Subject: RE: kaburns1214 Mentor Group 2012 Part 2 - CLOSEDuhcoog - 2012-09-06 4:41 PM OK so I'm torn between being a good friend and being selfish in my training goals for Oilman. My buddy who started doing tris with me but never really got addicted like I did is supposed to be doing his first HIM with me at Oilman. The course has hills, well hills for us are rollers for most others, and he dies on anything not pancake flat. I know he needs my help but this probably means me deviating from what I need to do on long ride days to make this happen. So conflicted. Then I get an email from him that he's "TRIed out" and can't wait for Oilman to be done so he can stop having a workout schedule every day. IDK. He has a 15 to 17 mph goal for the bike and a 12 min mile goal pace for the run. It's going to be a long day for him either way. Sorry, just venting. I really want to nail this race and why I train with people of the same or greater ability for the most part. I know you want to help, but you've also put in a lot of work to achieve your goals. I think you can be encouraging without compromising your goals (e.g. parallel play -- sometimes Shaun will bike with me, we ride out together to a loop and then I go off at my pace, we get to see each other on the loop, ride the same amount of time and then ride home together). |