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2013-02-04 3:39 PM

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Subject: Hi, my name is Jessica, and I'm a potty mouth.

And what I really want to know is, why does it seem to be socially acceptable for my husband to cuss all the time but not me?  Why is it hard for people to hear a woman cuss?

Plus, I live in Utah, so it's even worse...



2013-02-04 3:41 PM
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Good f****** question.

Personally, I'm all for a woman not afraid to drop a well-timed expletive.

2013-02-04 3:42 PM
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Maybe you are too sensitive. I don't have a hard time with a female cussing. But in certain company and situations, it is not acceptable for men to cuss. Time and a place.
2013-02-04 3:51 PM
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Why do you NEED to cuss?
2013-02-04 3:53 PM
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My opinion is not based on gender - there's a time and place, usually humor based (anything else is bordering lack of vocabulary/communication skills, my opinion only) is the most well-received. Maybe you are cussing in the wrong time and place?

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2013-02-04 3:54 PM
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Eff that!

In the industry I am in (heavy highway construction) it is like its own derivative of the English language.  It doesn't bother me, male or female, it's just words.  Nothing to get torqued out of the frame over or anything. 



2013-02-04 4:43 PM
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dsand97 - 2013-02-04 4:54 PM

Eff that!

In the industry I am in (heavy highway construction) it is like its own derivative of the English language.  It doesn't bother me, male or female, it's just words.  Nothing to get torqued out of the frame over or anything. 

They are not cuss words, they are sentence enhancers.

 

2013-02-04 4:47 PM
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powerman - 2013-02-04 3:42 PM Maybe you are too sensitive. I don't have a hard time with a female cussing. But in certain company and situations, it is not acceptable for men to cuss. Time and a place.

^^^^^ bingo

2013-02-04 5:58 PM
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Subject: RE: Hi, my name is Jessica, and I'm a potty mouth.
Part of it is probably the Utah thing.  There is a time and place factor too.  I can have a potty mouth too but its typically in the operating room (I am a surgeon).......and the OR with a patient asleep is just a different world
2013-02-04 6:27 PM
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My personal view of it, it just isn't lady-like to cuss/swear.  A lot of women nowadays aren't too concerned with behaving "lady-like," I get that.  I guess I just tend to hold women to an old-fashioned higher standard.  Don't get me wrong, I'm not gonna flinch if a chick drops the eff bomb...but all else being equal, I'm choosing to spend more time with the girl who can express herself without having to go blue.

btw, for the record, I think it's poor form for a man to cuss around a lady.  In my opinion, it's disrespectful.  

2013-02-04 7:03 PM
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I'll never forget, when my husband and I were dating I lived with a girl who cussed all the time. It rubbed off on me and I cussed about something when we were together. He looked at me and said "Such a pretty girl shouldn't say such ugly words".

I wanted to barf and cuss even more but that has always stuck with me even to this day!



2013-02-04 7:33 PM
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I think the whole "shock" about cussing is amusing.  Who cares? Seriously?  I say Fu&k and you act all horrified, but if I say "frigging" oh, that's OKAY?  We all know what I really meant. Same with writing WTF, or people who say shite instead of saying Sh&t , or arse instead of a$$.  How in the world is any of that different than what one really intended?  I chuckled when I hear the "OH FUDGE" Cute.  Really cute.  But somehow me saying "Oh Fu&k" is so vile......just like on my SmartPhone voice recognition, a$$ will go through but sh&t will get asterisks.  Oh brother.

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2013-02-04 8:20 PM
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travljini - 2013-02-04 6:33 PM I think the whole "shock" about cussing is amusing.  Who cares? Seriously?  I say Fu&k and you act all horrified, but if I say "frigging" oh, that's OKAY?  We all know what I really meant. Same with writing WTF, or people who say shite instead of saying Sh&t , or arse instead of a$$.  How in the world is any of that different than what one really intended?  I chuckled when I hear the "OH FUDGE" Cute.  Really cute.  But somehow me saying "Oh Fu&k" is so vile......just like on my SmartPhone voice recognition, a$$ will go through but sh&t will get asterisks.  Oh brother.

I like the... "shut the f...ront door" in that commecial... that's funny.

