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meherczeg - 2009-02-09 11:11 AM

TAN, I almost had a head-on collision with the Church Hooker on Sunday morning.

I SWEAR it was an accident.

Did you head-butt here Junkyard Dog style??? Because that would've been AWESOME!

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mr2tony - 2009-02-09 12:12 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-09 11:11 AM

TAN, I almost had a head-on collision with the Church Hooker on Sunday morning.

I SWEAR it was an accident.

Did you head-butt here Junkyard Dog style??? Because that would've been AWESOME!

nah, i was just running up to the sanctuary late for worship and looking at my cell, looked up just in time to avoid slamming right into her. of all people it could have been, it was CH.

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Question for you guys and gals... if you met someone you might be interested in and then found out they had a kid, is that a deal-breaker?

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ATXtri - 2009-02-09 11:22 AM

Question for you guys and gals... if you met someone you might be interested in and then found out they had a kid, is that a deal-breaker?

Yes. I hate the little fu**ers.

JOKING, people!!!

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ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:22 PM Question for you guys and gals... if you met someone you might be interested in and then found out they had a kid, is that a deal-breaker?

for me (at this point in my life at least), yes, because i am very selfish. when someone has kids you will never be their number 1 priority. at least you shouldn't be. but i like to be my s.o.'s number 1. and if he has kids and they aren't his first priority, he's probably a d-bag.

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mr2tony - 2009-02-09 11:25 AM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 11:22 AM

Question for you guys and gals... if you met someone you might be interested in and then found out they had a kid, is that a deal-breaker?

Yes. I hate the little fu**ers.

JOKING, people!!!

HA! I knew it.

I dated a guy once who had two kids. I never met the kids or anything. I'm glad i didn't, considering things didn't work out. Not so sure I have a desire to jump back into that scene again. Not to mention, having to deal with the ex.

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meherczeg - 2009-02-09 11:26 AM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:22 PM Question for you guys and gals... if you met someone you might be interested in and then found out they had a kid, is that a deal-breaker?

for me (at this point in my life at least), yes, because i am very selfish. when someone has kids you will never be their number 1 priority. at least you shouldn't be. but i like to be my s.o.'s number 1. and if he has kids and they aren't his first priority, he's probably a d-bag.

Yea, i can understand that. i think i'd be fine with not being number 1 but a close second. Although, i don't know that I could deal with the kids mother. I'm sure I would adore the kid. I don't see that being as much of an issue as I do the ex who has to be super-involved and rightfully so.

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ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:28 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-09 11:26 AM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:22 PM Question for you guys and gals... if you met someone you might be interested in and then found out they had a kid, is that a deal-breaker?

for me (at this point in my life at least), yes, because i am very selfish. when someone has kids you will never be their number 1 priority. at least you shouldn't be. but i like to be my s.o.'s number 1. and if he has kids and they aren't his first priority, he's probably a d-bag.

Yea, i can understand that. i think i'd be fine with not being number 1 but a close second. Although, i don't know that I could deal with the kids mother. I'm sure I would adore the kid. I don't see that being as much of an issue as I do the ex who has to be super-involved and rightfully so.

my bff is having that issue, her boyfriend's ex consumes all of his energy and all their conversations. that's lame. i dated a guy with kids and his ex was only an issue when i first met the kids, she just wanted to know that her kids liked me, which they did, and it was never an issue after that. he did NOT make his kids his top priority, which was nice for me cause i want kids one day and i don't want to have them with a horrible father, so i knew he was no good.

PS i fell in love with his kids, and stayed with him about 8 months longer than i should have because of them. i still pray for them regularly because both of their parents are f-ups. wish i could adopt them.

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meherczeg - 2009-02-09 11:30 AM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:28 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-09 11:26 AM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:22 PM Question for you guys and gals... if you met someone you might be interested in and then found out they had a kid, is that a deal-breaker?

for me (at this point in my life at least), yes, because i am very selfish. when someone has kids you will never be their number 1 priority. at least you shouldn't be. but i like to be my s.o.'s number 1. and if he has kids and they aren't his first priority, he's probably a d-bag.

Yea, i can understand that. i think i'd be fine with not being number 1 but a close second. Although, i don't know that I could deal with the kids mother. I'm sure I would adore the kid. I don't see that being as much of an issue as I do the ex who has to be super-involved and rightfully so.

my bff is having that issue, her boyfriend's ex consumes all of his energy and all their conversations. that's lame. i dated a guy with kids and his ex was only an issue when i first met the kids, she just wanted to know that her kids liked me, which they did, and it was never an issue after that. he did NOT make his kids his top priority, which was nice for me cause i want kids one day and i don't want to have them with a horrible father, so i knew he was no good.

PS i fell in love with his kids, and stayed with him about 8 months longer than i should have because of them. i still pray for them regularly because both of their parents are f-ups. wish i could adopt them.

