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2012-01-31 8:40 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-01-31 9:36 AM

How is everyone this morning?


Not good. See previous page.


2012-01-31 8:47 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-01-31 9:36 AM How is everyone this morning?
Not good. See previous page.

*hug*

2012-01-31 9:06 AM
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Good morning TAN.  60 degrees in chi-town today, will pound the pavement a little for the dirts time since Sept 30th
2012-01-31 9:07 AM
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pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:40 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 9:36 AM How is everyone this morning?
Not good. See previous page.

Thoughts and prayers.......

2012-01-31 9:17 AM
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NRG42 - 2012-01-31 10:06 AM Good morning TAN.  60 degrees in chi-town today, will pound the pavement a little for the dirts time since Sept 30th

Hope it goes well!

2012-01-31 9:21 AM
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ratherbeswimming - 2012-01-31 9:17 AM

NRG42 - 2012-01-31 10:06 AM Good morning TAN.  60 degrees in chi-town today, will pound the pavement a little for the dirts time since Sept 30th

Hope it goes well!

Hopefully it just goes ;-)



2012-01-31 9:26 AM
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pitt83 - 2012-01-31 6:40 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 9:36 AM How is everyone this morning?
Not good. See previous page.

Sorry to hear that Dave. For your girl have an open talk with her and let her know that suicide is not the answer. I had something similar happen to me that totally rocked my view of the world and my life. In 2006 my cousin was going through a bad divorce and had custody of his 2 year old but his ex was taking him to court to try to get the majority custody for her. My cousin has always had problems with girls and depression and one day he let his ex pick up his son then he hung himself. I remember being so effing angry at him that he left his son and gave up on him. I was mad at him for not reaching out to me or anyone else that would have been there for him. Flash 2 years later and I started my own horrific divorce and I hit some pretty damn low points where I was thinking about a lot of different situations but in the back of my mind the whole time was how mad I was at my cousin for leaving his son and it always gave me the resolve to push on and to seek help from others no matter how hard it was to ask or to appear vulnerable. So the situation sucks but maybe your girl can learn a very important life lesson from this that will help her out in the future.

2012-01-31 9:36 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-01-31 10:26 AM

pitt83 - 2012-01-31 6:40 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 9:36 AM How is everyone this morning?
Not good. See previous page.

Sorry to hear that Dave. For your girl have an open talk with her and let her know that suicide is not the answer. I had something similar happen to me that totally rocked my view of the world and my life. In 2006 my cousin was going through a bad divorce and had custody of his 2 year old but his ex was taking him to court to try to get the majority custody for her. My cousin has always had problems with girls and depression and one day he let his ex pick up his son then he hung himself. I remember being so effing angry at him that he left his son and gave up on him. I was mad at him for not reaching out to me or anyone else that would have been there for him. Flash 2 years later and I started my own horrific divorce and I hit some pretty damn low points where I was thinking about a lot of different situations but in the back of my mind the whole time was how mad I was at my cousin for leaving his son and it always gave me the resolve to push on and to seek help from others no matter how hard it was to ask or to appear vulnerable. So the situation sucks but maybe your girl can learn a very important life lesson from this that will help her out in the future.



Thanks Cord. Helpful stuff.

We had the discussion last night before she learned of it via facebook (which is covered with the news since his family lives there). It went pretty well. Basically, I told her that I felt that way when I was younger; validated that it's unfair and sucks and that changes will bring new good things. I pointed out that even though I had bad emotions as a teenager, look at who I've become (like THAT's any aspiration!) and have in my life.

I think she got it. We'll have a few others in the car when we usually chit-chat about deep stuff.

I just feel terrible for my cousin's family (especially the victim's brother and sister) and my sister who is very close to them.
2012-01-31 10:19 AM
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But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.
2012-01-31 10:22 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:19 AM

But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.


Giving someone the clap isn't actually sharing.
2012-01-31 10:24 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-01-31 10:19 AM But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.

NRG's biggest flaw......I never ask for help EVER.  sigh



2012-01-31 10:25 AM
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pitt83 - 2012-01-31 10:22 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:19 AM But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.
Giving someone the clap isn't actually sharing.

Urban dictionary?

2012-01-31 10:28 AM
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pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:22 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:19 AM But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.
Giving someone the clap isn't actually sharing.

Hey as one of the few people in TAN can say this I am happy to say I have never had an STD... As of yet and I do get regularly tested.

 

2012-01-31 10:30 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:28 AM

pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:22 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:19 AM But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.
Giving someone the clap isn't actually sharing.

Hey as one of the few people in TAN can say this I am happy to say I have never had an STD... As of yet and I do get regularly tested.

 



None here either. I tagged your mom before all of that stuff started with her.
2012-01-31 10:33 AM
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So I didn't hear from Doc last night until I logged onto facebook and saw he was on chat. I hit him up and we talked a bit... I asked if he wanted to meet up this week and he said "yeah maybe Wednesday or Thursday" (he says he's on call and giving seminars the rest of the week/weekend... mmm hmmmmm).

