Man on Man Massage....

Sometimes women will be a bit too timid... With my experiences guys normally dont have a problem whaling (sp?) on my thighs when I want it...

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No preference. To me, there's nothing sexual about a massage (unless my wife is giving it to me or vice versa). It really depends on the individual therapist and their technique. That being said, typically the men have bigger, stronger hands.

Now if we're talking about those "massages" with "happy endings"....

x2 .. no preference. 

x2.   

As a bigger guy, I think the larger hands of a man would do a better job.  But what if it moves?

LOL!

Note:  My wife is small and is a massage therapist

It does not matter the strength in the therapist hands.  A good therapist uses their body to apply pressure.  My wife can make a 350# Hell's Angel scream like a little girl if she wanted to.  It's how they use their elbows, forearms and such.

If you want a good deep tissue massage, ask the therapist if they are trained in that.  If you want a relaxing massage, ask them if they are trained in that. 

As some others have said, there is nothing sexual about massage so it doesn't matter to me if it's a man or woman.  With proper technique, each can go just as deep into the muscle. 

Every time I book a massage, I think I want a female masseuse.  It seems natural to me.  Obviously, I want to assume she'll be hot, and it'll be a terrific massage.  But in reality, I end up disappointed by a timid gal who doesn't even listen after she asks if there are any areas she should give extra attention to.  This keeps happening to me.

Believe it or not, the best massage I've had was from a dude.  I could tell he really understood and took pride in his craft.  The massage simply rocked.  I make the mistake of thinking that there's something better out there in female-masseuse land, but I should just suck it up and make an appt with the person who gives the best massage.  Maybe I'll learn next time!

Good poll.

~B

I did not vote because I just don't care. (And Either One was not an option)

I get a massage about once per month and about 2 weeks before an "A" race. I love the local day spa here where I live. Everyone that works there regardless of gender is very professional and does a great job.

Interesting story about the spa: It is named for the owner's mother who died after a long battle with cancer at a fairly young age. The whole vibe is based on the ideals that her mother instilled into her children. (That you are important)

Very nice place indeed

Of course I would prefer a female, but I have yet to find a lady with enough strength to give a good massage.  I recently found a sports massage therapists that is a man and he does a good job. 

I am very secure in my masculinity and my marriage so it is no worry to me.