Thats one of the reasons I didn't want to meet the ex's kids. I knew I would love them from day 1. Not sure if the older one would've been to keen on getting to know me, but I liked them and never even met them. Wonder how it complicates things when you try to have kids with the second spouse?

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Well considering I never want kids, it's kind of a no-brainer that I don't want to date someone with kids. No offense to those who have kids, it's all good, but they're just not for me. They'd probably end up starving to death or something because I forgot to feed them or left for a week to do a race and didn't remember they were there.

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ATXtri - 2009-02-09 9:22 AM Question for you guys and gals... if you met someone you might be interested in and then found out they had a kid, is that a deal-breaker?

Probably. But at my age, it would be hard to find someone that didn't have some kind of baggage. Not that kids are baggage, per say.

Oh Yeah, good morning TAN.

Can't spend much time here anymore, but I will try to get a post in once or twice. (That's what she said)

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ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:32 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-09 11:30 AM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:28 PM

meherczeg - 2009-02-09 11:26 AM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:22 PM Question for you guys and gals... if you met someone you might be interested in and then found out they had a kid, is that a deal-breaker?

for me (at this point in my life at least), yes, because i am very selfish. when someone has kids you will never be their number 1 priority. at least you shouldn't be. but i like to be my s.o.'s number 1. and if he has kids and they aren't his first priority, he's probably a d-bag.

Yea, i can understand that. i think i'd be fine with not being number 1 but a close second. Although, i don't know that I could deal with the kids mother. I'm sure I would adore the kid. I don't see that being as much of an issue as I do the ex who has to be super-involved and rightfully so.

my bff is having that issue, her boyfriend's ex consumes all of his energy and all their conversations. that's lame. i dated a guy with kids and his ex was only an issue when i first met the kids, she just wanted to know that her kids liked me, which they did, and it was never an issue after that. he did NOT make his kids his top priority, which was nice for me cause i want kids one day and i don't want to have them with a horrible father, so i knew he was no good.

PS i fell in love with his kids, and stayed with him about 8 months longer than i should have because of them. i still pray for them regularly because both of their parents are f-ups. wish i could adopt them.

Thats one of the reasons I didn't want to meet the ex's kids. I knew I would love them from day 1. Not sure if the older one would've been to keen on getting to know me, but I liked them and never even met them. Wonder how it complicates things when you try to have kids with the second spouse?

ask my dad...

wife 1 - 2 kids - abusive to all

wife 2 (my mom) - 2 kids - abusive to wife and oldest (me!)

wife 3 - no kids and actually still married 20+ years

i'm just saying, maybe i'm prejudiced about the whole thing.....

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mr2tony - 2009-02-09 12:35 PM Well considering I never want kids, it's kind of a no-brainer that I don't want to date someone with kids. No offense to those who have kids, it's all good, but they're just not for me. They'd probably end up starving to death or something because I forgot to feed them or left for a week to do a race and didn't remember they were there.

i see nothing wrong with that. better to be honest and say "not for me" than to take on a responsibility and screw it up. i had this discussion yesterday with a couple from the church, talking about a guy that was so career-focused, he's still single well into his 30s. not everyone is meant to be married. not everyone is meant to be a parent. it doesn't make them failures. it makes them smart.

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mr2tony - 2009-02-09 11:35 AM

Well considering I never want kids, it's kind of a no-brainer that I don't want to date someone with kids. No offense to those who have kids, it's all good, but they're just not for me. They'd probably end up starving to death or something because I forgot to feed them or left for a week to do a race and didn't remember they were there.

So I definitely want kids one day. I'd like to have a bunch of them. I'm okay with them not all being my own DNA. I'm so concerned about dealing with the mother though. I just wonder how that would affect my kids and having a sibling thats around half the time. How would it affect the dad. If he has one two mothers to deal with? Maybe it wouldn't be nearly as complicated as I am imagining. I'm just a naive 26 year old. What the hell do I know???

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I don't think I'd be a bad father. In fact I think I'd be a great father. But I don't WANT to be a father, just like I don't WANT to be married, hence the divorce proceedings. Which, by the way, are scheduled for a week from today.

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ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:38 PM

mr2tony - 2009-02-09 11:35 AM Well considering I never want kids, it's kind of a no-brainer that I don't want to date someone with kids. No offense to those who have kids, it's all good, but they're just not for me. They'd probably end up starving to death or something because I forgot to feed them or left for a week to do a race and didn't remember they were there.

So I definitely want kids one day. I'd like to have a bunch of them. I'm okay with them not all being my own DNA. I'm so concerned about dealing with the mother though. I just wonder how that would affect my kids and having a sibling thats around half the time. How would it affect the dad. If he has one two mothers to deal with? Maybe it wouldn't be nearly as complicated as I am imagining. I'm just a naive 26 year old. What the hell do I know???

me personally? it was very cool to have a much older bro and sis. the dealings of ex - man - current are all dependent on the individuals. some people are very good with their exes, some have awful relationships with their exes. i used to worry about my ex and if we got married and had kids, that MY kids would be less important, or have to share their dad, and didn't want that for them. me growing up - didn't have to worry about sharing a dad cause he was absent for all 4 of us. but it sure makes weddings and stuff weird now...