2013-02-04 9:08 PM
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ChineseDemocracy - 2013-02-04 6:27 PM

a chick ...

. Chick? I thought by now someone would have been more offended by that word in reference!
2013-02-05 6:26 AM
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Ok,I admit it, I can cuss a blue streak when super frustrated!  I don't usually cuss in my everyday conversations, but when I am beyond normal words frustrated--WATCH OUT!

 

Hubby doesn't like it very much and I try to not say those things around him, but sometimes he is the source of my frustrations!

2013-02-05 7:36 AM
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*raises hand* checking in

 

Hi I'm Jtiger and I have a potty mouth.

 

Usually it isn't a big deal since most people I'm around are the same but it can slip when you don't want it to... say after Sunday School.  one of my new years resolutions.



2013-02-05 7:38 AM
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jford2309 - 2013-02-04 3:51 PM Why do you NEED to cuss?

 

Why do we need to do anything?  Nobody NEEDS to cuss just like nobody NEEDS to drink soft drinks or beer but people do.  Like drinking beer, time and place maybe.

2013-02-05 8:27 AM
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My name is Keri and I am a potty mouth. I have a bunch of kids so I'm good at time and place. I am with my kids a lot so when I am sans kids it's almost like I have catching up to do. Put a beer in my hand and you might think I have Tourette's.
2013-02-05 8:34 AM
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KeriKadi - 2013-02-05 6:27 AM My name is Keri and I am a potty mouth. I have a bunch of kids so I'm good at time and place. I am with my kids a lot so when I am sans kids it's almost like I have catching up to do. Put a beer in my hand and you might think I have Tourette's.

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I don't look down on a woman to cusses at all and in some cases I rather like it

2013-02-05 9:05 AM
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Jtiger - 2013-02-05 7:38 AM

jford2309 - 2013-02-04 3:51 PM Why do you NEED to cuss?

 

Why do we need to do anything?  Nobody NEEDS to cuss just like nobody NEEDS to drink soft drinks or beer but people do.  Like drinking beer, time and place maybe.

I am not talking about when you hit your finger or you forget something, but when someone is talking and every other word is a cuss word, then to me it is silly. I tried to watch a movie the other day called "30 Minutes or Less" and every other word was an f bomb and I turned it off. It was just over the top for me. Dropping F bombs or cussing alot doesn't impress me, doesn't make you funnier to me, or cooler or whatever, just tells me that you need help expressing yourself better.

So my friends I hang out with do not cuss every other word, not saying they are a saint by any means, but also they don't drop bombs just to drop bombs!

2013-02-05 9:17 AM
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jford2309 - 2013-02-05 10:05 AM
Jtiger - 2013-02-05 7:38 AM

jford2309 - 2013-02-04 3:51 PM Why do you NEED to cuss?

 

Why do we need to do anything?  Nobody NEEDS to cuss just like nobody NEEDS to drink soft drinks or beer but people do.  Like drinking beer, time and place maybe.

I am not talking about when you hit your finger or you forget something, but when someone is talking and every other word is a cuss word, then to me it is silly. I tried to watch a movie the other day called "30 Minutes or Less" and every other word was an f bomb and I turned it off. It was just over the top for me. Dropping F bombs or cussing alot doesn't impress me, doesn't make you funnier to me, or cooler or whatever, just tells me that you need help expressing yourself better.

So my friends I hang out with do not cuss every other word, not saying they are a saint by any means, but also they don't drop bombs just to drop bombs!

^^ this.  It really is just a lazy way of expressing yourself.



2013-02-05 9:21 AM
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jford2309 - 2013-02-05 9:05 AM
Jtiger - 2013-02-05 7:38 AM

jford2309 - 2013-02-04 3:51 PM Why do you NEED to cuss?

 

Why do we need to do anything?  Nobody NEEDS to cuss just like nobody NEEDS to drink soft drinks or beer but people do.  Like drinking beer, time and place maybe.

I am not talking about when you hit your finger or you forget something, but when someone is talking and every other word is a cuss word, then to me it is silly. I tried to watch a movie the other day called "30 Minutes or Less" and every other word was an f bomb and I turned it off. It was just over the top for me. Dropping F bombs or cussing alot doesn't impress me, doesn't make you funnier to me, or cooler or whatever, just tells me that you need help expressing yourself better.

