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2009-04-28 9:02 AM
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bcart1991 - 2009-04-28 9:00 AM
TriAya - 2009-04-28 9:53 AM
mr2tony - 2009-04-28 8:47 AM Yanti. Time to call in the Asian Mafia?


No kidding my dad has connections even here ...

Probably not the best time to point out that the only three guys to ever betray me are no longer alive.
Remind me never to cross you. Much hugs from the ATL side.


Thanks, hon.

No seriously, it was very sad the end they came to. I'd already made peace with two of them and went to their memorials. It is just a very weird coincidence.


2009-04-28 9:03 AM
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Spokes - 2009-04-28 9:02 AM Yanti - $20 says karma will bite the dude on the butt sooner or later.

My X's BF is in for SUCH A SURPRISE when they start living together full-time. Talk about having your balloon popped and the fantasy crushed. Bwahahahahaha Big difference between wild weekends jockstrapping and email and phone and 24/7/365. Especially with smart children like mine. Bwhahahahahahaha.

(actually, I hope it works out)


And actually ... that's one of the cooler things you've said. I know it's better for the children if it works out.
2009-04-28 9:03 AM
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2009-04-28 9:05 AM
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TriAya - 2009-04-28 10:00 AM
Spokes - 2009-04-28 8:59 AM
TriAya - 2009-04-28 6:53 AM
mr2tony - 2009-04-28 8:47 AM Yanti. Time to call in the Asian Mafia?


No kidding my dad has connections even here ...

Probably not the best time to point out that the only three guys to ever betray me are no longer alive.

Poor things. Seriously, all accidents ... had nothing to do with it.

I'm gonna go at least try to bike to group ...

If i don't make it there at least I got outside.

Thanks, all.


Did Cake Boy dump you?

Tell me where he is and I'll um, take care of him.

(nothing like a frame pump in the spokes at 20+ mph. See "Breaking Away" ).


Nah ... he just "let" me find out about the other relationships (not just dalliances) he's been carrying on ... so effectively yes that's the meanest way to get rid of me.

Were you and he exclusive?

2009-04-28 9:05 AM
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2009-04-28 9:06 AM
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Yanti - is the guy in question in your 'cake boyfriend' album?


2009-04-28 9:07 AM
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Good luck Yanti. Keep yer chin up.

Ahh PB toast, some fresh fruit and a cup o' joe. I think I'm building a very solid base for a monster dookie later, and that makes me happy.
2009-04-28 9:07 AM
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wurkit_gurl - 2009-04-28 9:05 AM

TriAya - 2009-04-28 10:00 AM
Spokes - 2009-04-28 8:59 AM
TriAya - 2009-04-28 6:53 AM
mr2tony - 2009-04-28 8:47 AM Yanti. Time to call in the Asian Mafia?


No kidding my dad has connections even here ...

Probably not the best time to point out that the only three guys to ever betray me are no longer alive.

Poor things. Seriously, all accidents ... had nothing to do with it.

I'm gonna go at least try to bike to group ...

If i don't make it there at least I got outside.

Thanks, all.


Did Cake Boy dump you?

Tell me where he is and I'll um, take care of him.

(nothing like a frame pump in the spokes at 20+ mph. See "Breaking Away" ).


Nah ... he just "let" me find out about the other relationships (not just dalliances) he's been carrying on ... so effectively yes that's the meanest way to get rid of me.

Were you and he exclusive?



He led me to believe so. There's something to be said for honesty.
2009-04-28 9:07 AM
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olliedawg - 2009-04-28 9:06 AM Yanti - is the guy in question in your 'cake boyfriend' album?


Yes Ollie. Thanks for reminding me to delete that ASAP ...
2009-04-28 9:09 AM
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2009-04-28 9:10 AM
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Spokes - 2009-04-28 9:09 AM
And I think that's quite fair. Particular in today's world of rampant STDs. The Redhead told me after about the fourth slice that she had genital herpes but Valtrex was keeping it in check. Ugh. Fortunately I kept my raincoat on, and the upside is I'm not infected.


Exactly. He hasn't been raincoating ... with anyone. Man, this is just a whopper after losing my job last week.
2009-04-28 9:12 AM
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Subject: RE: TAN 74... the day that TAN disapeared :D
TriAya - 2009-04-28 7:00 AM
Spokes - 2009-04-28 8:59 AM
TriAya - 2009-04-28 6:53 AM
mr2tony - 2009-04-28 8:47 AM Yanti. Time to call in the Asian Mafia?


No kidding my dad has connections even here ...

Probably not the best time to point out that the only three guys to ever betray me are no longer alive.

Poor things. Seriously, all accidents ... had nothing to do with it.

I'm gonna go at least try to bike to group ...

If i don't make it there at least I got outside.

Thanks, all.


Did Cake Boy dump you?

Tell me where he is and I'll um, take care of him.

(nothing like a frame pump in the spokes at 20+ mph. See "Breaking Away" ).