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ATXtri - 2009-02-09 11:38 AM

mr2tony - 2009-02-09 11:35 AM

Well considering I never want kids, it's kind of a no-brainer that I don't want to date someone with kids. No offense to those who have kids, it's all good, but they're just not for me. They'd probably end up starving to death or something because I forgot to feed them or left for a week to do a race and didn't remember they were there.

So I definitely want kids one day. I'd like to have a bunch of them. I'm okay with them not all being my own DNA. I'm so concerned about dealing with the mother though. I just wonder how that would affect my kids and having a sibling thats around half the time. How would it affect the dad. If he has one two mothers to deal with? Maybe it wouldn't be nearly as complicated as I am imagining. I'm just a naive 26 year old. What the hell do I know???

PS I really want twins. So i guess if twins don't run in this dudes family, its a no-go regardless.... kidding!!!! (sorta)

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ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:41 PM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 11:38 AM

mr2tony - 2009-02-09 11:35 AM Well considering I never want kids, it's kind of a no-brainer that I don't want to date someone with kids. No offense to those who have kids, it's all good, but they're just not for me. They'd probably end up starving to death or something because I forgot to feed them or left for a week to do a race and didn't remember they were there.

So I definitely want kids one day. I'd like to have a bunch of them. I'm okay with them not all being my own DNA. I'm so concerned about dealing with the mother though. I just wonder how that would affect my kids and having a sibling thats around half the time. How would it affect the dad. If he has one two mothers to deal with? Maybe it wouldn't be nearly as complicated as I am imagining. I'm just a naive 26 year old. What the hell do I know???

PS I really want twins. So i guess if twins don't run in this dudes family, its a no-go regardless.... kidding!!!! (sorta)

go for octuplets. if welfare mom can do it, so can you! hope! change!

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meherczeg - 2009-02-09 11:42 AM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 12:41 PM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 11:38 AM

mr2tony - 2009-02-09 11:35 AM Well considering I never want kids, it's kind of a no-brainer that I don't want to date someone with kids. No offense to those who have kids, it's all good, but they're just not for me. They'd probably end up starving to death or something because I forgot to feed them or left for a week to do a race and didn't remember they were there.

So I definitely want kids one day. I'd like to have a bunch of them. I'm okay with them not all being my own DNA. I'm so concerned about dealing with the mother though. I just wonder how that would affect my kids and having a sibling thats around half the time. How would it affect the dad. If he has one two mothers to deal with? Maybe it wouldn't be nearly as complicated as I am imagining. I'm just a naive 26 year old. What the hell do I know???

PS I really want twins. So i guess if twins don't run in this dudes family, its a no-go regardless.... kidding!!!! (sorta)

go for octuplets. if welfare mom can do it, so can you! hope! change!

hahaha! no way, that would totally wreck my body. haha

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I really want twins named Liam and Lily or Jack and Annie.

haha.. okay enough wholesome family talk.

Let's go back to whoring it up!!!!

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My whole family is made up of twins and triplets:

Kirk, Kevin and Karen.
Adam and Andy.
Tim and Tom.
Colleen and Cathleen.

A few others I can't remember.

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mr2tony - 2009-02-09 11:46 AM

My whole family is made up of twins and triplets:

Kirk, Kevin and Karen.
Adam and Andy.
Tim and Tom.
Colleen and Cathleen.

A few others I can't remember.

Shuddup!? Hey gogg's, lets reproduce. You dont have to take care of em. Just send me $$. Mmm kay?

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ATXtri - 2009-02-09 11:47 AM

mr2tony - 2009-02-09 11:46 AM

My whole family is made up of twins and triplets:

Kirk, Kevin and Karen.
Adam and Andy.
Tim and Tom.
Colleen and Cathleen.

A few others I can't remember.

Shuddup!? Hey gogg's, lets reproduce. You dont have to take care of em. Just send me $$. Mmm kay?

I've seen your feet. No kids of mine are going to have talons like that. Sorry.

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mr2tony - 2009-02-09 11:50 AM

ATXtri - 2009-02-09 11:47 AM

mr2tony - 2009-02-09 11:46 AM

My whole family is made up of twins and triplets:

Kirk, Kevin and Karen.
Adam and Andy.
Tim and Tom.
Colleen and Cathleen.

A few others I can't remember.

Shuddup!? Hey gogg's, lets reproduce. You dont have to take care of em. Just send me $$. Mmm kay?

I've seen your feet. No kids of mine are going to have talons like that. Sorry.

HAHA so true

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WHAT I'M EATING

chicken, sweet potato, green beans, and an apple. so healthy. so delish. i'm going to be hot by the time i need to get in a bikini again, dangit.

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