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2009-11-20 11:15 AM

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Subject: The Cohen Brothers and The Book of Job (spoiler)

Anybody see the new Cohen Brothers film A Serious Man?

I haven't, but I'm looking forward to it.

Saw an interesting review that compares it to the Book of Job.

Seems like we're living in a time when many people are suffering in ways that are like Job.  Lots of bad things happening to lots of good people. 

Raises some interesting questions.

Is there meaning to suffering?

Can there be a good God in a world that contains evil?

Do we receive in equal measure to what we pour out? In other words, is there such a thing as Karma. I'm not clear that the way the notion of Karma is used these days is actually rooted in Buddhism, but I trust you know what I mean. If you do something bad, does that mean that it will come back to bite you later because of Karma. Equally if something bad happens to you, is it because you did something bad to deserve.

What do you think?

 



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2009-11-20 11:21 AM
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Jimminy Crickets Don.  This is a Friday.  You aren't supposed to bring up this kind of stuff on a Friday. 

I got nothing. 

Other than a very funny book called Job: A Comedy of Justice by Robert A Heinlein.  LOVE this book.  Too funny.  Total SciFi/Fantasy stuff but still funny as all get out.

2009-11-20 11:27 AM
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crowny2 -

Jimminy Crickets Don.  This is a Friday.  You aren't supposed to bring up this kind of stuff on a Friday. 

Maybe Jimminy Cricket and the role our conscience plays in being our moral guide is a good subject for next Friday.

2009-11-20 11:29 AM
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Just put that on my library request list...
2009-11-20 11:32 AM
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dontracy - 2009-11-20 11:27 AM

crowny2 -

Jimminy Crickets Don.  This is a Friday.  You aren't supposed to bring up this kind of stuff on a Friday. 

Maybe Jimminy Cricket and the role our conscience plays in being our moral guide is a good subject for next Friday.

Awesome.  Can Tinker Bell come and play too. 

2009-11-20 11:34 AM
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Subject: RE: The Cohen Brothers and The Book of Job (spoiler)
dontracy - 2009-11-20 12:15 PM

Anybody see the new Cohen Brothers film A Serious Man?

I haven't, but I'm looking forward to it.

Saw an interesting review that compares it to the Book of Job.

Seems like we're living in a time when many people are suffering in ways that are like Job.  Lots of bad things happening to lots of good people. 

Raises some interesting questions.

Is there meaning to suffering?

Can there be a good God in a world that contains evil?

Do we receive in equal measure to what we pour out? In other words, is there such a thing as Karma. I'm not clear that the way the notion of Karma is used these days is actually rooted in Buddhism, but I trust you know what I mean. If you do something bad, does that mean that it will come back to bite you later because of Karma. Equally if something bad happens to you, is it because you did something bad to deserve.

What do you think?

 



Don, very complicated stuff.  To believers, yes, there is meaning to suffering.  This is in the Bible over and over and over again.  We are supposed to rejoice when we are put through trials.  We are often unable to understand why - sometimes it is almost to punish you, sometimes to test you, sometimes to force you to grow - but there is a meaning.

Not sure how to answer that question for others, though.  I am suffering a lot right now, and I know it is to help make me wiser in future decisions.  Doesn't make it suck any less...


2009-11-20 11:38 AM
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I'll give it a stab though I don't know anything about this movie.

Is there meaning to suffering?

I guess it depends on your explanation of suffering.  I think free will comes into this and most of your questions.  Some suffering happens to us and some suffering we choose.  I do believe there are advantages to suffering - we grow, learn and change through adversity but that doesn't mean we have to LIVE in suffering, we can make better choices.


Can there be a good God in a world that contains evil?

Yes.  My theory is that God created us and gave us the gift of free will.  I don't see it as his 'job' to control us, fix things or keep bad things from happening - basically he gave us the tools and we build the life we choose to build.  Then again, I am not sure I believe in Evil as most people do.  I believe there are Evil acts, I do not believe people are born evil - again the free will brings them to commit evil acts.

I do believe in Karma but we have to look at the WHOLE picture.  For instance I have 5 children and each of them have given me a certain amount of grief or concern at different ages.  My theory is that over time they will each give me an equal amount of grief for one that might be ages 0-2 and for the others not until teenage years or even adulthood.  Though as I type that I realize that between my two siblings and I the grief has not been spread evenly for my parents so we'll have to wait and see.

My Mom used to always say if it weren't for bad luck she'd have no luck at all like that old country song.  However, my Mom made BAD choices and therefor bad things happened to her/us.  It did seem that bad luck begat (sp?) bad luck - ie the car would break down, something would happen at her job, we would have an issue with our home etc.  However, looking back all of this was based on the fact that she made bad decisions that put is in a place where bad things would happen.

I feel like I'm saying the same stuff over again so I'm going to stop now.  LOL

2009-11-20 11:51 AM
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Coen bros.
2009-11-20 11:53 AM
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ChrisM - 2009-11-20 12:51 PM Coen bros.

Oops... Thanks... My apologies... too late for me to change it....