So my friends I hang out with do not cuss every other word, not saying they are a saint by any means, but also they don't drop bombs just to drop bombs!

 

Sometimes it's required to convey the story in a certain way.  It can add brevity.  Like when you tell a joke sometimes an f'bomb is the punchline clincher other wise it can turn into 5th grade jokes really quick.

Cursing for the sake of cursing in some movies is annoying.  However, The Big Lebowski is just the right amount of F-bombs IMHO. 

Yet in Goodfellas it was annoying to me with Joe Pesci. 

 

When hanging out with the guys nobody is really trying to "impress" anyone. 



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2013-02-05 9:24 AM
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Hi, my name is Christy and I'm a potty mouth.

Yes, I do use sentence enhancers.  Often. I do not use them at work in a professional setting and I try to sensor in front of the kids (with some slip ups) - yes, there is a time and a place.

2013-02-05 9:25 AM
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Jtiger - 2013-02-05 9:21 AM
jford2309 - 2013-02-05 9:05 AM
Jtiger - 2013-02-05 7:38 AM

jford2309 - 2013-02-04 3:51 PM Why do you NEED to cuss?

 

Why do we need to do anything?  Nobody NEEDS to cuss just like nobody NEEDS to drink soft drinks or beer but people do.  Like drinking beer, time and place maybe.

I am not talking about when you hit your finger or you forget something, but when someone is talking and every other word is a cuss word, then to me it is silly. I tried to watch a movie the other day called "30 Minutes or Less" and every other word was an f bomb and I turned it off. It was just over the top for me. Dropping F bombs or cussing alot doesn't impress me, doesn't make you funnier to me, or cooler or whatever, just tells me that you need help expressing yourself better.

So my friends I hang out with do not cuss every other word, not saying they are a saint by any means, but also they don't drop bombs just to drop bombs!

 

Sometimes it's required to convey the story in a certain way.  It can add brevity.  Like when you tell a joke sometimes an f'bomb is the punchline clincher other wise it can turn into 5th grade jokes really quick.

Cursing for the sake of cursing in some movies is annoying.  However, The Big Lebowski is just the right amount of F-bombs IMHO. 

Yet in Goodfellas it was annoying to me with Joe Pesci. 

 

When hanging out with the guys nobody is really trying to "impress" anyone. 

 

For me, it is never required. 

2013-02-05 10:27 AM
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jford2309 - 2013-02-05 9:25 AM
Jtiger - 2013-02-05 9:21 AM
jford2309 - 2013-02-05 9:05 AM
Jtiger - 2013-02-05 7:38 AM

jford2309 - 2013-02-04 3:51 PM Why do you NEED to cuss?

 

Why do we need to do anything?  Nobody NEEDS to cuss just like nobody NEEDS to drink soft drinks or beer but people do.  Like drinking beer, time and place maybe.

I am not talking about when you hit your finger or you forget something, but when someone is talking and every other word is a cuss word, then to me it is silly. I tried to watch a movie the other day called "30 Minutes or Less" and every other word was an f bomb and I turned it off. It was just over the top for me. Dropping F bombs or cussing alot doesn't impress me, doesn't make you funnier to me, or cooler or whatever, just tells me that you need help expressing yourself better.

So my friends I hang out with do not cuss every other word, not saying they are a saint by any means, but also they don't drop bombs just to drop bombs!

 

Sometimes it's required to convey the story in a certain way.  It can add brevity.  Like when you tell a joke sometimes an f'bomb is the punchline clincher other wise it can turn into 5th grade jokes really quick.

Cursing for the sake of cursing in some movies is annoying.  However, The Big Lebowski is just the right amount of F-bombs IMHO. 

Yet in Goodfellas it was annoying to me with Joe Pesci. 

 

When hanging out with the guys nobody is really trying to "impress" anyone. 

 

For me, it is never required. 

I'll bet you're fun at parties...

 

Seriously, sometimes it makes a joke more funny IMO.  Different strokes I guess. 

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