Subject: RE: No Housework Day Ride & Cherry Blossom 10-Miler Carbo Load Dinner!!!dck4shrt - 2008-02-18 2:04 PM Stop trying to make the person that you think you want into the person that you're looking for.
I'm not. You don't know the situation, you don't know this guy and so the fact that I am at least going to let him know that his actions are inappropriate is not me "making him be what I want him to be". So far, I've done nothing - he's continued to act interested and has not, until the drinks on Friday, denied any invitation I've extended to him, which was all of TWO invitations since New Year's, not counting drinks on Friday. I haven't exactly been throwing myself at him. He's allowed to have been busy. But what is not allowed is to then suggest that we grab drinks the following weekend and then blow me off without an explanation. He didn't have to suggest a rain date. And he can man the eff up and tell me that he's not interested. So he's going to have the guts to tell me to my face, because I deserve at least that amount of respect. |