No Housework Day Ride & Cherry Blossom 10-Miler Carbo Load Dinner!!! (Page 16)

I wonder what would Freud say about Wurkit's desires? 

They're nothing out the ordinary. I like Matt. Matt clearly likes me. I would like him to HTFU and not act like a d-bag.

Then go for it and tell him.  If he is in fact being a douche, then why not tell him?  Nothing to lose, right? (but please be sure to say "douche" and not just "d-bag" as it is much more effective, i have found)

Well, from my past experiences if a guy tells you he needs to sort out his previous relationship and he is not ready for a new relationship, it means ... well, he does not want to date you. If you think of it, there is nothing to sort out once the relationship is broken, only moving on. If he is not really moving on , he is ether does not like you enough to commit or he is still hung on that previous girl hoping for he to come back... You are a nice girl with hell of a baking skill, you will meet someone else at no time.

We've been on 4 dates. I'm not asking him to commit to anything at this point. We don't know each other well enough. And he dated someone briefly this summer, so he's done the whole rebound thing already. I don't know.

oh well, I was just reading through what you said originally. Sounds like he gave a a load of crap. Ok, I will live you alone now ;-)

" No worries, I doubt there will be any, any time soon. He says he does not want to rush into a serious relationship and he has some stuff to work out from his last one (which ended in March and he's dated someone briefly since), which is the usual line of crap I get from men, even though I specifically told him first that I didn't want to move too fast. But then he said he wants to try to build a friendship because he thinks that's important"

wow, I miss all the fun. 

just tell matt you're into chicks and that should turn him around.

Prospect of girl-on-girl action always smokes 'em out.  Good call!

In fact, he's the star. 

Wow, I bet you Lauren will never come back to this forum ;-) 

Nah, she will.  There has been much worse in this forum. 

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My bad! 

I would never leave you guys. I might not be too fond of some of the acronyms thrown around here, and I am kind of lost on a lot of the inside jokes now that I am unable to get on BT as much at work; but I would never leave forever.

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If that was the worst thing said in this forum that would be lame.

If that was the worst thing said in this forum, I bet you would never come back to it. 

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Anyone celebrate Festivus around here?

I am too weak, you can tell from the arm pictures in the Halloween albums.  I always get my butt whipped in the feats of strength.   

Shelly has a poll she dances on, not sure if it a festivus poll.

haha. I used to beat my brother, but then he put on a lot of weight .

well, I will be ready for Festivus next year... will be lifting a lot in 2008.  You know, so I do better in tris.