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2005-11-29 9:56 AM

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2005-11-29 10:02 AM
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I want to move to Northern Italy.

2005-11-29 10:03 AM
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Any thoughts on a topic to discuss?  Or are you looking for general ramblings?
2005-11-29 10:10 AM
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Here's a topic recently discussed within my family.

Should Christian parents allow their children to believe in Santa Clause?

I'm not a holy-roller by no means, but if I had children, which I don't, I would not trick them into believeing in Santa Clause.  Christmas should be about Christ, not some bearded fat guy in a red suit.

Now talk amongst yourselves....



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2005-11-29 10:14 AM
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Books you may not have read that are great:

Into Thin Air
Shadow Divers
Shutter Island
Becoming an Ironman
Lance Armstrong's War (ok, maybe not great, but interesting)

Movies you may not have seen that are great:

Shrek/Shrek 2 (even if you don't have kids, check these out...funny.)
Disney's The Kid
Stir of Echoes
A Christmas Story
The Green Mile
The Whole Nine Yards
2005-11-29 10:16 AM
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Into Thin Air is excellent! I liked LA's War too. Shreks are great and I love the Whole 9 Yards!

Ohhh..Renee, that sounds nice! Although I'd prefer to live on a coast, any warm coast. Anywhere.

morey1 - 2005-11-29 11:14 AM Books you may not have read that are great: Into Thin Air Shadow Divers Shutter Island Becoming an Ironman Lance Armstrong's War (ok, maybe not great, but interesting) Movies you may not have seen that are great: Shrek/Shrek 2 (even if you don't have kids, check these out...funny.) Disney's The Kid Stir of Echoes A Christmas Story The Green Mile The Whole Nine Yards



2005-11-29 10:18 AM
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I just got back from Beijing and Changsha, China. There is a giant stirring in the East my friends. The next superpower could be at our doorstep sooner than you think.
2005-11-29 10:18 AM
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oipolloi - 2005-11-29 10:10 AM

Here's a topic recently discussed within my family.

Should Christian parents allow their children to believe in Santa Clause?

I'm not a holy-roller by no means, but if I had children, which I don't, I would not trick them into believeing in Santa Clause.  Christmas should be about Christ, not some bearded fat guy in a red suit.

Now talk amongst yourselves....



I am Catholic and some of the greatest moments of my young children involved us having Santa pop in on X-Mas eve and give my kids a present. Their reaction was priceless, and is something they will remember forever.

Kids also sing in choir on x-mas eve mass, buy and wrap presents for charity, set up a nativity scene with me, etc. Kids can handle both, IMHO.

2005-11-29 10:26 AM
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I might have a new job starting next week!
2005-11-29 10:26 AM
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oipolloi - 2005-11-29 10:10 AM

Here's a topic recently discussed within my family.

Should Christian parents allow their children to believe in Santa Clause?

I'm not a holy-roller by no means, but if I had children, which I don't, I would not trick them into believeing in Santa Clause.  Christmas should be about Christ, not some bearded fat guy in a red suit.

Now talk amongst yourselves....

In Italy, kids receive presents from the martyred Santa Lucia. It's celebrated on Dec 13. Santa is a minor figure in Italy.

I think Christmas has become a very vulgar celebration. I'm trying to remember if it's considered a holy day of observation... Anyway, it seem like it's all about shopping/buying and it seems very unChrist-like to me. Sorry.

I suppose anyone could make it a more holy observation if they wanted to. You just have to ignore the hype and advertising babble.

2005-11-29 10:27 AM
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morey1 - 2005-11-29 10:18 AM
oipolloi - 2005-11-29 10:10 AM

Here's a topic recently discussed within my family.

Should Christian parents allow their children to believe in Santa Clause?

I'm not a holy-roller by no means, but if I had children, which I don't, I would not trick them into believeing in Santa Clause.  Christmas should be about Christ, not some bearded fat guy in a red suit.

Now talk amongst yourselves....

I am Catholic and some of the greatest moments of my young children involved us having Santa pop in on X-Mas eve and give my kids a present. Their reaction was priceless, and is something they will remember forever. Kids also sing in choir on x-mas eve mass, buy and wrap presents for charity, set up a nativity scene with me, etc. Kids can handle both, IMHO.

Ask your kids this question:  What is the meaning of Christmas?

If they answer "Presents...Toys...or Santa & Rudolph" then I think there needs to be a change. 



2005-11-29 10:30 AM
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Renee - 2005-11-29 10:26 AM
oipolloi - 2005-11-29 10:10 AM

Here's a topic recently discussed within my family.

Should Christian parents allow their children to believe in Santa Clause?

