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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() jmk-brooklyn - 2012-12-18 7:54 PM powerman - 2012-12-18 5:49 PM I agree with all of the above. Including the "not banning" part. How about that?jmk-brooklyn - 2012-12-18 4:26 PM powerman - 2012-12-18 4:43 PM Ok, but again, the point you seem to be making is "I am not a terrorist. Most of the people around me are not terrorists. So, how does making all of these non-terrorists jump through all these hoops make us safer?" And my answer is: since we've implemented them, there have been no successful terrorist attacks. Again--is that correlation or causation? I don't know. But if your argument is that making law-abiding people jump through a bunch of hoops is ultimately not effective at improving safety, the airline industry is a poor example to use because in that case, statistically at least, it has. I think it would be better to implement El-Al style security, but, like gun control, no one would stand for it. You could ratchet up the levels of restrictions and controls on guns and reduce gun crime significantly, but, again, no one would stand for it. So, like the airline industry, since we can't implement any real, significant changes that would make a demonstrative difference, what choice do we have but to implement these ticky-tack things that might help a little, but which are mostly inconvenience and hoop-jumping? jmk-brooklyn - 2012-12-18 2:16 PM 've read your post a number of times, and I don't think I get the analogy. Sorry-- not trying to be obtuse, I just don't see where you're going with the connection. I will say, though that if you're trying to compare airline security to gun control, it doesn’t help your argument that ever since these tedious processes at the airport were put in place, we’ve not had another successful terrorist attack on a plane. You can argue correlation doesn’t equal causation, and you may very well be right, but it’s also a fact that ever since we all started taking our shoes off and tossing out our Dasani bottles at security, there haven’t been any more hijackings of the kind that took place on 9/11. No problem JMK. For you too Gear Boy, I read your post. My point is nobody stopped flying, they just had to do some more stuff. Well... now, many many people... maybe not you two specifically, want to ban semi-auto weapons. Many would ban guns if they could. Many think there is no reasonable explanation to have a semi-auto.... or especially a black rifle with a detachable magazine that is really scary. Yet 90 million owners and 37 million assault rifles say different. What I have said is if I have to get a permit to carry concealed on a "shall issue" basis... and it isn't a "Federal registry" even though law enforcement knows exactly who has CCW permits... then why can't I just get a permit for an assault rifle? Stricter checks, more training, regular renewals, I'm still allowed to do what I want... because I AM NOT THE PROBLEM. Why should 90 million owners be punished for the acts of 62 people over the last 30 years? Profile violent offenders, domestic violence cases, mentally ill. If someone is concerned call a hot line to report them. Already if people get in trouble, as a condition of their release or bond, they have to surrender their weapons till it is cleared up. There are already mechanisms for disarming those that present a danger.... or they go to jail... or they get into a 8 hour stand off with police... but it is better than shooting up a public place. The other part about airport security... if anyone thinks a TSA employee is responsible for keeping us all safe, think again. It is a part of the solution... but there is an entire war behind the scene working on finding those that would attempt another event like before. And another part about airline security nobody sees... armed federal agents on planes and air crew with guns. Fact. I apologize if I am not making this clear. I will try... I am not opposed to back ground checks I am not opposed to jumping through more hoops. I am willing to put up with more regulation. I am willing to apply for a assault weapon permit. I do not agree with banning. That is not "regulating", that is prohibiting. It's ridiculous. They did not prohibit flying, they did not ban planes. They just required a few things to make sure you were not going to blow up the plane... then you were allowed to go on your merry way. I like it. We're getting closer than Washington will get to a solution through an INTERNET THREAD!! |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() powerman - 2012-12-18 7:15 PM jmk-brooklyn - 2012-12-18 5:54 PM agree with all of the above. Including the "not banning" part. How about that? Awesome! Consensus. So, I went to the gun store today to but two magazines. Bizarre. Guns were literally flying off the selves. I over heard a employee say they were the 2nd or 3rd largest retailer... I expected state.. he said nation... they will probably be out of stock by the end of the week. This place is HUGE. It was packed. Monday after the shooting, Colorado had it's single biggest CCW permit application submission day ever. Weird. I'm sure they were just people Christmas shopping. ![]() Seriously, I wonder what percentage of it is "the CT shooting made me feel unsafe, so I need a gun" and how many we're "they're going to take my guns away-- better stock up!" I would normally assume that it was overwhelmingly the latter, but the number of CCW applications makes me think that at least a fair percentage were the former. |
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Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() powerman - 2012-12-18 8:15 PM jmk-brooklyn - 2012-12-18 5:54 PM agree with all of the above. Including the "not banning" part. How about that? Awesome! Consensus. So, I went to the gun store today to but two magazines. Bizarre. Guns were literally flying off the selves. I over heard a employee say they were the 2nd or 3rd largest retailer... I expected state.. he said nation... they will probably be out of stock by the end of the week. This place is HUGE. It was packed. Monday after the shooting, Colorado had it's single biggest CCW permit application submission day ever. Weird. I don't think this is weird at all. To me it comes as no surprise that people are wanting to get the guns they would like to use recreationally and to protect themselves. I am planning on going to get a CCW as soon as I can. I also plan to take a defensive weapons class to ensure that I or someone else isn't caught between myself and a would be murderer. I used to carry a concealed weapon but allowed the permit to expire years ago. I have intended to renew for several years but I simply haven't done it. I know I am about to get hammered by many of you but I am going to say it anyway. If I happen to be in a public place and confronted with the evil that was perpetrated last week I will plan to do what I can to end it as quickly as possible. As with the Oregon mall shooting not long ago, I hope that simply leveling my own weapon would cause the murderer to kill himself after seeing me with my .45 caliber leveled at him. The report came from the local news (not the national media) that the perp shot himself after seeing an off duty security guard draw down on him. |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() DirkP - 2012-12-18 8:20 PM jmk-brooklyn - 2012-12-18 6:18 PM Left Brain - 2012-12-18 3:54 PM That's more or less what happens at my sons school now. gearboy - 2012-12-18 3:41 PM jmk-brooklyn - 2012-12-18 4:16 PM powerman - 2012-12-18 12:41 PM I've read your post a number of times, and I don't think I get the analogy. Sorry-- not trying to be obtuse, I just don't see where you're going with the connection. I will say, though that if you're trying to compare airline security to gun control, it doesn’t help your argument that ever since these tedious processes at the airport were put in place, we’ve not had another successful terrorist attack on a plane. You can argue correlation doesn’t equal causation, and you may very well be right, but it’s also a fact that ever since we all started taking our shoes off and tossing out our Dasani bottles at security, there haven’t been any more hijackings of the kind that took place on 9/11. jmk-brooklyn - 2012-12-18 5:52 AM It's not really even the criminals and the crazy people I'm focused on. And I'm not afraid of people like you and powerman. If everyone in the US had the same relationship to their guns that you do, there would be no debate at all. I'm all about personal responsibility. And, as with so many other things in this country, since we can't trust (many) people to be responsible on their own, we need to legislate stuff, if only to ensure that other people are protected from their irresponsibility. So then let's look at this... A group of middle East terrorists crash a couple planes. A M.E. guy hides a bomb in his shoe. Another one in his under ware. So now, the entire flying population has to endure searches of infants and blue haired old ladies. Take of our shoes, no liquids, body scans... we all roll our eyes and talk about how completely ridiculous it is... because in the name of "political correctness" they can't profile the ones that might actually do it. We all go on about more bloated bureaucracies and government regulations and that it does not do much other than make everyone show up to the airport 2 hours ahead of their flight. Yet after 911... they didn't ban planes. They didn't ban flying. They didn't make travelers PROOVE they had a reason they wanted to be on the plane and a background check to say they were safe. No licenses were issued to those that were cleared and could fly at will. There was a "no fly" list put out though.. and it some that should not have been on it, and lapses like usual. But the bottom line was the public was still allowed to fly, they just had to jump through some hoops. So how is this different? You saw my numbers,
And let's be clear about... shooting 20 children is not "irresponsible"... it is mass murder. We don't know what the deal was with the mom, but she was shot in the face 4 times. I'm sure she will not be so irresponsible in the future. If you want to make the argument now that the Federal Government is in the business of legislating individual "responsibility"... hu, no thank you. I'm with jmk on this - I don't see the point you must be trying to make. Especially since a friend of mine put a quote on her facebook page attributed to John Oliver - "One failed attempt at a shoe bomb and we all take off our shoes at the airport.Thirty one school shootings since Columbine and no change in our regulation of guns". I read this (attributed correctly or not - I have no idea) as saying that after a single failed attempt, we have all ended up making significant changes in what is seen as acceptable obstacles in our right to freely travel, while despite all the school shootings, not a single change is considered acceptable as an infringement. I have no problem with schools being locked down and visitors/parents needing to pass a check point to get in. There......solved. You can call that whatever you want......but you mark my words..... that's where we are headed. My kids schools have been doing this for several years. They have code for when an unintended visitor is in the building...................."Could Mr. Vernon Williams please come to the office?" I consult to about a dozen different school districts. They all, at all levels, have this. I have to press a buzzer, located near a camera, identify myself and state my business with the school before I get buzzed in. In most schools, the office is located right near the entrance point, where I have to sign in, even though in most cases I am not going outside the office and will be accompanied by staff members at every step of my movement; and am well known by many of the office staff, guidance counselors, special ed staff, and school principals because of my consulting work. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() powerman - 2012-12-18 11:26 AM gearboy - 2012-12-18 7:50 AM TriRSquared - 2012-12-18 9:19 AM KeriKadi - 2012-12-18 9:07 AM How have other countries handled this? I understand there are some countries where there is more gun control now than before, Canada and Australia come to mind. How do they do it? They just did it. I'm of course being a little bit flip but it's not too far off They voted and said this is now illegal. They do not have the right to bear arms in their constitutions so they can make whatever laws they want with regards to firearms. Here is an Op-Ed piece in today's NY Times about just that issue. You can agree or not with the idea of implementing it, but it made me think it is in fact possible to reduce the number of guns out there. Buybacks, changing social perceptions, etc. It should also be possible to increase the burden of proof of safety before getting guns. However, given the highly polarized nature of our country these days (again - look at the battles over healthcare/insurance), I doubt anything will happen. I'm seriously asking you GB, so far the predominate things suggested have been training, gun safety... and of course various ban of just getting rid of them. But "safety" and training do not change mass shooting sprees. Newtown was "trained" and probably had a "safety course". He wasn't an irresponsible owner because he didn't own any guns. I heard on lady last night that her some was becoming increasingly difficult to control. I don't know. I'm sure we will get more information later as far as what went on in the house. Right now I can't even imagine how she had guns in that environment, but we do not know what she did... and at the end of the day, back ground checking her all day would not deny her a gun because her adult child was homicidal. I have heard arguments before about mental illness and safety. 1. If you are going to punish, restrict, take away, hold people on a fear of what they might do, nobody will come forward for help. 2. Health info Privacy is the barrier between health care and law enforcement and privacy rules prevent the two from talking or coordinating. 