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2005-11-05 2:04 PM

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Master
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Subject: Another dilemma
Here is the situation. There is a girl I have known for about a year and recently we have discovered that there are definite feelings for each other. She is intellegent and has a great sense of humor and I love being round her. The problem is that she is moving across the country in the spring. So the question is: Should we just enjoy the time we have together until she moves or should I just end it now and save myself the eventual pain that will inevitably come?
I know which way I am leaning but I just wanted to get other opinions.


2005-11-05 2:12 PM
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2005-11-05 2:43 PM
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Elite
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2005-11-05 3:45 PM
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I'm with Courtney and say give it a shot. Sometimes plans change, and sometimes you see that you never worked out, but then you won't be wondering...
2005-11-05 6:12 PM
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The Original
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I would say go for it and see where things go.  Only reason I'm saying that, because the more I get into the dating world the more I realize how difficult it is to find someone who you "click with" on all levels.  If you have that then don't throw it away because it's very hard to find   Good luck and keep us updated!
2005-11-07 9:17 AM
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Master
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Well thanks for the advice, I spent the whole weekend with her and it didn't make my decision any easier. And by the way runnergirl, I laugh everytime I read you signature.


2005-11-07 9:19 AM
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If you were pain-averse, you wouldn't do triathlons!

It's the good kind of pain. GO FOR IT!!!!!

2005-11-07 9:20 AM
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Go for it...travelling is fun
2005-11-07 10:09 AM
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I would say:
Go for it! Enjoy each other, where there is a will there is a way!
If it doesn't work, you'll know you tried (nothing worst than "should've, could've doubts in the future). The back side? You could get your heart broken.... but you could get your heart broken anyway....
It seems that is too late: you will be sad if you end it right now....
2005-11-07 10:11 AM
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If you get on your bike, you might fall, hurt yourself, and feel pain.

If you go for a long run, you might cramp up and feel pain.

If you go for an ocean swim, you might panic and want to quit.

Life is pain. What we choose to do about the pain defines who we are.

I say again, GO FOR IT!

2005-11-07 10:17 AM
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Rich..they're all women, what do you think they're going to say? Have you ever seen a Black Widow die of starvation? Hell No!!! They all work together. I said before RUN and I say Now
Run, fast, faster. OK if you like her then Hit and Run.
Where the hell is Wahoo boy when you need him?


2005-11-07 10:22 AM
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2005-11-07 10:26 AM
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The Original
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Let's keep this thread wahoo boy free! 
2005-11-07 10:28 AM
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Buttercup
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gullahcracker - 2005-11-07 10:17 AM Rich..they're all women, what do you think they're going to say? Have you ever seen a Black Widow die of starvation? Hell No!!! They all work together. I said before RUN and I say Now Run, fast, faster. OK if you like her then Hit and Run. Where the hell is Wahoo boy when you need him?

HAH! We don't shrink from pain. We're courageous. We take chances!!!

What kind of a triathlete shrinks from something cuz he might get hurt? Geezie wheezie...

2005-11-07 10:30 AM
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Of course we vote TRY!!!!!!!!!
We like our men fighters, not quitters
2005-11-07 10:46 AM
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Buttercup
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Don't be a weenie, be a winner!

2005-11-21 6:42 PM
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Master
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I say hit it like a caveman for as long as you can! the break-up sucks but thinking, "man i could have had that chick" i think i worse.

now all the tri hotties here hate my guts. i speak my mind.

Edited by tyrant 2005-11-21 6:43 PM
2005-11-22 10:58 AM
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Time to handle up and go for it.

Bill
2005-11-22 11:41 AM
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Go for it. If it works, you can move! Or she can move, or you can meet in the middle. If you both want it enough, it'll work out.
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