One of the privileges of being a woman of this day and age is that we're able to wear a pinstripe suit, climbing shoes, and killer stilletos all within a 12-hour day. I love being a woman and all that implies.
well said
(just beware of trying to be super woman, since that is the new cultural expectation of women - be feminine, climb mountains, and be a ceo
).
when i was in college, i remember a fellow feminist saying that it was a disservice to all women and to feminism to shave your legs. i always thought this was bs. feminism to me is about having choices to do what you want to do, and not being limited by the cultural assumptions or expectations about your gender. shaving and make up are to me, the least of our concerns as women, whether we shave or not or use make up or not. equal pay, equal access, job-site childcare, maternity/paternity leaves, equal access to sports and sciences for our daughters, etc. much more important.
i'm a stay at home tri mama who doesn't wear make up
(unless i've had a really hard night with the kids, then i hit the coffee and the under-eye make up!
). that said, i LOVE getting glammed up once in a while. i love playing with my hair on days when i have time
(and know that i won't be wearing a bike helmet!
). however, it doesn't define me and more often than not i leave the house 'naked', 'cept for maybe a little lip balm.
i think the problem comes when women feel they have to look a certain way ALL the time, not for their own pleasure or self-confidence, but because of the expectations of those around them.