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2013-01-03 9:56 AM
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QueenZipp - 2013-01-01 11:33 AM Happy New Year, Nibbs.....we are far to quiet lately.  What happened?  Yes, holidays and life.....big changes for some of us.....

 

I guess I better fill in that the engagement is off... 3 days before christmas and ended up down a friends parents WAY out of Sydney... Im back now and staying with friends while I try and pull my life back together...

 

But for my own safety its for the best.... just so shocking to deal with...

So sorry to hear.  You are a fantastic person.  A wonderful person.  You deserve the best in life.  When the time is right, the right person will be there.



2013-01-03 5:06 PM
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kns57 - 2013-01-04 12:56 AM
kaqphin - 2013-01-01 4:22 AM

QueenZipp - 2013-01-01 11:33 AM Happy New Year, Nibbs.....we are far to quiet lately.  What happened?  Yes, holidays and life.....big changes for some of us.....

 

I guess I better fill in that the engagement is off... 3 days before christmas and ended up down a friends parents WAY out of Sydney... Im back now and staying with friends while I try and pull my life back together...

 

But for my own safety its for the best.... just so shocking to deal with...

So sorry to hear.  You are a fantastic person.  A wonderful person.  You deserve the best in life.  When the time is right, the right person will be there.

 

Thanks Kendra... its funny but the one person I need is myself... and I just need to remember who I am again and that I actually like myself... I have spent so much time NOT doing the things that make me happy and focusing my whole life around someone else I now need to just put myself first and try to remember who I am...

I have some really down days and right now Im trying to find somewhere to live... but once thats done (its stressful trying to find a new home!) I get a chance to be truly completely and utterly happy...

And perhaps for awhile... a little bit selfish and spent my time just doing what makes me happy... or at least figuring out what makes me happy...

ARRGH... ugly tears again... cant do that it will ruin the effect of my pretty hair I think at this point Im grieving the loss of everything but I am starting to see how much happier I can be and once i start proper counselling and support group I will start to really heal emotionally to match the physical healing I have already been doing... (start to feel as good as I look!)

I've already seen more of my friends and been in contact with them in the last fortnight than I did in the last year... I will have more free cash and finally be able to travel to Europe and the US if I decide thats still what i want to do... I can go out for dinner, go dancing, workout, ride my bike and swim... all things i havent been doing for myself AND there is a triathlon the enof April I might aim for as it certainly would help with keeping busy (once Ive rescued my bike from the house!)

In spite of all this I am feeling pretty down and blue this morning but Im at least starting to see the silver lining...

 

And to cheer myself up Im off to the local shops tosee if I can find a new outfit for dinner Saturday night Going to my favourite French bistro in the city with a friend... good wine, good food and hot French waiters... good food and wine is a love of mine so now is the time to indulge...



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2013-01-03 5:09 PM
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^^^^ Clearly Nibbs therapy is still very good for me! Thanks for letting me share here... I dunno why but I feel safe here
2013-01-03 6:22 PM
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kaqphin - 2013-01-03 6:09 PM ^^^^ Clearly Nibbs therapy is still very good for me! Thanks for letting me share here... I dunno why but I feel safe here

AWWW, I will not pry into the situation....it sounds pretty scary.  Good for you to get out safely and recognize steps you need to take care of yourself.  

Nibbs therapy is the best kind of therapy......enjoy your time out with your friend too.  You need some friend time too.  

2013-01-03 6:22 PM
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kaqphin - 2013-01-03 6:09 PM ^^^^ Clearly Nibbs therapy is still very good for me! Thanks for letting me share here... I dunno why but I feel safe here

AWWW, I will not pry into the situation....it sounds pretty scary.  Good for you to get out safely and recognize steps you need to take care of yourself.  

Nibbs therapy is the best kind of therapy......enjoy your time out with your friend too.  You need some friend time too.  

2013-01-03 8:00 PM
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kaqphin - 2013-01-03 5:09 PM ^^^^ Clearly Nibbs therapy is still very good for me! Thanks for letting me share here... I dunno why but I feel safe here

We may not have answers, but we always have ears to listen and hearts to care... and tough skin if you just gotta vent and let it out sometimes.



2013-01-03 8:34 PM
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kaqphin - 2013-01-03 5:52 AM

*Love* the dancing cow!!!!

 

Cut my hair short, got a fringe AND went even blonder today... even more extreme than I intended but lucked out with my random hairdresser and got someone AMAZING! Really amazing!!!!

New Hair



Oh wow! That's a REALLY good look for you, Cat!