3. Difficulty in actually determining that this person has a high degree of risk and should be barred from certain freedoms indefinitely/TBD is a tough sell in most courts. What is the answer. I'm not saying mental health is THE problem, but is certainly is a part of it. Hey GearBoy, if you missed this, could you give me your thoughts on this^^^ |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() powerman - 2012-12-18 9:27 PM powerman - 2012-12-18 11:26 AM gearboy - 2012-12-18 7:50 AM TriRSquared - 2012-12-18 9:19 AM KeriKadi - 2012-12-18 9:07 AM How have other countries handled this? I understand there are some countries where there is more gun control now than before, Canada and Australia come to mind. How do they do it? They just did it. I'm of course being a little bit flip but it's not too far off They voted and said this is now illegal. They do not have the right to bear arms in their constitutions so they can make whatever laws they want with regards to firearms. Here is an Op-Ed piece in today's NY Times about just that issue. You can agree or not with the idea of implementing it, but it made me think it is in fact possible to reduce the number of guns out there. Buybacks, changing social perceptions, etc. It should also be possible to increase the burden of proof of safety before getting guns. However, given the highly polarized nature of our country these days (again - look at the battles over healthcare/insurance), I doubt anything will happen. I'm seriously asking you GB, so far the predominate things suggested have been training, gun safety... and of course various ban of just getting rid of them. But "safety" and training do not change mass shooting sprees. Newtown was "trained" and probably had a "safety course". He wasn't an irresponsible owner because he didn't own any guns. I heard on lady last night that her some was becoming increasingly difficult to control. I don't know. I'm sure we will get more information later as far as what went on in the house. Right now I can't even imagine how she had guns in that environment, but we do not know what she did... and at the end of the day, back ground checking her all day would not deny her a gun because her adult child was homicidal. I have heard arguments before about mental illness and safety. 1. If you are going to punish, restrict, take away, hold people on a fear of what they might do, nobody will come forward for help. 2. Health info Privacy is the barrier between health care and law enforcement and privacy rules prevent the two from talking or coordinating. 3. Difficulty in actually determining that this person has a high degree of risk and should be barred from certain freedoms indefinitely/TBD is a tough sell in most courts. What is the answer. I'm not saying mental health is THE problem, but is certainly is a part of it. Hey GearBoy, if you missed this, could you give me your thoughts on this^^^ I did miss it, in the 15 or whatever it is pages of this thread. I think there are as many problems with looking at this as a mental health issue as there are in seeing it as a gun control issue. MOST mentally ill people are a threat to no one. Not themselves and not others. Statistically speaking, there is a greater chance that people who ARE a threat are mentally ill. So...what to do? I think if you know that someone in your home may be a threat based on a history of aggressive behaviors, you should not bring firearms into your home. Talking about "training kids to handle firearms" only prevents accidental deaths. But if you have trained your kid to use a gun, and they are depressed and suicidal (for example), you have not trained them to be safe. You have trained them how to use the gun, and to anticipate the kick, such that their attempted suicide (or homicide) via GSW will be successful. It will not have been an accident. In most states, if you are involuntarily committed, that information goes straight to the state, and you will not be eligible to own a firearm or get a hunting license, or in some cases enter the military or police. We will sometimes in the ER warn patients that if they do not sign themselves in voluntarily, they risk being committed (in most cases, it is more than "a risk" - if we - the mental health professionals - are saying you will be committed, we usually understand very clearly the level of threat to self/others that you pose, and will take steps to ensure safety). Of course, the flip side of this is that if they DO sign in voluntarily, they remain "invisible" as far as the state is concerned. Which means they are free to later purchase all the firearms they want. Should we commit everyone who COULD be committed? I am troubled by that as it puts me (and my profession) too close to a Soviet-style enforcement arm of the government's will, and will discourage people from seeking help.Which means there will be people who we think might someday pose a threat to others that we cannot legally prohibit from taking steps later. I think I mentioned somewhere in this thread that I know of cases where a person HAD been committed and was not allowed to own a gun, but had a family member willingly serve as a straw-man buyer to provide firearms. I don't know how to get around that. If anyone in your address has been committed, you cannot own firearms? I think people would object who have not committed a commitable act; and would then be less likely to initiate a commitment. I have a hard enough time getting parents to press charges on their teenage children who do not have a mental disorder and are simply engaging in antisocial behaviors, even though there is plenty of evidence that having a PO enforcing school attendance and sobriety can go a long way in turning around their life. How hard is it to be committed? In most states, you have to demonstrate the presence of a mental illness, connected in some way to the threats to safety of self or others in the form of specific threats and acts in furtherance of those threats within a specified period of time (in PA, it is the last 30 days); in some cases (like PA). there is an additional, "softer" criteria of would be at risk within the next 30 days of serious harm (e.g. an anorexic who might starve to death, or a diabetic who believes his insulin is actually poison and refuses to take it). The commitment itself is not for an indefinite period of time - in PA, the initial commitment is for up to 5 days. If there is still a risk, I have to go back to court and ask for up to another 20; and then for another 6 months. At each hearing, the person has representation whose job is to challenge any assertions and evidence I present at a hearing to the effect of the patient's safety if they were to leave the hospital. As you might imagine, the bar is set rather higher in most cases for longer commitments. OTOH, having been committed even for the initial commitment is enough, in PA at least, to no longer be eligible to own firearms. I understand there is a mechanism in the law to appeal this, but you have to prove that the risk factors are no longer relevant. And the likelihood of a successful appeal is going to be highly dependent on the county and judges involved. At the end of it all, I think the solutions, like the issues of the budget, requires looking at both sides of the equation. We need to look at both mental health treatment as well as gun control issues. I heard an interesting thing on NPR today that pointed out that we are all, at some level, for gun control. Not even the most rapid NRA supporter, for example, would say "This guy says Osama bin Laden had some great ideas. He wants a high power, high magazine weapon so he can go the to the local playground and shot as many kids as possiible. He should be allowed as many guns and armor piercing rounds as he can afford". So the issue is not whether or not we believe in limiting access. It is where we believe that line should be drawn. |
