Leads on tri clothes for tall Athena's?

I'm 5'9 with a disproportionately long body.  My suit is top/shorts seperate.  Peal Izumi.  the shirt is *just* long enough and doesn't ride up on the bike.  I just got it this year and I can happily report no low back burn so far this year!

Well I tried on an XL in Women's and it was exhausting.  The shelf bra is a joke (for me) and made it impossible to get into.  I can see that causing problems having to use the bathroom. 

The XL in men's was of course bigger.  I felt much more comfortable in the men's suit.  It certainly doesn't hold the girls UP but it is tight all over and I wear an Enel bra under it.  The great thing is that the cut of the top almost completely covers the bra (I'm turning into my mother not wanted to show my bra straps   )

I've got a long torso - I felt....secure/confident in it.  I think I would have been much more self conscious in the women's xl. 

The one in my pic is the one.  They came in black, blue and red I think. Good luck!

Wow, thanks for all the ideas and places to check!

I ended up going with a full zip tri top with tri club logo (because it didn't have the built in bra which I hate) from Pactimo (don't know if they do retail or only custom orders) and just standard compression shorts. 

But, when I was looking for something I found Danskin ran pretty long in the torso for their tri suits.  I am 5'11" and had to size down to a M where I am usually an XL in tri clothes. 

I also saw that sportsbasement.com is offering free shipping and returns.  They have a pretty decent selection of tri apparel so you could order a few items and pick what fits the best and ship the rest back.  If you are an AAA auto member you can get an additional 10% off (at least you do in store).