I'm not a holy-roller by no means, but if I had children, which I don't, I would not trick them into believeing in Santa Clause.  Christmas should be about Christ, not some bearded fat guy in a red suit.

Now talk amongst yourselves....

In Italy, kids receive presents from the martyred Santa Lucia. It's celebrated on Dec 13. Santa is a minor figure in Italy.

I think Christmas has become a very vulgar celebration. I'm trying to remember if it's considered a holy day of observation... Anyway, it seem like it's all about shopping/buying and it seems very unChrist-like to me. Sorry.

I suppose anyone could make it a more holy observation if they wanted to. You just have to ignore the hype and advertising babble.

I agree with you Renee.  My in-laws and their children are devout Catholics, kids go to catholic school, etc etc.  Year after year I test them.  I ask them what the meaning of Christmas is, what is the best part of Christmas.  The answer is always the same...presents, toys, gifts etc.  I'm not catholic but this still bugs me.

2005-11-29 10:34 AM
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oipolloi - 2005-11-29 11:30 AM
Renee - 2005-11-29 10:26 AM
oipolloi - 2005-11-29 10:10 AM

Here's a topic recently discussed within my family.

Should Christian parents allow their children to believe in Santa Clause?

I'm not a holy-roller by no means, but if I had children, which I don't, I would not trick them into believeing in Santa Clause.  Christmas should be about Christ, not some bearded fat guy in a red suit.

Now talk amongst yourselves....

In Italy, kids receive presents from the martyred Santa Lucia. It's celebrated on Dec 13. Santa is a minor figure in Italy.

I think Christmas has become a very vulgar celebration. I'm trying to remember if it's considered a holy day of observation... Anyway, it seem like it's all about shopping/buying and it seems very unChrist-like to me. Sorry.

I suppose anyone could make it a more holy observation if they wanted to. You just have to ignore the hype and advertising babble.

I agree with you Renee.  My in-laws and their children are devout Catholics, kids go to catholic school, etc etc.  Year after year I test them.  I ask them what the meaning of Christmas is, what is the best part of Christmas.  The answer is always the same...presents, toys, gifts etc.  I'm not catholic but this still bugs me.

2005-11-29 10:36 AM
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Everyone should def. rent the movie/documentary "Touching the Void". It's like "Into the Thin Air", only way, way better.

Christmas in my family was always considered to be a celebration of family and the spirit of giving.

Nothern Italy rocks.

I have a date for my heart surgery: Dec. 16th. A new heart for a christmas present to me!

2005-11-29 10:38 AM
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It really bugs me when all people focus on is doing their Christmas shopping.  I mean c'mon.  Why not take the time it takes you to shop and stress over presents, and use that time toward a more giving, productive cause. 

What bugs me most, is people who knock Christians and our beliefs, but then want to celebrate the holiday all out not realizing that Christmas is celebrating the birth of Jesus?  It's not about presents.  I find that soo hypocritical.  They want to celebrate the "worldly" idea of the holiday, but not the Chrisitan meaning.  Glad to get that off my shoulder.  To me, if you don't believe then don't celebrate.

2005-11-29 10:39 AM
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OIP and Renee, I don't really want to debate this with you because I generally agree with your positions in most posts. Furthermore, on this subject we are very close.

OIP: If you were to ask my kids, the celebration of the birth of christ would be A top answer, along with GIVING as well as receiving gifts, and spending time with family that we may not see regularly. I think those are all good things. My kids are 10 and 7 and love to give me the gifts they bought at school at a gift sale they have.

Renee: Vulgar? I don't know. Marketing hype on steroids? Yes. What can I say, I love Christmas for ALL of it's reasons...celebrate christ/give and receive presents/have fun with kids regarding Santa and St. Nick/spend time with extended family.


2005-11-29 10:42 AM
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morey1 - 2005-11-29 10:39 AM OIP and Renee, I don't really want to debate this with you because I generally agree with your positions in most posts. Furthermore, on this subject we are very close. OIP: If you were to ask my kids, the celebration of the birth of christ would be A top answer, along with GIVING as well as receiving gifts, and spending time with family that we may not see regularly. I think those are all good things. My kids are 10 and 7 and love to give me the gifts they bought at school at a gift sale they have. Renee: Vulgar? I don't know. Marketing hype on steroids? Yes. What can I say, I love Christmas for ALL of it's reasons...celebrate christ/give and receive presents/have fun with kids regarding Santa and St. Nick/spend time with extended family.

I have no doubt you're a great parent.  If your children answer that Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Christ, then you're obviously doing it right.  We need more parents like you.