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Thanks GB... I can agree with that. And the bottom line isn't to punish the mentally ill any more than it is to punish legal responsible gun owners. I also don't want to single this out as a "mental health issue"... because as you say... it's both.. or more. I was looking at info on mass shootings and about half "showed signs of mental illness prior to the shooting". I can't even begin to tell you what they meant by that. But the obvious take away is the other half were just pizzed off and sane. Bottom line is to get the help these people need, whether they are a threat to others, or just in a really bad place and circling the drain. You have probably read that article that is circulating, "I am Adam Lanza's mother". I can't even imagine. The kid isn't evil or sick, he is ill, and needs help. The fact that the only help available is a jail cell is unacceptable to me. If the Lanzas were going through something similar, then that is a tragedy that deserves action as well. I hope you do not take this as an attemp to "change the subject" or point blame. Perhaps this too can be a turning point for mental health and problems addressed. Not just ban everything and lock everyone away. |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() From my perspective, I see the mental health profession/industry/whatever you want to call it, as a complete and utter failure....completely broken. You got it right, GB, in one of your initial paragraphs. As a matter of ROUTINE, your colleagues, from what I have seen countless times, talk people into signing themselves in voluntarily to get around all the mandatory reporting that comes with an involuntary commitment. That HAS to stop. We deal with thousands and thousands of people in my line of work.....it becomes relatively easy to see when someone is a threat to themselves or others....and we take them straight to the hospital for an evaluation. We fill out the affidavit needed for the involuntary commitment....which is required....only to find out, in the VAST MAJORITY of cases, that the Dr. has talked the person into signing themself in, thereby getting around the protections that should be in place. It's a terrible practice that has become absolutely routine in your profession. It's often done even before an evaluation is done in most cases. We view it as shameful.....but we also know that we have taken the steps we are required to take by law...and we move on to the next one. We, as a society, used to lock people away who were deemed a threat, or danger to the rest of us because of their mental condition. Now we have gotten to the point where we talk about locking ourselves and our children in to keep us safe from them. It's backwards. It needs to be re-evaluated. Is anyone but me getting tired of hearing someone say, "you know, when I heard there was a shooting I KNEW it was XXXXXX.....I just knew it". Yeah, no chit!! As I've said, I'm willing to look at personal responsibility with regard to guns, and willing to debate any other parts of our gun control issues in this country.....but the way we deal with the mentally ill among us is a joke. I'm sorry, it is. It needs to be a major part of any discussion on mass shootings. Edited by Left Brain 2012-12-18 11:31 PM |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Left Brain - 2012-12-18 9:13 PM From my perspective, I see the mental health profession/industry/whatever you want to call it, as a complete and utter failure....completely broken. You got it right, GB, in one of your initial paragraphs. As a matter of ROUTINE, your colleagues, from what I have seen countless times, talk people into signing themselves in voluntarily to get around all the mandatory reporting that comes with an involuntary commitment. That HAS to stop. We deal with thousands and thousands of people in my line of work.....it becomes relatively easy to see when someone is a threat to themselves or others....and we take them straight to the hospital for an evaluation. We fill out the affidavit needed for the involuntary commitment....which is required....only to find out, in the VAST MAJORITY of cases, that the Dr. has talked the person into signing themself in, thereby getting around the protections that should be in place. It's a terrible practice that has become absolutely routine in your profession. It's often done even before an evaluation is done in most cases. We view it as shameful.....but we also know that we have taken the steps we are required to take by law...and we move on to the next one. We, as a society, used to lock people away who were deemed a threat, or danger to the rest of us because of their mental condition. Now we have gotten to the point where we talk about locking ourselves and our children in to keep us safe from them. It's backwards. It needs to be re-evaluated. Is anyone but me getting tired of hearing someone say, "you know, when I heard there was a shooting I KNEW it was XXXXXX.....I just knew it". Yeah, no chit!! As I've said, I'm willing to look at personal responsibility with regard to guns, and willing to debate any other parts of our gun control issues in this country.....but the way we deal with the mentally ill among us is a joke. I'm sorry, it is. It needs to be a major part of any discussion on mass shootings. Wow. I'm trying to understand your reply in a way that is reasonable and fair to mental illness, and failing utterly. Seriously, you think you know better than psychiatrists who should and shouldn't be locked up?? |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Tripolar - 2012-12-18 11:44 PM Left Brain - 2012-12-18 9:13 PM Wow. I'm trying to understand your reply in a way that is reasonable and fair to mental illness, and failing utterly. Seriously, you think you know better than psychiatrists who should and shouldn't be locked up?? From my perspective, I see the mental health profession/industry/whatever you want to call it, as a complete and utter failure....completely broken. You got it right, GB, in one of your initial paragraphs. As a matter of ROUTINE, your colleagues, from what I have seen countless times, talk people into signing themselves in voluntarily to get around all the mandatory reporting that comes with an involuntary commitment. That HAS to stop. We deal with thousands and thousands of people in my line of work.....it becomes relatively easy to see when someone is a threat to themselves or others....and we take them straight to the hospital for an evaluation. We fill out the affidavit needed for the involuntary commitment....which is required....only to find out, in the VAST MAJORITY of cases, that the Dr. has talked the person into signing themself in, thereby getting around the protections that should be in place. It's a terrible practice that has become absolutely routine in your profession. It's often done even before an evaluation is done in most cases. We view it as shameful.....but we also know that we have taken the steps we are required to take by law...and we move on to the next one. We, as a society, used to lock people away who were deemed a threat, or danger to the rest of us because of their mental condition. Now we have gotten to the point where we talk about locking ourselves and our children in to keep us safe from them. It's backwards. It needs to be re-evaluated. Is anyone but me getting tired of hearing someone say, "you know, when I heard there was