Subject: RE: spent the afternoon at the ERthat's one of the reasons we went back to the ped yesterday for follow up - the ER doc seemed sure ella should be able to touch her nose and move her arm normally...but she couldn't. her ped thought that since the nurse maid happened in an atypical way (impact from classmate, versus arm tugging by an adult ), she probably had a lot of soft tissue damage. he was really worried when she was in tears after he touched her arm.
as i said above, my dad is a doc and i have a ton of respect for medical professionals. too often people expect that than can fix anything, which isn't reality. that was not my expectation either. my problem was that this ER doc seemed to be thinking from a book instead of looking at my child's state of being. make sense? my guess is that if you've treated these before, and most kids ARE okay in a couple minutes, if there was a child who WASN'T okay and was still crying and in a lot of pain, you would check to see if there was another injury in addition to the nurse maid. she didn't say 'this is normal, for a child to hurt like this' she said 'she shouldn't be hurting now, she should be able to touch her nose'...but she couldn't! grumble.
luckily her ped was awesome about it and made sure the radiologist checked ella's growth plate and everything on the new x-ray (the old one didn't show her wrist at all ). everything is fine. she's still in pain, but her swelling is going down and her arm is starting to get a bit black and blue. its also itching, which is a good sign! |