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2009-01-19 9:00 PM in reply to: #1917309 |
Science Nerd 28760 Redwood City, California | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI kns57 - 2009-01-19 9:59 PM In fact, Frank cooked tonight. Sole with fennel and white beans, green beans, salad and rice pilaf. It was very tasty. Now I'm waiting for the first load in the dishwasher to finish so that I can clean up the rest. No one ran the dishwasher earlier today after the kids lunch. It does drive me nuts when there are dirty dishes in the sink. How can you work around that? No idea. That sounds like a good dinner. |
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2009-01-19 9:01 PM in reply to: #1917306 |
MotoQueen 13195 | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Artemis - 2009-01-19 8:59 PM kaqphin - 2009-01-19 9:52 PM Artemis - 2009-01-20 1:49 PM kaqphin - 2009-01-19 9:38 PM Artemis - 2009-01-20 1:35 PM kaqphin - 2009-01-19 9:30 PM Artemis - 2009-01-20 1:27 PM kns57 - 2009-01-19 9:22 PM Artemis - 2009-01-19 7:57 PM I finished knitting a dishcloth. Trying to get up the ambition to clean the kitchen. I am tired of being the one who cooks and cleans. We have a rule in our house. Who ever cooks the other person does the cleaning up. Funny thing is, I tend to clean up as I go along. Frank tends to use every pot possible when cooking. Somehow I think I get the short end of the deal, but I'm really happy when someone else cooks so I'm not complaining. We used to have that rule, but my husband doesn't seem to hold up his end of the deal. It's annoying. That's why I'm grumpy with him right now. Ive been there.... with my ex... if I didnt cook we didnt eat... or it was McDonalds, Pizza or whatever was in the cupboards...
I don't really mind cooking. I mind that I'm the only one who really cleans the kitchen, bathrooms, etc. Then he gets mad if I don't want to help with crazy projects because I'm tired from cleaning. Lol - sorry that is 100% my ex! But thats not why he is my ex of course... Sometimes it doesn't bother me, but it's been bugging me lately. Have you talked about it? It might just be that you have so much going on... it has been a pretty full on time for you! Yeah...I think we just have different ideas of how to clean and the timetable for cleaning. For me its always right after the meal. For Frank it is sometimes the next day. I've tried very hard to not let that bother me. somethings we just need to learn to live with. |
2009-01-19 9:01 PM in reply to: #1917311 |
MotoQueen 13195 | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Artemis - 2009-01-19 9:00 PM kns57 - 2009-01-19 9:59 PM In fact, Frank cooked tonight. Sole with fennel and white beans, green beans, salad and rice pilaf. It was very tasty. Now I'm waiting for the first load in the dishwasher to finish so that I can clean up the rest. No one ran the dishwasher earlier today after the kids lunch. It does drive me nuts when there are dirty dishes in the sink. How can you work around that? No idea. That sounds like a good dinner. even the grandkids liked the fish. Now that was good. |
2009-01-19 9:01 PM in reply to: #1911068 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Ex carries a negative implication for me...like I don't approve of the person or that they must have done something awful. I realize that isn't necessarily the case, but it still is what I associate with the term. My first BF-I just avoid acknowledging it ever happened. the other one...He was young (mentioned during the sea scout conversation) and hadn't experienced enough of life. I didn't feel like he was going to while still attached to me. During the 2+ years I spent with him, he was never really employed. Ironically, After I broke it off he finished his divers certification and left for Hawaii and got a job as a commercial diver earning $32 dollars an hour. Since then he has worked with NOAA (National Oceanography ...atmosphere...something aruther), traveling the world. Somewhere along the way he lost my brand new Sage fly rod that I loaned him. At least that is what I have gathered. |
2009-01-19 9:02 PM in reply to: #1917313 |
Science Nerd 28760 Redwood City, California | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI kns57 - 2009-01-19 10:01 PM Artemis - 2009-01-19 8:59 PM For me its always right after the meal. For Frank it is sometimes the next day. I've tried very hard to not let that bother me. somethings we just need to learn to live with. kaqphin - 2009-01-19 9:52 PM Artemis - 2009-01-20 1:49 PM kaqphin - 2009-01-19 9:38 PM Artemis - 2009-01-20 1:35 PM kaqphin - 2009-01-19 9:30 PM Artemis - 2009-01-20 1:27 PM kns57 - 2009-01-19 9:22 PM Artemis - 2009-01-19 7:57 PM I finished knitting a dishcloth. Trying to get up the ambition to clean the kitchen. I am tired of being the one who cooks and cleans. We have a rule in our house. Who ever cooks the other person does the cleaning up. Funny thing is, I tend to clean up as I go along. Frank tends to use every pot possible when cooking. Somehow I think I get the short end of the deal, but I'm really happy when someone else cooks so I'm not complaining. We used to have that rule, but my husband doesn't seem to hold up his end of the deal. It's annoying. That's why I'm grumpy with him right now. Ive been there.... with my ex... if I didnt cook we didnt eat... or it was McDonalds, Pizza or whatever was in the cupboards...