Nah ... he just "let" me find out about the other relationships (not just dalliances) he's been carrying on ... so effectively yes that's the meanest way to get rid of me.


that totally sux.. i'm only a short plane flight away... want me to hurt him fer ya? :D
2009-04-28 9:12 AM
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I'm sorry to whine so much ... I'm just so confused.

I'm not a bad person ... maybe I just pick badly? I've always treated him with gentleness and kindness and put everything I had into this relationship ... he is just sick and I had nothing to do with that?
2009-04-28 9:12 AM
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2009-04-28 9:14 AM
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grdavison - 2009-04-28 9:12 AM
that totally sux.. i'm only a short plane flight away... want me to hurt him fer ya? :D


Nah. Thanks. Just let me know when your divorce is final

It's a good thing, actually, that he did not come over to explain anything or to talk last night ... I would have seriously and possibly irreversibly harmed him.

It takes a LOT to push me over the edge ... but when I'm there ... well, he's a smart boy.


2009-04-28 9:14 AM
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TriAya - 2009-04-28 7:12 AM I'm sorry to whine so much ... I'm just so confused.

I'm not a bad person ... maybe I just pick badly? I've always treated him with gentleness and kindness and put everything I had into this relationship ... he is just sick and I had nothing to do with that?


some guys are just a$$holes.. has nothing to do with you
2009-04-28 9:15 AM
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2009-04-28 9:16 AM
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Spokes - 2009-04-28 9:02 AM Yanti - $20 says karma will bite the dude on the butt sooner or later.

My X's BF is in for SUCH A SURPRISE when they start living together full-time. Talk about having your balloon popped and the fantasy crushed. Bwahahahahaha Big difference between wild weekends jockstrapping and email and phone and 24/7/365. Especially with smart children like mine. Bwhahahahahahaha.

(actually, I hope it works out)

Scott, quit talking about it.  Don't want to have this TAN yanked. 

Love ya bro. 

2009-04-28 9:17 AM
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Spokes - 2009-04-28 9:15 AM
TriAya - 2009-04-28 7:12 AM I'm sorry to whine so much ... I'm just so confused.

I'm not a bad person ... maybe I just pick badly? I've always treated him with gentleness and kindness and put everything I had into this relationship ... he is just sick and I had nothing to do with that?


Ok, you've been struggling with mental illness. Certain types of mental illness - including bipolar - tends to attract other people with mental issues. So you can't blame your rational mind - blame your brain chemistry. Its not your fault.

I *know*. I was married to a BPD for almost 10 years, and it was a living hell the last 5 or so.

Get your brain straight... if you need pizza, either go the self-service route for a while, or insist on a raincoat with NSA.


It means the world to me that you and Geoff would say it's not my fault. I have very little self-respect left right now, so it does help.
2009-04-28 9:18 AM
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Subject: RE: TAN 74... the day that TAN disapeared :D
TriAya - 2009-04-28 10:10 AM

Spokes - 2009-04-28 9:09 AM
And I think that's quite fair. Particular in today's world of rampant STDs. The Redhead told me after about the fourth slice that she had genital herpes but Valtrex was keeping it in check. Ugh. Fortunately I kept my raincoat on, and the upside is I'm not infected.


Exactly. He hasn't been raincoating ... with anyone. Man, this is just a whopper after losing my job last week.


Spiritual or not: Remember that God never gives us more than we can handle. It "comes in bunches" because we alow ourselves to feel overwhelmed rather than challenged. The circumstances are the same, but it's our interpretation of those which dictate our perception of them.

Get through, do what's right FOR YOU at any given time and keep clawing until you're out of the hole.


2009-04-28 9:18 AM
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grdavison - 2009-04-28 9:14 AM
TriAya - 2009-04-28 7:12 AM I'm sorry to whine so much ... I'm just so confused.

I'm not a bad person ... maybe I just pick badly? I've always treated him with gentleness and kindness and put everything I had into this relationship ... he is just sick and I had nothing to do with that?


some guys are just a$$holes.. has nothing to do with you

What he said.

2009-04-28 9:20 AM
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crowny2 - 2009-04-28 9:18 AM

grdavison - 2009-04-28 9:14 AM
TriAya - 2009-04-28 7:12 AM I'm sorry to whine so much ... I'm just so confused.

I'm not a bad person ... maybe I just pick badly? I've always treated him with gentleness and kindness and put everything I had into this relationship ... he is just sick and I had nothing to do with that?


some guys are just a$$holes.. has nothing to do with you

What he said.



Thanks, crowny.
2009-04-28 9:25 AM
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TriAya - 2009-04-28 9:20 AM
crowny2 - 2009-04-28 9:18 AM

grdavison - 2009-04-28 9:14 AM
TriAya - 2009-04-28 7:12 AM I'm sorry to whine so much ... I'm just so confused.

I'm not a bad person ... maybe I just pick badly? I've always treated him with gentleness and kindness and put everything I had into this relationship ... he is just sick and I had nothing to do with that?


some guys are just a$$holes.. has nothing to do with you

What he said.



Thanks, crowny.

You betcha sweet cheeks. 

2009-04-28 9:25 AM
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