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2005-08-25 10:01 AM
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Subject: RE: Does anyone train for the wrong reasons?

Ouch...sorry to hear that.

Just tell her she should appreciate that you're spending all this time training and not in bars drinking and looking at other women and complaining about her until 2 in the morning



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2005-08-25 10:09 AM
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2005-08-25 10:21 AM
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Chris Tree - 2005-08-25 10:12 AM

newbiedoo - 2005-08-25 1:07 PM

Sometimes when I'm bored at the gym I have a fantasy about a married guy I've had a crush on for 5 years. In it, his wife bails on him and leves him broken hearted and I'm there to pick up the peices! And he's gonna love it 'cause I'm all hard-bodied, and have such great stamina and I'm so flexible in ways his wife never ever was! Then, after our monster lovemaking sessions, we'd go for runs together. He'd lose his beer belly and become the truly magnifcent specimen I know is hiding in there, and we'd start doing tri's together, and we'd ride off happliy ever after.

I also love looking at my legs in the shower with the water running down my buffed out calfs...big ego boost.


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I'm feeling so....motivated....to...work out....but first I gotta shower.
2005-08-25 10:32 AM
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Subject: RE: Does anyone train for the wrong reasons?
You want dark motivations? I suspect - although it's a hard thing to admit, even to myself - that I train because I am at heart angry at the world, and losing myself in the moment is the only way to find any peace.

I will add my name to this limited list. I've been thinking about this a great deal lately.

First, I think motivations are as infinite. Imaine making a recipe with unlimited spices in unlimited amounts. We can probably never discern them all!

Second, personally, I find extreme physical exertion to be cathartic. I am angry (inside) most of the time. I am happy (outside) most of the time.

When I am training, the anger comes to the surface and I can release it. It comes in many shapes and forms and is unleashed at many things. But the bottom line is it is released.

I find great motivation when I am suffering to think back on horrible situations in my life and focus upon the negative emotions that come up.

"As Freud spins in his grave."
2005-08-25 10:40 AM
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Subject: RE: Does anyone train for the wrong reasons?

Is there a wrong reason to train?  I honestly don't think so.  I mean, whatever your reason you are getting more healthy and fit, and that's all to the good, whatever your reason.

I train because it impresses people in a way that going to the gym never did.

I train to eventually get the kind of body I want.  It seems really far away right now, but I want it, dammit.

I train for the thrill of competition, even though I come in last or nearly last. 

I train to get more of those little race numbers or medals or whatever.  They're like a visible sign that I did something, accomplished something.

I train for myself.

And if that's selfish, too bad.



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2005-08-25 11:20 AM
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newbiedoo - 2005-08-25 8:07 AM

  • .. Then, after our monster lovemaking sessions, we'd go for runs together...


  • Is that a brick?
    2005-08-25 12:03 PM
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    Subject: RE: Does anyone train for the wrong reasons?
    That is exactly what I am talking about!! Too Cool. I am always happy on the outside and when I train, I let all the piss and vinegar out!!!
    Now that I think about it, is that a bad thing? Sounds like a good thing, better than a heart attack.
    2005-08-25 4:36 PM
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    MountainBreeze - 2005-08-25 11:20 AM

    newbiedoo - 2005-08-25 8:07 AM

  • .. Then, after our monster lovemaking sessions, we'd go for runs together...


  • Is that a brick?


    Ya, but he usually just wants to take a nap.



    And Chris, you make me blush...in a good way.

    Anyway, didn't mean to hijak this thread but it is a "wrong" thing b/c it's impossible, and a kind of twisted motivater.



    2005-08-25 4:55 PM
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    I started to tri for a deep reason, now I just do it because it's FUN
    2005-08-25 5:28 PM
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    Thanks for reminding me. Boy do I have fun when I train. It sure is better than sittin on the couch and watching garbage.

    I'm going to have to spray down Newbiedo and Chris.

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    bigfish - 2005-08-25 6:28 PM

    I'm going to have to spray down Newbiedo and Chris.


    Oh, man, I thought we were going to stop with the dirty fantasies!
    2005-08-25 9:59 PM
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    I train to keep my mind off of a job that I hate.

    I also train to keep the friends I've made during training.

    I wish I could say I train so I can eat all the Ben & Jerrys ice cream I want but the sad truth is even if I train the yummy ice cream will go right to my hips and I'm so glad to have gotten rid of those hips!
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    2005-08-26 7:23 AM
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    Some would say I train for the wrong reasons. My wife thinks I am trying to be a 40 year old twenty something. My mother says it is because I was told I couldn't therefore i will. The real reason I train is I love the feeling I get when I push myself and then give it that little extra push. Sure when I am done I look like I have fought a battle and lost but I love that feeling. It has certianly improved my health and to be honest I can't do anything about being bald but I don't ahve to live with the dulap's disease (where my belly dunlap's over my belt). I also like to give the young "kid's" at work a run for their money. Old is a state of mind and I don't live in that state!
    2005-08-26 7:52 AM
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    I train because it's cheaper than therapy.
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    TypeA Girl Pilot - 2005-08-26 8:52 AM I train because it's cheaper than therapy.

    Ohhh...Thats one of the best yet! You are SO right!

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    2005-08-27 3:59 PM
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    Subject: RE: Does anyone train for the wrong reasons?
    Heavens, if I only trained for the "right" reasons, I'd never get off the couch. I do it for all sorts of fantastic, vain, shallow, dark reasons! I wanna continue to wear bikinis at the beach as I get older, the hardbody thing, the "you did WHAT?" reaction from folks after I finish my first tri, to do something others can't or won't do.


    2005-08-27 6:21 PM
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    I started training because it was something my boyfriend (at the time) and I were gonna do together.  Now that we have broken up I have every intention of bumping into him at a future race and kicking his ass.  That, and I am super competitive and if I dont have a goal to strive for I lose focus in my life.

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    2005-08-27 8:50 PM
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    There are no wrong reasons to train. In a world of severe obesity just doing anything physical for any reason is great.

    I started doing these things partly out of boredom and partly out of a need to feel accomplishment at the end of the day. I did my first tri in Kuwait during my deployment there in the Spring of '98. It was a 5k run thru the desert/followed by a 20k bike (on borrowed mtn bikes) thru the desert/followed by a 300m pool swim ( in which I almost drowned lol). I signed up for it because I was in the middle of the desert and bored out of my gourd.

    After I seperated from the military I was left with the emptiness of not having that sense of accomplishment at the end of the day. So I turned to tri to feel that sense of acheivement that I don't get at my job. Now at the end of a long ride or long race it feels great to know that I have done something good for my body and soul. It also gives me that competative outlet that I need as I am a super competative person. All in all it makes me a better me!

    2005-08-28 6:00 PM
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    I've been training on and off for years, always for weight loss. This summer I started training again for a different reason: my ten year high school reunion. Ya'll are talking about dark reasons and bad motivations. How about 10 years of immature angst and biterness? Mmmm... angst. Yummy.
    2005-08-29 11:27 AM
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    My 20th is this spring and I forgot all about it. New motivation.
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