I don't really mind cooking. I mind that I'm the only one who really cleans the kitchen, bathrooms, etc. Then he gets mad if I don't want to help with crazy projects because I'm tired from cleaning. Lol - sorry that is 100% my ex! But thats not why he is my ex of course... Sometimes it doesn't bother me, but it's been bugging me lately. Have you talked about it? It might just be that you have so much going on... it has been a pretty full on time for you! Yeah...I think we just have different ideas of how to clean and the timetable for cleaning. I'm learning that. It's hard sometimes. |
2009-01-19 9:03 PM in reply to: #1917288 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Artemis - 2009-01-19 6:49 PM Just about everything has been bugging me lately. kaqphin - 2009-01-19 9:38 PM Artemis - 2009-01-20 1:35 PM kaqphin - 2009-01-19 9:30 PM Artemis - 2009-01-20 1:27 PM kns57 - 2009-01-19 9:22 PM Artemis - 2009-01-19 7:57 PM I finished knitting a dishcloth. Trying to get up the ambition to clean the kitchen. I am tired of being the one who cooks and cleans. We have a rule in our house. Who ever cooks the other person does the cleaning up. Funny thing is, I tend to clean up as I go along. Frank tends to use every pot possible when cooking. Somehow I think I get the short end of the deal, but I'm really happy when someone else cooks so I'm not complaining. We used to have that rule, but my husband doesn't seem to hold up his end of the deal. It's annoying. That's why I'm grumpy with him right now. Ive been there.... with my ex... if I didnt cook we didnt eat... or it was McDonalds, Pizza or whatever was in the cupboards...
I don't really mind cooking. I mind that I'm the only one who really cleans the kitchen, bathrooms, etc. Then he gets mad if I don't want to help with crazy projects because I'm tired from cleaning. Lol - sorry that is 100% my ex! But thats not why he is my ex of course... Sometimes it doesn't bother me, but it's been bugging me lately. |
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2009-01-19 9:06 PM in reply to: #1911068 |
MotoQueen 13195 | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Jen, Frank and I had to work out a routine early in our marriage. He came with a 5 yr old daughter who lived with us full time. So, whoever wasn't cleaning the kitchen was giving a bath and getting someone ready for bed. We both had to pitch in and make it work. The cleaning up in the kitchen relaxed somewhat when he travel full time for the job, but now I do bug him to clean it that night. I will not let it sit longer, but he would if given the chance. We have had many a grumpy session at 10 pm when I mention the kitchen is not done. |
2009-01-19 9:07 PM in reply to: #1917320 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI mchally - 2009-01-19 7:03 PM just about everything has been bugging me lately like the cold air that blasts on me whenever the furnace fans turn on. I could fix that...but it would mean spending a weekend under the house wrapping insulation around the heating ducts.
Yah, right. I need to finish reinsulating the attic first. Edited by mchally 2009-01-19 9:08 PM |
2009-01-19 9:12 PM in reply to: #1917327 |
MotoQueen 13195 | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI mchally - 2009-01-19 9:07 PM mchally - 2009-01-19 7:03 PM just about everything has been bugging me lately like the cold air that blasts on me whenever the furnace fans turn on. I could fix that...but it would mean spending a weekend under the house wrapping insulation around the heating ducts.
Yah, right. I need to finish reinsulating the attic first. Um, if you do all the cleaning, then he can do the insulation. |
2009-01-19 9:23 PM in reply to: #1917336 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI kns57 - 2009-01-19 7:12 PM mchally - 2009-01-19 9:07 PM Um, if you do all the cleaning, then he can do the insulation. mchally - 2009-01-19 7:03 PM just about everything has been bugging me lately like the cold air that blasts on me whenever the furnace fans turn on. I could fix that...but it would mean spending a weekend under the house wrapping insulation around the heating ducts.