a shooting I KNEW it was XXXXXX.....I just knew it". Yeah, no chit!! As I've said, I'm willing to look at personal responsibility with regard to guns, and willing to debate any other parts of our gun control issues in this country.....but the way we deal with the mentally ill among us is a joke. I'm sorry, it is. It needs to be a major part of any discussion on mass shootings. Nope...but when someone is obviously mentally ill and saying that they will kill people, and/or themselves, and are back out of the hospital in a couple of days after we have them committed, by filing the proper affidavit detailing their behavior, I don't have to know anything other than NOBODY could make that evaluation to let them back out into the public that quickly. You may not know this, but many times we deal with the same person over and over again until they finally commit a crime that gets them locked up by the legal system. My most memorable was a 22 year old that we had sent to the hospital for evaluation 11 times in a 4 year period.....each time he was released within days. He finally strangled an 8 year old girl. When we finally found a witness that told us she had seen him with the missing girl, we knew all we were doing was trying to get him to tell us what he did with the body....it's not rocket science. I can only comment on the things I see.....you can decide whether I know better or not. It won't change what I will deal with tomorrow. Edited by Left Brain 2012-12-18 11:59 PM |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Here, this was written by a friend of mine in his late 60's......it will be viewed by some as controversial because he is nothing if not "plain-speaking"...so if you are not in the mood, why read it? Still.....to me, it contains enough merit to become part of the debate.....we should at least listen to our elders....it's worked for generations: "I agree that people are much, MUCH less responsible than they used to be. Maybe lots of people whose grandparents could be trusted with all sorts of things can no longer be trusted with anything dangerous. Maybe. Edited by Left Brain 2012-12-19 12:20 AM |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Left Brain - 2012-12-19 12:57 AM Tripolar - 2012-12-18 11:44 PM Left Brain - 2012-12-18 9:13 PM Wow. I'm trying to understand your reply in a way that is reasonable and fair to mental illness, and failing utterly. Seriously, you think you know better than psychiatrists who should and shouldn't be locked up?? From my perspective, I see the mental health profession/industry/whatever you want to call it, as a complete and utter failure....completely broken. You got it right, GB, in one of your initial paragraphs. As a matter of ROUTINE, your colleagues, from what I have seen countless times, talk people into signing themselves in voluntarily to get around all the mandatory reporting that comes with an involuntary commitment. That HAS to stop. We deal with thousands and thousands of people in my line of work.....it becomes relatively easy to see when someone is a threat to themselves or others....and we take them straight to the hospital for an evaluation. We fill out the affidavit needed for the involuntary commitment....which is required....only to find out, in the VAST MAJORITY of cases, that the Dr. has talked the person into signing themself in, thereby getting around the protections that should be in place. It's a terrible practice that has become absolutely routine in your profession. It's often done even before an evaluation is done in most cases. We view it as shameful.....but we also know that we have taken the steps we are required to take by law...and we move on to the next one. We, as a society, used to lock people away who were deemed a threat, or danger to the rest of us because of their mental condition. Now we have gotten to the point where we talk about locking ourselves and our children in to keep us safe from them. It's backwards. It needs to be re-evaluated. Is anyone but me getting tired of hearing someone say, "you know, when I heard there was a shooting I KNEW it was XXXXXX.....I just knew it". Yeah, no chit!! As I've said, I'm willing to look at personal responsibility with regard to guns, and willing to debate any other parts of our gun control issues in this country.....but the way we deal with the mentally ill among us is a joke. I'm sorry, it is. It needs to be a major part of any discussion on mass shootings. Nope...but when someone is obviously mentally ill and saying that they will kill people, and/or themselves, and are back out of the hospital in a couple of days after we have them committed, by filing the proper affidavit detailing their behavior, I don't have to know anything other than NOBODY could make that evaluation to let them back out into the public that quickly. You may not know this, but many times we deal with the same person over and over again until they finally commit a crime that gets them locked up by the legal system. My most memorable was a 22 year old that we had sent to the hospital for evaluation 11 times in a 4 year period.....each time he was released within days. He finally strangled an 8 year old girl. When we finally found a witness that told us she had seen him with the missing girl, we knew all we were doing was trying to get him to tell us what he did with the body....it's not rocket science. I can only comment on the things I see.....you can decide whether I know better or not. It won't change what I will deal with tomorrow. Even if we let the commitment stand, the person will be out on the street in a short period of time. The percentage of patients who get committed and end up going into long term treatment is minuscule. And state hospitals (where they would have gone) have seriously downsized their capacities. There are several reasons to ask someone to sign themselves in instead of letting the commitment itself stand. For one, a voluntary commitment is open-ended. I am under no obligation to release a voluntary patient after 3 days, 5 days, 2 weeks, or even 7 months (my record for having a specific person on the unit due to the need for placement and the difficulty finding a placement). I do not have to prove anything in a court about safety. And if the person asks to sign out, I have up to 3 days to determine if I believe they are a risk to themselves or others, and can commit them at that point. Also, a patient who is voluntary is a little more likely to spend the first couple of days working on whatever brought them in, rather than saying "I don't need to be here and I'll prove it at my hearing in a couple of days". Finally, for someone who is concerned about having his 2A rights (and presumably all his other rights) protected, you should be wary about a system that allows people to be easily committed and then lose rights indefinitely as a result. As I said, I am concerned when the psychiatric profession is being treated like an arm of law enforcement to lock people up. It is too close the recent abuses of mental health systems in places like Soviet Russia. I will say that if I suspect someone is signing in just to try to sign out, I will not allow them to sign in. That itself is may be a legal gray area, as I believe a person who asks to sign in is supposed to be allowed to do so, although I have not been taken to task on it in a court in the 20 or so years I've been in practice.