2005-11-29 10:44 AM
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I voted for Kerry and I live in Texas.  Discuss
2005-11-29 10:45 AM
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Bascially the giving of presents at Christmas is SUPPOSED TO represent or symbolize what Christ gave up for us.  I think if people/children where to understand WHY they give presents then that's a good foundation.  You shouldn't give presents at Christmas just because you think that's what you're supposed to do, everyone else does it, or it's expected.  It's about sacrificing and giving- although our materialistic presents don't compare with the gift that Christ gave us.  We shouldn't expect to receive anything in return for what we give.
2005-11-29 10:46 AM
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RG: You are right...I love x-mas so I don't have a problem with all that it entails. I think it's a blast. Those that don't like it shouldn't do it.

Chipmunk: Thanks. I LOVE Into Thin Air so I'm going to check it out. Good Luck in December!

OIP: Yes, I agree that Christ should be part of their answer, but I don't think that means kiboshing good 'ol SC. My original point was that kids can handle both messages quite well. And, be fair. At 4, my kids knew Christ. <4, they knew cake, ice cream, and presents.
2005-11-29 10:49 AM
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morey1 - 2005-11-29 10:46 AM RG: You are right...I love x-mas so I don't have a problem with all that it entails. I think it's a blast. Those that don't like it shouldn't do it. Chipmunk: Thanks. I LOVE Into Thin Air so I'm going to check it out. Good Luck in December! OIP: Yes, I agree that Christ should be part of their answer, but I don't think that means kiboshing good 'ol SC. My original point was that kids can handle both messages quite well. And, be fair. At 4, my kids knew Christ. <4, they knew cake, ice cream, and presents.

I'm 37 and Cake, Ice Cream and Presents are STILL high on my list.

By the way, I heard that expressing Christmas as X-Mas is Anti-Christian, hense the use of the X.  Anywone else hear of this?



2005-11-29 10:52 AM
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oipolloi - 2005-11-29 10:42 AM

I have no doubt you're a great parent.  If your children answer that Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Christ, then you're obviously doing it right.  We need more parents like you.



So we agree? I need to know that when you have kids, under the tree's gonna be a green bouncing smiling (worm?) with teeth from Santa. ...And, you're gonna show them the cookies that Santa ate? And the tracks out in the Nebraska snow from the Rheindeer when they left? It's fun stuff OIP, and doesn't take away from the message of Christ at all.
2005-11-29 10:54 AM
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morey1 - 2005-11-29 10:39 AM 

Renee: Vulgar? I don't know. Marketing hype on steroids? Yes. What can I say, I love Christmas for ALL of it's reasons...celebrate christ/give and receive presents/have fun with kids regarding Santa and St. Nick/spend time with extended family.

Easter is the holiest day on the Christian calendar but it receives far less 'play', if you will, than Christmas (I guess that's a blessing). The mystery of the faith resides in his Rising, not his birth. 

Chistmas is extremely overhyped and I find much about our hyper-consumer culture vulgar, not just the merchandising of Christmas. My opinion has nothing to do with the Christ-ness of Christmas (there's really so very little to be found); it has to do with the marketing/ merchandising/buy!buy!buy mentality of Christ's birth celebration. I'd far more prefer if it were a secular blow-out/feast than putting a stamp of faith on it. If it were a secular feast I could tolerate the crassness more than the 'holy' crassness Christmas appears to be. The manner in which it is hyped/celebrated seems incongruous with the word holy (holiday). To each his own.

Anyway, I don't want to pee on anyone's Christmas parade. Ignore my curmudgeonly comments.

2005-11-29 10:56 AM
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morey1 - 2005-11-29 10:52 AM
oipolloi - 2005-11-29 10:42 AM

I have no doubt you're a great parent.  If your children answer that Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Christ, then you're obviously doing it right.  We need more parents like you.

So we agree? I need to know that when you have kids, under the tree's gonna be a green bouncing smiling (worm?) with teeth from Santa. ...And, you're gonna show them the cookies that Santa ate? And the tracks out in the Nebraska snow from the Rheindeer when they left? It's fun stuff OIP, and doesn't take away from the message of Christ at all.

We agree Morey.  I think that IF I ever had children I would introduce S.C. as a fictional character similar to the Easter Bunny or tooth fairy.  They would understand that that S.C. is just for fun and has nothing to do with Christmas per se. 



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2005-11-29 10:58 AM
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Mine too Chippy. And we never care when we get together to celebrate each other, it might be the day before, day of, a week after or a week before. We have a huge family so its not about presents (there's no way to buy for everyone) its about being with each other.

Congrats on the date!

ChipmunkHeart - 2005-11-29 11:36 AM

Christmas in my family was always considered to be a celebration of family and the spirit of giving.

I have a date for my heart surgery: Dec. 16th. A new heart for a christmas present to me!

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