2009-11-20 2:34 PM
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Hey - I'll take a stab at this one!  I tend to be somewhat of an existentialist - I don't believe there is some secret meaning to life or the world.  But whatever meaning we decide to project is what we end up with.  So does suffering have meaning?  IMHO, not necessarily.  But we can, as thinking and rational beings, imbue our suffering with meaning.  So for me, if one decides there is import in their suffering, they can make it have meaning.  I think, for example, of people who use altruistic defenses.  The couple at my hospital who run the SIDS support group lost a child to SIDS many years ago.  I can barely imagine a greater loss, or suffering than losing a child.  But the meaning that they have put on it is to offer supports to others who undergo similar tragedy, in a way that people outside such events cannot.

I tend to have more or less a non-opinion about the relevance or existance of God or gods.  As I see things, if there is a prime-mover, creator god, once things got set in motion, there is no further need for intervention, and so such a god (if there is a consciousness associated with him/her/it) simply sits and watches things unfold.  I can equally imagine a sort of animism, where the overall effect of things is akin to a spirit or consciousness - for example, I often can count on the "gods of the keeping my inpatient unit full" keeping me busy.  I have no idea how to propitiate them to reduce the work load, or spread things out.  I assume sometimes they are angry at me, and I come in to find 4-5 new admissions, and sometimes that they are happy and I can just work with the patients I already know.  (I am sort of joking about their existence, but I can absolutely see how a society would develop a more codified view of such gods). In any event, such a god, if one or more exists, would have nothing to do with the presence/absence/nature of good and evil.

In addition to my existential philosophy, I find buddhist thought makes the most sense as an organizing principle for my life (I guess I'm just another Jew-bu).  I don't really believe in karma as a sort of balance that actually metes out good for good or bad for bad (or at least, no more than I believe in the gods of inpatient services, or the gods of call - who used to routinely torture me with bad nights of call).  Rather I think that there are two things that more or less create the illusion of karma.  First, if I do bad things, I make the world a worse place to live.  So eventually it is more likely bad things will happen to me.  If I do good things, and make the world a better place, the odds are better that good things will also be happening around and to me. Secondly, and this speaks to the nature of optimism and pessimism, if I am by nature a negative person, I am likely to be focused and aware of negative things much more (this is supported by psychological studies, btw). So I keep doing negative things, and focusing on the negative that comes my way, supporting a karmic view of bad producing bad.  If I am more upbeat, I can re-frame things in a more positive way, and also dismiss the negative more. 

Interestingly, one of the principles of cognitive therapy is to learn to reframe thinking.  But it turns out that happy upbeat people actually distort reality more than (mildly) depressed people.  So they don't let things get to them as much, and feel happier.  Personally, I find that as I get older, it is easier to let things go.  I also take a more experiential approach to bad things and suffering - that I will allow myself to experience a full range of emotions but not let them define me long term.  Perhaps because nothing truly horrible has happened to me beyond the usual losses of loved ones I can do this, so I wouldn't presume to say to someone who has had extreme tragedy (as above) that they should embrace the pain and suffering for it's own sake.  But I do know that emotions wax and wane, and that how we think about things affects us in many ways.

The one thing I would say about the view of karma that you laid out is that saying bad things happen to those who deserve them is really a "blame the victim" approach.  When a friend from my residency got breast cancer, for example, I wouldn't think "wow, she must have done something bad to have that happen to her".  Or conversely, I don't believe that people who do very well in life must be very good people (usually I believe the opposite  - behind every great fortune is a great crime, as the Balzac said...)
2009-11-20 6:34 PM
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gearboy - 2009-11-20 12:34 PM Hey - I'll take a stab at this one!  I tend to be somewhat of an existentialist - I don't believe there is some secret meaning to life or the world.  But whatever meaning we decide to project is what we end up with.  So does suffering have meaning?  IMHO, not necessarily.  But we can, as thinking and rational beings, imbue our suffering with meaning.  So for me, if one decides there is import in their suffering, they can make it have meaning.  I think, for example, of people who use altruistic defenses.  The couple at my hospital who run the SIDS support group lost a child to SIDS many years ago.  I can barely imagine a greater loss, or suffering than losing a child.  But the meaning that they have put on it is to offer supports to others who undergo similar tragedy, in a way that people outside such events cannot.

I tend to have more or less a non-opinion about the relevance or existance of God or gods.  As I see things, if there is a prime-mover, creator god, once things got set in motion, there is no further need for intervention, and so such a god (if there is a consciousness associated with him/her/it) simply sits and watches things unfold.  I can equally imagine a sort of animism, where the overall effect of things is akin to a spirit or consciousness - for example, I often can count on the "gods of the keeping my inpatient unit full" keeping me busy.  I have no idea how to propitiate them to reduce the work load, or spread things out.  I assume sometimes they are angry at me, and I come in to find 4-5 new admissions, and sometimes that they are happy and I can just work with the patients I already know.  (I am sort of joking about their existence, but I can absolutely see how a society would develop a more codified view of such gods). In any event, such a god, if one or more exists, would have nothing to do with the presence/absence/nature of good and evil.