My other observation is a response the part I highlighted but didn't bold. I think it would be tremendous step backwards to lock people away for an indeterminate period of time due to having mental illness alone. And that is the way the system used to work (when I worked for a state hospital, I met a patient who had been held since 1941, several months before WWII - by the time the laws had changed, he could not function on his own, and was essentially forgotten by all who knew him. He was perfectly cooperative with the staff and not a threat to anyone at that point. But I had nowhere to send him). And if we treated mental illness as something where people COULD be easily locked away for years on end, I would predict that people WOULD be easily locked away. After all, even your comment just above mine here expresses the concern that "Trouble is, history has shown that bad as people can be as individuals, governments are often a lot worse". Making psychiatric commitment the hidden enforcement arm of the legal system is creating the risk that we have the problem without due process (which the mental health laws of the last 40 years have largely been addressing). |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() jmk-brooklyn - 2012-12-18 8:28 PM powerman - 2012-12-18 7:15 PM I'm sure they were just people Christmas shopping. jmk-brooklyn - 2012-12-18 5:54 PM agree with all of the above. Including the "not banning" part. How about that? Awesome! Consensus. So, I went to the gun store today to but two magazines. Bizarre. Guns were literally flying off the selves. I over heard a employee say they were the 2nd or 3rd largest retailer... I expected state.. he said nation... they will probably be out of stock by the end of the week. This place is HUGE. It was packed. Monday after the shooting, Colorado had it's single biggest CCW permit application submission day ever. Weird. ![]() A bit of both. During the Clinton AW ban there was talk of making it harder to get a CCW as well. |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() gearboy - 2012-12-19 6:05 AM Left Brain - 2012-12-19 12:57 AM Tripolar - 2012-12-18 11:44 PM Left Brain - 2012-12-18 9:13 PM Wow. I'm trying to understand your reply in a way that is reasonable and fair to mental illness, and failing utterly. Seriously, you think you know better than psychiatrists who should and shouldn't be locked up?? From my perspective, I see the mental health profession/industry/whatever you want to call it, as a complete and utter failure....completely broken. You got it right, GB, in one of your initial paragraphs. As a matter of ROUTINE, your colleagues, from what I have seen countless times, talk people into signing themselves in voluntarily to get around all the mandatory reporting that comes with an involuntary commitment. That HAS to stop. We deal with thousands and thousands of people in my line of work.....it becomes relatively easy to see when someone is a threat to themselves or others....and we take them straight to the hospital for an evaluation. We fill out the affidavit needed for the involuntary commitment....which is required....only to find out, in the VAST MAJORITY of cases, that the Dr. has talked the person into signing themself in, thereby getting around the protections that should be in place. It's a terrible practice that has become absolutely routine in your profession. It's often done even before an evaluation is done in most cases. We view it as shameful.....but we also know that we have taken the steps we are required to take by law...and we move on to the next one. We, as a society, used to lock people away who were deemed a threat, or danger to the rest of us because of their mental condition. Now we have gotten to the point where we talk about locking ourselves and our children in to keep us safe from them. It's backwards. It needs to be re-evaluated. Is anyone but me getting tired of hearing someone say, "you know, when I heard there was a shooting I KNEW it was XXXXXX.....I just knew it". Yeah, no chit!! As I've said, I'm willing to look at personal responsibility with regard to guns, and willing to debate any other parts of our gun control issues in this country.....but the way we deal with the mentally ill among us is a joke. I'm sorry, it is. It needs to be a major part of any discussion on mass shootings. Nope...but when someone is obviously mentally ill and saying that they will kill people, and/or themselves, and are back out of the hospital in a couple of days after we have them committed, by filing the proper affidavit detailing their behavior, I don't have to know anything other than NOBODY could make that evaluation to let them back out into the public that quickly. You may not know this, but many times we deal with the same person over and over again until they finally commit a crime that gets them locked up by the legal system. My most memorable was a 22 year old that we had sent to the hospital for evaluation 11 times in a 4 year period.....each time he was released within days. He finally strangled an 8 year old girl. When we finally found a witness that told us she had seen him with the missing girl, we knew all we were doing was trying to get him to tell us what he did with the body....it's not rocket science. I can only comment on the things I see.....you can decide whether I know better or not. It won't change what I will deal with tomorrow. Even if we let the commitment stand, the person will be out on the street in a short period of time. The percentage of patients who get committed and end up going into long term treatment is minuscule. And state hospitals (where they would have gone) have seriously downsized their capacities. There are several reasons to ask someone to sign themselves in instead of letting the commitment itself stand. For one, a voluntary commitment is open-ended. I am under no obligation to release a voluntary patient after 3 days, 5 days, 2 weeks, or even 7 months (my record for having a specific person on the unit due to the need for placement and the difficulty finding a placement). I do not have to prove anything in a court about safety. And if the person asks to sign out, I have up to 3 days to determine if I believe they are a risk to themselves or others, and can commit them at that point. Also, a patient who is voluntary is a little more likely to spend the first couple of days working on whatever brought them in, rather than saying "I don't need to be here and I'll prove it at my hearing in a couple of days". Finally, for someone who is concerned about having his 2A rights (and presumably all his other rights) protected, you should be wary about a system that allows people to be easily committed and then lose rights indefinitely as a result. As I said, I am concerned when the psychiatric profession is being treated like an arm of law enforcement to lock people up. It is too close the recent abuses of mental health systems in places like Soviet Russia. I will say that if I suspect someone is signing in just to try to sign out, I will not allow them to sign in. That itself is may be a legal gray area, as I believe a person who asks to sign in is supposed to be allowed to do so, although I have not been taken to task on it in a court in the 20 or so years I've been in practice.
My other observation is a response the part I highlighted but didn't bold. I think it would be tremendous step backwards to lock people away for an indeterminate period of time due to having mental illness alone. And that is the way the system used to work (when I worked for a state hospital, I met a patient who had been held since 1941, several months before WWII - by the time the laws had changed, he could not function on his own, and was essentially forgotten by all who knew him. He was perfectly cooperative with the staff and not a threat to anyone at that point. But I had nowhere to send him). And if we treated mental illness as something where people COULD be easily locked away for years on end, I would predict that people WOULD be easily locked away. After all, even your comment just above mine here expresses the concern that "Trouble is, history has shown that bad as people can be as individuals, governments are often a lot worse". Making psychiatric commitment the hidden enforcement arm of the legal system is creating the risk that we have the problem without due process (which the mental health laws of the last 40 years have largely been addressing). And my concern is that you are so worried about it (the collective you) that you forget that you ALSO have an obligation to protect society from dangerous people. People who show that they MAY be capable of commiting these heinous acts. I'm not talking about a wild arse guess that they might, or even a perfect clinical diagnoses that they might. I'm talking about people who's loved ones fear them, who have stated they will kill, or display such anti-social behavior that it becomes obvious to everyone around them that there is a serious problem. When my colleagues were killed by a mass murderer every single person who first came upon the scene said the same thing...."was it XXXX?" Every single one of them was right. That's not a damn accident. Go ahead and ban assault rifles, make ammunition hard to get, create stiff penalties for not being fresponsible for your guns............but leave finding, treating, and/or removing these people from our population out of the equation at your own peril. Again, this isn't brain surgery.....you have to be freaking bat chit crazy to kill innocent people going about their daily lives who have no connection to you....why is it that when the deed is done so many people "knew" the person was capable? We need to work that from the other end.....before people die. Edited by Left Brain 2012-12-19 9:04 AM |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:08 AM So where do we put these people? The people who have mental issues and we have reason to believe they may injure other people. There is such a stigma nobody wants to believe they exist or it is true so surely the funds are not needed/required to have a safe place for these people to receive the treatment they need. We put them in institutions until they can be treated and deemed no longer dangerous by people like Gearboy. Or....the alternative is to leave them out to roam around and act on their delusions, while we lock our children down. Now who's crazy?