Yah, right. I need to finish reinsulating the attic first. Unfortunately there is no 'he'. I am the Jill of all trades. Someday there will be a 'he' and we will do both together. |
2009-01-19 9:23 PM in reply to: #1911068 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Or he will do the dishes and I will do the home improvement. |
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2009-01-19 9:27 PM in reply to: #1917352 |
MotoQueen 13195 | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI mchally - 2009-01-19 9:23 PM kns57 - 2009-01-19 7:12 PM mchally - 2009-01-19 9:07 PM Um, if you do all the cleaning, then he can do the insulation. mchally - 2009-01-19 7:03 PM just about everything has been bugging me lately like the cold air that blasts on me whenever the furnace fans turn on. I could fix that...but it would mean spending a weekend under the house wrapping insulation around the heating ducts.
Yah, right. I need to finish reinsulating the attic first. Unfortunately there is no 'he'. I am the Jill of all trades. Someday there will be a 'he' and we will do both together. Oh, yeah, the possible he is in Madison right now, isn't he? |
2009-01-19 9:30 PM in reply to: #1911068 |
MotoQueen 13195 | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Time to go play with the grandbabies again. see you all later. |
2009-01-19 9:33 PM in reply to: #1917358 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI kns57 - 2009-01-19 7:27 PM mchally - 2009-01-19 9:23 PM Oh, yeah, the possible he is in Madison right now, isn't he? kns57 - 2009-01-19 7:12 PM mchally - 2009-01-19 9:07 PM Um, if you do all the cleaning, then he can do the insulation. mchally - 2009-01-19 7:03 PM just about everything has been bugging me lately like the cold air that blasts on me whenever the furnace fans turn on. I could fix that...but it would mean spending a weekend under the house wrapping insulation around the heating ducts.
Yah, right. I need to finish reinsulating the attic first. Unfortunately there is no 'he'. I am the Jill of all trades. Someday there will be a 'he' and we will do both together. there is some definite potential there. |
2009-01-19 9:44 PM in reply to: #1917368 |
Science Nerd 28760 Redwood City, California | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI kns57 - 2009-01-19 10:30 PM Time to go play with the grandbabies again. see you all later. Bye Kendra! Have fun with the grandbabies. |
2009-01-19 9:47 PM in reply to: #1911068 |
Science Nerd 28760 Redwood City, California | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Think I'm going to head out too. I'm getting sleepy and I have to be at work fairly early tomorrow. |
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2009-01-19 10:57 PM in reply to: #1911068 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Nighty-night Nibbleteers. I hope everyone has a great start to their week. Tomorrow will most likely be an interesting day. |
2009-01-19 11:24 PM in reply to: #1917456 |
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2009-01-20 8:34 AM in reply to: #1911068 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Wishing a Great Morning to all my fellow Nibbleteers! |
2009-01-20 8:35 AM in reply to: #1911068 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Noice! |
2009-01-20 8:37 AM in reply to: #1911068 |
Champion 6107 Out running or enjoying a fine glass of red... | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Morning, Nibbs! |
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2009-01-20 8:37 AM in reply to: #1917703 |
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2009-01-20 8:40 AM in reply to: #1911068 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI Hey, a few tips that I have really found helpful for my tris-especially to help with pre-race nerves.
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2009-01-20 8:43 AM in reply to: #1911068 |
Champion 7931 Sequim, Washington | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI It is a frickn 31 degrees out and my fingers are so frozen! It makes typing interesting... I got to school nice and early to do my morning run. It lasted about 15 seconds before I very nearly fell on my bum. The campus is covered in a combination of frost and black ice.
I will give it another go after class. |
2009-01-20 8:47 AM in reply to: #1917721 |
Elite 4148 Utah | Subject: RE: Nibbs XXXVI mchally - 2009-01-20 7:43 AM It is a frickn 31 degrees out and my fingers are so frozen! It makes typing interesting... I got to school nice and early to do my morning run. It lasted about 15 seconds before I very nearly fell on my bum. The campus is covered in a combination of frost and black ice.
I will give it another go after class. Morning Mel... Sounds like a wise choice |
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