001000500100100100100
St Charles, IL
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.

bradword - 2006-03-09 8:48 AM Neither is a person in a coma sometimes. If I get in a car reck, I go into a coma, but the doctors say I will be well and better in 9 months, should someone be able to take my life just because I can't sustain my own for a few months? Just a question.

And people are removed from life-support and allowed to die, yes.  Not in the corner-case you're trying to create though.  I don't think anybody here is advocating aborting a fetus at 8 1/2 months either.  I certainly am not.

You're also coming from a presumption that life exists in regards to abortion.  Others do not share that conclusion and come to a different decision.

I do not purport to be all knowing and infallible, nor do I think do any of us.  Based on that, I have trouble enforcing my belief structures on others.

-Chris 


2006-03-09 12:06 PM
in reply to: #365163

User image

Pro
4909
20002000500100100100100
Hailey, ID
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.
Fair enough coredump.

I know people get taken off life support, but usually not if they will knowingly get better. I just find it sad that just because people are too irrasponsible to wear a condom or something, they then just choose to kill their responsibility.

FYI, I am for the right to abort in the cases of rape or incest, although I still don't think I would choose that way if I (my wife) was in that situation. It's not the child's fault about the rape etc, I would much rather choose adoption in that case. But I understand those are special situations.
2006-03-09 12:09 PM
in reply to: #365067

User image

Master
4101
20002000100
Denver
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.
dontracy - 2006-03-09 7:54 AM

drewb8 - Well, by granting the parents, as the literal creators, the right to endow personhood you are granting a time period from conception up to a point where the government would be forced to grant these rights in place of the parents, where an abortion would be acceptable. For parents who are pro-life and believe personhood begins with conception, the granting of rights would be conception. For those who believe otherwise, it would be later. But isn't giving the ability to grant these rights to anyone other than the parents an endorsement of that set of religious beliefs by the government? Just thining out loud now.

Drew, for me this begins to look like we are endowed with priviledges rather than rights.

For example, I have a couple of teenagers who will be driving in the next few years. The cliche story is for a teenager to say that they have a right to drive the family car, and for a parent to say, "no, you don't have a right to the car, only a priviledge, and only as long as I say so".

I'm also very uncomfortable with the notion that the government would later have the power to endow rights. I don't think that's what Jefferson was talking about. It's actually what the founders were reacting against.

They saw these rights as being endowed by something larger than themselves or the government. Jefferson called it a creator. I think his notion of a creator was not so much God, which is how we tend to read it, but more the prime-mover/first cause/Being concept of the Greek philosophers.



Don - I see your point about it starting to sound like priviledge, and I'm not real comfortable with how that sounds either. I think my thought about government endowing rights was that thre would be some point where if the parents didn't endow the rights the government would have to define a point at which they would be automatically inherited.

I'd also agree about TJ meant more that we inherit these rights basically by being born a human and not from a literal Creator/God. I was just playing with the idea that if we take these rights as having a divine source we run into problems and it sometimes seems as if the pro-life people sound as if this so, in which case it sounds like they are trying to legislate their religious views onto the country. However you can get around this if you take th TJ-non-literalist view.

Either way the whole thing just boils down to when we believe "personhood' begins. No getting around it.
2006-03-09 12:26 PM
in reply to: #362423

Elite
2458
20001001001001002525
Livingston, MT
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.
I wonder in what circumstances it would be okay for pro-lifers to allow an abortion. The common ones that I've heard are rape and incest. Though why you'd kill an innocent human (if you truly believe it's a human) in those circumstances is beyond me.

Equipment malfunction? Condom tears, pill/patch doesn't manipulate hormone levels enough, etc.

Woman forgot to take the pill? Hormone levels stabilize and bada-bing.

Woman deceives man? Woman says she is on pill when she is not.

Man deceives woman? Man says he has uber-strong condom of hydra skin, what he didn't tell her was that he poked a hole in it.

In the instances of rape and incest, it was not the woman's fault for getting pregnant. In the four instances I've noted above, one of the two (if not both) parties are not at fault. Is it okay in these instances to abort?

I'm just curious as I've never had this discussion.



2006-03-09 12:57 PM
in reply to: #365238

Veteran
465
1001001001002525
Michigan
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.

bradword - 2006-03-09 1:06 PM ...FYI, I am for the right to abort in the cases of rape or incest, although I still don't think I would choose that way if I (my wife) was in that situation. It's not the child's fault about the rape etc, I would much rather choose adoption in that case. But I understand those are special situations.

Hmmmmm....wouldn't that make you pro-choice? 



2006-03-09 1:07 PM
in reply to: #365261

User image

Philadelphia, south of New York and north of DC
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.

ChuckyFinster - I wonder in what circumstances it would be okay for pro-lifers to allow an abortion. The common ones that I've heard are rape and incest. Though why you'd kill an innocent human (if you truly believe it's a human) in those circumstances is beyond me.

I agree with what I've read of the South Dakota law. It does not have an execption for rape or incest. I think they have it right.

My own dear wife was the victim of childhood incest (although it was not a blood relative) that went on for a period of years, and was also raped as a young woman. She is very open about her experiences, and I only mention them to note that I am aware of the damage done to women and children by rape, incest, and sexual abuse.

You may be interested in the story of Rebecca Wasser Kiessling . (scroll down on that page for the story) She was conceived through rape, and was then given up for adoption. If abortion had been legal, she would have been aborted. She is a lawyer now and gives talks about the rights of children conceived through rape.

As to when abortion is justifiable, there is distiction to be made between direct abortion and indirect abortion.

Direct abortion is an act with the primary purpose of killing an embryo, fetus, unborn child, ect.

Indirect abortion is an act where an an embryo, fetus, unborn child, is killed, but that is not the primary intention. The primary intention would be the saving of the mother's life.

A surgical procedure on a woman with an ectopic pregnancy, where an embryo implants outside the uterus, is a good example. In this case, the purpose of the act is to save the woman's life, not to kill the embryo.



Edited by dontracy 2006-03-09 1:14 PM
2006-03-09 1:21 PM
in reply to: #362423

User image

Pro
4909
20002000500100100100100
Hailey, ID
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.
Well again, I wouldn't abort a rape or incest child, but I could UNDERSTAND that point of view. The only one i'm really for is if the mothers life is in danger.
2006-03-09 1:34 PM
in reply to: #365261

User image

Philadelphia, south of New York and north of DC
Subject: RE: It's about to hit the fan.

ChuckyFinster - Equipment malfunction? Condom tears, pill/patch doesn't manipulate hormone levels enough, etc. Woman forgot to take the pill?

Chucky, I just wanted to put one more comment in about this one.

Some people have called abortion the insurance for contraception. The reasoning goes that there is no 100% effective form of contraception, therefore we need abortion as a backup.

Of course, I reject that arguement. If you choose to use contraception, fine. But don't use it's failer as a reason to support legal abortion. (I mean "you" as in society, not "you" as in Chucky )

And, of course, this brings up the whole topic of abortifacient forms of birth control.

(you know, I don't think DerekL has posted since he started this thread... where is he... )

New Thread
Other Resources My Cup of Joe » It's about to hit the fan. Rss Feed  
 
 
of 6