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Left Brain - 2012-12-19 9:18 AM KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:08 AM So where do we put these people? The people who have mental issues and we have reason to believe they may injure other people. There is such a stigma nobody wants to believe they exist or it is true so surely the funds are not needed/required to have a safe place for these people to receive the treatment they need. We put them in institutions until they can be treated and deemed no longer dangerous by people like Gearboy.
Where are these institutions you speak of? Most of them have closed down in the last 20 years. I know a young woman who has been a danger to herself though not to others. She is very troubled, hears voices has a serious diagnosis and is medicated. There is nowhere for her to go. There is not a place for a troubled young woman to go to get round the clock care and therapy. She gets bad, they check her into the hospital, she gets the care she needs and the insurance company tells the hospital to kick her out after X days. Now where does she go? I am sure if you know of an institution her family could afford or her insurance would pay for her family would be happy to hear of it. |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:21 AM Left Brain - 2012-12-19 9:18 AM KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:08 AM So where do we put these people? The people who have mental issues and we have reason to believe they may injure other people. There is such a stigma nobody wants to believe they exist or it is true so surely the funds are not needed/required to have a safe place for these people to receive the treatment they need. We put them in institutions until they can be treated and deemed no longer dangerous by people like Gearboy.
Where are these institutions you speak of? Most of them have closed down in the last 20 years. I know a young woman who has been a danger to herself though not to others. She is very troubled, hears voices has a serious diagnosis and is medicated. There is nowhere for her to go. There is not a place for a troubled young woman to go to get round the clock care and therapy. She gets bad, they check her into the hospital, she gets the care she needs and the insurance company tells the hospital to kick her out after X days. Now where does she go? I am sure if you know of an institution her family could afford or her insurance would pay for her family would be happy to hear of it. Harris Cty has a nice long term facility. The key is to recognize the issues and make the decision (often a tough one) to send a loved one there. It's like Senior Care facilities....putting a parent in there isn't the easiest option, but at times....it needs to be done. |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:21 AM Left Brain - 2012-12-19 9:18 AM KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:08 AM So where do we put these people? The people who have mental issues and we have reason to believe they may injure other people. There is such a stigma nobody wants to believe they exist or it is true so surely the funds are not needed/required to have a safe place for these people to receive the treatment they need. We put them in institutions until they can be treated and deemed no longer dangerous by people like Gearboy.
Where are these institutions you speak of? Most of them have closed down in the last 20 years. I know a young woman who has been a danger to herself though not to others. She is very troubled, hears voices has a serious diagnosis and is medicated. There is nowhere for her to go. There is not a place for a troubled young woman to go to get round the clock care and therapy. She gets bad, they check her into the hospital, she gets the care she needs and the insurance company tells the hospital to kick her out after X days. Now where does she go? I am sure if you know of an institution her family could afford or her insurance would pay for her family would be happy to hear of it. They don't exist anymore. Maybe Obamacare can help. (yes, that's snarky) Look, we will come up with the money to lock our schools down, etc. Why not spend it where it should be spent....providing a place for these dangerous people to be kept from society while they get treatment? The call around the country from schools is to put Police in all schools (you haven't heard it yet......but you will...it's all we are hearing from the schools, and what they are getting from parents)......stand by to pay for 15-30% more Police Officers, and the cost to retrofit every classroom with doors that don't open into the room, unbreakable glass at ground level, etc. Oh....we'll pay for that, but let's make sure we don't offend anyone's fragile sensibilities regarding some lunatic who openly states he hears voices and wants to harm himself or others. Edited by Left Brain 2012-12-19 9:45 AM |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Left Brain - 2012-12-19 10:36 AM KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:21 AM Left Brain - 2012-12-19 9:18 AM KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:08 AM So where do we put these people? The people who have mental issues and we have reason to believe they may injure other people. There is such a stigma nobody wants to believe they exist or it is true so surely the funds are not needed/required to have a safe place for these people to receive the treatment they need. We put them in institutions until they can be treated and deemed no longer dangerous by people like Gearboy.
Where are these institutions you speak of? Most of them have closed down in the last 20 years. I know a young woman who has been a danger to herself though not to others. She is very troubled, hears voices has a serious diagnosis and is medicated. There is nowhere for her to go. There is not a place for a troubled young woman to go to get round the clock care and therapy. She gets bad, they check her into the hospital, she gets the care she needs and the insurance company tells the hospital to kick her out after X days. Now where does she go? I am sure if you know of an institution her family could afford or her insurance would pay for her family would be happy to hear of it. They don't exist anymore. Maybe Obamacare can help. (yes, that's snarky) Look, we will come up with the money to lock our schools down, etc. Why not spend it where it should be spent....providing a place for these dangerous people to be kept from society while they get treatment? The call around the country from schools is to put Police in all schools (you haven't heard it yet......but you will...it's all we are hearing from the schools, and what they are getting from parents)......stand by to pay for 15-30% more Police Officers, and the cost to retrofit every classroom with doors that don't open into the room, unbreakable glass at ground level, etc. Oh....we'll pay for that, but let's make sure we don't offend anyone's fragile sensibilities regarding some lunatic who openly states he hears voices and wants to harm himself or others. shouldn't building codes already dictate that the doors open outwards? (due to means of egress in fire or emergency) |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() mehaner - 2012-12-19 9:46 AM Left Brain - 2012-12-19 10:36 AM KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:21 AM Left Brain - 2012-12-19 9:18 AM KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:08 AM So where do we put these people? The people who have mental issues and we have reason to believe they may injure other people. There is such a stigma nobody wants to believe they exist or it is true so surely the funds are not needed/required to have a safe place for these people to receive the treatment they need. We put them in institutions until they can be treated and deemed no longer dangerous by people like Gearboy.