So... one last chance for him to show emotion/interest/excitement. I'm feeling like he could really care less at this point.

How does that saying go? Hate the player, not the game?   

2012-01-31 10:33 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-01-31 10:28 AM

pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:22 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:19 AM But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.
Giving someone the clap isn't actually sharing.

Hey as one of the few people in TAN can say this I am happy to say I have never had an STD... As of yet and I do get regularly tested.

 

I am pretty sure you are WAY OFF on one of the few.......people who care about their bodys USUALLY respect them to all levels.

 



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lisac957 - 2012-01-31 11:33 AM

So I didn't hear from Doc last night until I logged onto facebook and saw he was on chat. I hit him up and we talked a bit... I asked if he wanted to meet up this week and he said "yeah maybe Wednesday or Thursday" (he says he's on call and giving seminars the rest of the week/weekend... mmm hmmmmm).

So... one last chance for him to show emotion/interest/excitement. I'm feeling like he could really care less at this point.

How does that saying go? Hate the player, not the game?   

I thought it was the other way around. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

But, go ahead and dislike both - hating takes too much effort.

2012-01-31 10:41 AM
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NRG42 - 2012-01-31 8:33 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 10:28 AM

pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:22 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:19 AM But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.
Giving someone the clap isn't actually sharing.

Hey as one of the few people in TAN can say this I am happy to say I have never had an STD... As of yet and I do get regularly tested.

 

I am pretty sure you are WAY OFF on one of the few.......people who care about their bodys USUALLY respect them to all levels.

 

That line was more directed at Pitt

2012-01-31 10:42 AM
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ratherbeswimming - 2012-01-31 10:38 AM
lisac957 - 2012-01-31 11:33 AM

So I didn't hear from Doc last night until I logged onto facebook and saw he was on chat. I hit him up and we talked a bit... I asked if he wanted to meet up this week and he said "yeah maybe Wednesday or Thursday" (he says he's on call and giving seminars the rest of the week/weekend... mmm hmmmmm).

So... one last chance for him to show emotion/interest/excitement. I'm feeling like he could really care less at this point.

How does that saying go? Hate the player, not the game?   

I thought it was the other way around. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

But, go ahead and dislike both - hating takes too much effort.

You're right! I SO dislike the game.

 

2012-01-31 10:43 AM
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pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:30 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:28 AM

pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:22 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:19 AM But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.
Giving someone the clap isn't actually sharing.

Hey as one of the few people in TAN can say this I am happy to say I have never had an STD... As of yet and I do get regularly tested.

 

None here either. I tagged your mom before all of that stuff started with her.

So you are the one that gave her cancer!!! You jack hole!

2012-01-31 10:47 AM
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lisac957 - 2012-01-31 8:42 AM
ratherbeswimming - 2012-01-31 10:38 AM
lisac957 - 2012-01-31 11:33 AM

So I didn't hear from Doc last night until I logged onto facebook and saw he was on chat. I hit him up and we talked a bit... I asked if he wanted to meet up this week and he said "yeah maybe Wednesday or Thursday" (he says he's on call and giving seminars the rest of the week/weekend... mmm hmmmmm).

So... one last chance for him to show emotion/interest/excitement. I'm feeling like he could really care less at this point.

How does that saying go? Hate the player, not the game?   

I thought it was the other way around. Don't hate the player, hate the game.

But, go ahead and dislike both - hating takes too much effort.

You're right! I SO dislike the game.

 

Games are stupid and for kids who just want to see who has power over the other.



2012-01-31 11:13 AM
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Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:43 AM

pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:30 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:28 AM

pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:22 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:19 AM But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.
Giving someone the clap isn't actually sharing.

Hey as one of the few people in TAN can say this I am happy to say I have never had an STD... As of yet and I do get regularly tested.

 

None here either. I tagged your mom before all of that stuff started with her.

So you are the one that gave her cancer!!! You jack hole!



Those are just warts and herpes blisters. Anything else came from her Johns at the navy docks.
2012-01-31 11:14 AM
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Geeeeee'day, TAN!
2012-01-31 11:14 AM
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pitt83 - 2012-01-31 9:13 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:43 AM
pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:30 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:28 AM

pitt83 - 2012-01-31 8:22 AM
Big Appa - 2012-01-31 11:19 AM But now you guys know why I share so much and always ask for help when I need it.
Giving someone the clap isn't actually sharing.

Hey as one of the few people in TAN can say this I am happy to say I have never had an STD... As of yet and I do get regularly tested.

 

None here either. I tagged your mom before all of that stuff started with her.

So you are the one that gave her cancer!!! You jack hole!

Those are just warts and herpes blisters. Anything else came from her Johns at the navy docks.

True, they pay better then you do. Cheep butt.

2012-01-31 11:33 AM
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Well, as of this weekend, I can officially join the TAN crowd.  Always wondered what creatures lurk in these deep waters...  
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