In addition to my existential philosophy, I find buddhist thought makes the most sense as an organizing principle for my life (I guess I'm just another Jew-bu).  I don't really believe in karma as a sort of balance that actually metes out good for good or bad for bad (or at least, no more than I believe in the gods of inpatient services, or the gods of call - who used to routinely torture me with bad nights of call).  Rather I think that there are two things that more or less create the illusion of karma.  First, if I do bad things, I make the world a worse place to live.  So eventually it is more likely bad things will happen to me.  If I do good things, and make the world a better place, the odds are better that good things will also be happening around and to me. Secondly, and this speaks to the nature of optimism and pessimism, if I am by nature a negative person, I am likely to be focused and aware of negative things much more (this is supported by psychological studies, btw). So I keep doing negative things, and focusing on the negative that comes my way, supporting a karmic view of bad producing bad.  If I am more upbeat, I can re-frame things in a more positive way, and also dismiss the negative more. 

Interestingly, one of the principles of cognitive therapy is to learn to reframe thinking.  But it turns out that happy upbeat people actually distort reality more than (mildly) depressed people.  So they don't let things get to them as much, and feel happier.  Personally, I find that as I get older, it is easier to let things go.  I also take a more experiential approach to bad things and suffering - that I will allow myself to experience a full range of emotions but not let them define me long term.  Perhaps because nothing truly horrible has happened to me beyond the usual losses of loved ones I can do this, so I wouldn't presume to say to someone who has had extreme tragedy (as above) that they should embrace the pain and suffering for it's own sake.  But I do know that emotions wax and wane, and that how we think about things affects us in many ways.

The one thing I would say about the view of karma that you laid out is that saying bad things happen to those who deserve them is really a "blame the victim" approach.  When a friend from my residency got breast cancer, for example, I wouldn't think "wow, she must have done something bad to have that happen to her".  Or conversely, I don't believe that people who do very well in life must be very good people (usually I believe the opposite  - behind every great fortune is a great crime, as the Balzac said...)



Great post!  I agree that suffering means nothing in and of itself.

Buddhists believe that suffering is mainly caused by attachment.  Attachment to ego, relationships, worldy goods, expectations, future goals, permanence, etc.  The list goes on forever really.  And they also believe you can alleviate your suffering by removing these attachments.

But this doesn't mean detaching from life and just becoming an emotionless automaton.  It means purging your negative desires, while still being wholly present and engaged in life.

And no, I haven't figured out how the heck to do that yet.   But I do believe in it. 


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Thanks tripolar. Don't forget about desire.  Suffering is both desire and attachment - I want things that I can't have, or I know the things I have won't last, so I suffer. I don't know that it is fully possible to not experience negative emotions (I know it isn't for me), so the next best thing is to allow the emotions to be experienced but not hang on to the emotion or the thoughts/desires that led to them.

A significant amount of current thinking in psychotherapies connects to ideas of mindfulness and emotional regulation based in these philosophies.  So I get to blend both my professional and philosophical readings!
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Is there meaning to suffering?  Yes. Victor Frankl's suffering during the Nazi Holocaust caused him to dig deep within in search of meaning, and in fact that suffering was the basis for his form of therapy as a psychiatrist. His book, "Man's Search for Meaning" was pivotal in my life when I was going through a very difficult period. Jesus suffered (willingly) to the point of DEATH for those that believe and, if his sacrifice was true, the meaning behind his suffering is that those who place their trust in his life and death is nothing less than the answer to life's question - why? What's it all about? Jesus identified the meaning of his suffering as the way to reconcile man with God. I can identify the meaning of my suffering as a way to become closer to God if I respond in humility and brokenness, which is never easy.

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Holy crank, Gearboy, are you on call or something? Waiting for the pager to go off? How does one respond with their own views without looking like a dimwit after that treatise. I am comfortable in the dimwit role, so I too, shall try. Like Sarah Palin speaking on the origins of the universe after Stephen Hawking leaves the podium.

I am tend towards existentialism by definition as well, particularly Nihilism, but since I have yet to drink the hemlock I have apparently not yet finished the journey. I see morality as necessary for society to function, not as something inherent to man or any divinity. I see morality evolving as society evolves, much as laws are established by society to allow it to function and create guidelines of appropriate behavior.

I also don't believe in Karma as such. The idea that good things will be more likely to happen to those that do good work (and the reverse) would be sensical, particularly to those who have a great impact on society as they would be likely to receive the same in kind. I suspect more realistically that the reciprocal nature of man results in the sort of things that people attribute to Karma. Those that give of themselves will receive the thanks of others, and those that steal will be punished.

so-      Is there meaning to suffering?    No. It is random or a function of societal reciprocity.


Can there be a good God in a world that contains evil?  Yes. I don't believe in one, however. We have been rationalizing that one for ten thousand years, so we believe it could be true, but I believe the search for something bigger than us stems from man being unable to comprehend our existence, and again we create something, a deistic theology, to satisfy our inability to comprehend.       

 
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