Where are these institutions you speak of? Most of them have closed down in the last 20 years. I know a young woman who has been a danger to herself though not to others. She is very troubled, hears voices has a serious diagnosis and is medicated. There is nowhere for her to go. There is not a place for a troubled young woman to go to get round the clock care and therapy. She gets bad, they check her into the hospital, she gets the care she needs and the insurance company tells the hospital to kick her out after X days. Now where does she go? I am sure if you know of an institution her family could afford or her insurance would pay for her family would be happy to hear of it. They don't exist anymore. Maybe Obamacare can help. (yes, that's snarky) Look, we will come up with the money to lock our schools down, etc. Why not spend it where it should be spent....providing a place for these dangerous people to be kept from society while they get treatment? The call around the country from schools is to put Police in all schools (you haven't heard it yet......but you will...it's all we are hearing from the schools, and what they are getting from parents)......stand by to pay for 15-30% more Police Officers, and the cost to retrofit every classroom with doors that don't open into the room, unbreakable glass at ground level, etc. Oh....we'll pay for that, but let's make sure we don't offend anyone's fragile sensibilities regarding some lunatic who openly states he hears voices and wants to harm himself or others. shouldn't building codes already dictate that the doors open outwards? (due to means of egress in fire or emergency) Funny thing about schools......most older buildings don't, because they would open into the hallway and smack some kid in the head. I have no idea about building codes.....I just know what we've seen this week. |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Left Brain - 2012-12-19 10:18 AM KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:08 AM So where do we put these people? The people who have mental issues and we have reason to believe they may injure other people. There is such a stigma nobody wants to believe they exist or it is true so surely the funds are not needed/required to have a safe place for these people to receive the treatment they need. We put them in institutions until they can be treated and deemed no longer dangerous by people like Gearboy. Or....the alternative is to leave them out to roam around and act on their delusions, while we lock our children down. Now who's crazy?
A couple of thoughts... 1) In many communities, the institutions you speak of just don't exist any more, or are severely limited, because as budgets have been cut, states have chosen to spend their money in areas they place a higher priority on than mental health. I don't really want to turn this into a tax debate, but the truth is that mental health services and other services cost money, and that money comes largely from tax revenues and/or insurance. Those with low quality or no insurance are out of luck. I'm not any more crazy about paying taxes than anyone else, but I recognize that the services they pay for are important, so I'm willing to pay them. I'll leave it at that... 2) There does seem to be evidence that the Newport shooter was described as odd and possibly troubled by classmates, etc., but as of now, we have no idea if he or his family ever sought any kind of mental health treatment. Maybe they did, I'm sure we'll learn those details in the coming days and weeks. My point is this - at the moment, it's not entirely clear that there was ever any thought or attempt to place this young man in any kind of treatment facility. So while you can argue that regulating guns wouldn't have prevented last week's events, you can also argue that it's not clear that fixes to the mental health system would have prevented them, either. |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() jsnowash - 2012-12-19 10:43 AM Left Brain - 2012-12-19 10:18 AM A couple of thoughts... 1) In many communities, the institutions you speak of just don't exist any more, or are severely limited, because as budgets have been cut, states have chosen to spend their money in areas they place a higher priority on than mental health. I don't really want to turn this into a tax debate, but the truth is that mental health services and other services cost money, and that money comes largely from tax revenues and/or insurance. Those with low quality or no insurance are out of luck. I'm not any more crazy about paying taxes than anyone else, but I recognize that the services they pay for are important, so I'm willing to pay them. I'll leave it at that... 2) There does seem to be evidence that the Newport shooter was described as odd and possibly troubled by classmates, etc., but as of now, we have no idea if he or his family ever sought any kind of mental health treatment. Maybe they did, I'm sure we'll learn those details in the coming days and weeks. My point is this - at the moment, it's not entirely clear that there was ever any thought or attempt to place this young man in any kind of treatment facility. So while you can argue that regulating guns wouldn't have prevented last week's events, you can also argue that it's not clear that fixes to the mental health system would have prevented them, either. KeriKadi - 2012-12-19 9:08 AM So where do we put these people? The people who have mental issues and we have reason to believe they may injure other people. There is such a stigma nobody wants to believe they exist or it is true so surely the funds are not needed/required to have a safe place for these people to receive the treatment they need. We put them in institutions until they can be treated and deemed no longer dangerous by people like Gearboy. Or....the alternative is to leave them out to roam around and act on their delusions, while we lock our children down. Now who's crazy?
I addressed your first point.....just decide how you want to spend the money....or, more correctly, which way you think is the best use for your money. On your second point......yes, they had sought mental treatment for him on a number of occasions. No, I will not give you the source of that information. |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Fair enough. I haven't heard anything on his treatment history, but I'm sure that will come out, and trust that if you say you know more than I do, that that's the truth. I do find it so sad to hear of families seeking help for loved ones and not having access to the services they need. That definitely needs to be part of the discussion.... |
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Pro ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() jsnowash - 2012-12-19 11:07 AM Fair enough. I haven't heard anything on his treatment history, but I'm sure that will come out, and trust that if you say you know more than I do, that that's the truth. I do find it so sad to hear of families seeking help for loved ones and not having access to the services they need. That definitely needs to be part of the discussion.... I could not agree more! |
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