2013-01-03 8:35 PM
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sesh - 2013-01-03 9:28 AM

D001 - 2013-01-02 11:11 PM
Yay! We have a new Baby Nibblet! Actually, it's kind of appropriate, since this thread is named Baby NibbletS. Congratulations! And yes, you're still a Nibb. It's like a black hole. Once you arrive, you can't leave again.

It's really been more like a bag of donut holes that I can't escape

Baby Luke is our little solstice baby.  Born on 6/21/12, growing like a weed, smiles all the time, and is a squealer.  He's off with Momma to get his six month shots today.



Black holes, donut holes - either way, you can't escape. LOL

Smiling all the time is good. Much better than the alternative.

2013-01-03 8:45 PM
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kaqphin - 2013-01-03 6:06 PM
  • .. ARRGH... ugly tears again... cant do that it will ruin the effect of my pretty hair


  • Hm. Crying is ruining your hair? Are you standing on your head, or something? :/


  • .. I've already seen more of my friends and been in contact with them in the last fortnight than I did in the last year... I will have more free cash and finally be able to travel to Europe and the US if I decide thats still what i want to do... I can go out for dinner, go dancing, workout, ride my bike and swim... all things i havent been doing for myself AND there is a triathlon the enof April I might aim for as it certainly would help with keeping busy (once Ive rescued my bike from the house!)


  • These are all GOOD things. Yay for good things!


  • ..In spite of all this I am feeling pretty down and blue this morning but Im at least starting to see the silver lining...

     

    And to cheer myself up Im off to the local shops tosee if I can find a new outfit for dinner Saturday night Going to my favourite French bistro in the city with a friend... good wine, good food and hot French waiters (ok my mate is a guy so he might not appreciate it the way I do)... good food and wine is a love of mine and I have not been allowed to indulge for almost 4 years... I cannot wait!



  • You need to find a gay guy friend. Then you could check out hot French waiters together.

    Oh wait.... they're French? Nevermind the gay guy friend -- I'll be over there as fast as I can swim. Although, it's quite a swim. Might be easier for me just to go to France, actually.... Hm. Maybe I should just wait until next July, and check out hot French waiters in a little bistro while waiting for the TdF to pass by.

    Actually, I think YOU should do this ^^^ next July. Get one of those little white campers, and hang out in the mountains for three weeks.





    2013-01-03 10:28 PM
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    sesh - 2013-01-04 11:00 AM

    kaqphin - 2013-01-03 5:09 PM ^^^^ Clearly Nibbs therapy is still very good for me! Thanks for letting me share here... I dunno why but I feel safe here

    We may not have answers, but we always have ears to listen and hearts to care... and tough skin if you just gotta vent and let it out sometimes.

    Awww bubba picture!!! Where will I find more? He looks adorable!

    2013-01-03 10:29 PM
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    D001 - 2013-01-04 11:45 AM
    You need to find a gay guy friend. Then you could check out hot French waiters together. Oh wait.... they're French? Nevermind the gay guy friend -- I'll be over there as fast as I can swim. Although, it's quite a swim. Might be easier for me just to go to France, actually.... Hm. Maybe I should just wait until next July, and check out hot French waiters in a little bistro while waiting for the TdF to pass by. Actually, I think YOU should do this ^^^ next July. Get one of those little white campers, and hang out in the mountains for three weeks.

     

    Wanna come with me? We could start planning the trip now...



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    2013-01-04 8:24 AM
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    I'll go out to eat with you Cat!  I just learned how to use a spoon!  

    2013-01-04 6:44 PM
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    D001 - 2013-01-02 11:16 PM
    QueenZipp - 2013-01-02 8:05 PM
    kaqphin - 2013-01-01 10:40 PM
    D001 - 2013-01-02 12:08 PM
    kaqphin - 2013-01-01 5:22 AM

    QueenZipp - 2013-01-01 11:33 AM Happy New Year, Nibbs.....we are far to quiet lately.  What happened?  Yes, holidays and life.....big changes for some of us.....

     

    I guess I better fill in that the engagement is off... 3 days before christmas and ended up down a friends parents WAY out of Sydney... Im back now and staying with friends while I try and pull my life back together...

     

    But for my own safety its for the best.... just so shocking to deal with...

    1) Are you OK? If so, good. If not, what do you need, and can we help? 2) Gee, this sux. Don't know what happened - but better to find out now, rather than later.... 3) Is there anything that we can help you with, send you, or do for you? Nibbs! Let's get that canoe out and start rowing to Oz! We need to check on Cat!

     

    1) Yes I am ok... I have some of the best friends in the world and they have been amazing letting me and the cat stay... I have somewhere to stay for another week and I have somewher for the cat to stay until Im sorted... already looking at rental places and just informed S I wont be coming back

    2) Yes much better it happened now.. you are right!

    3) No I dont think there is anything anyone can do... unless you have good comfort food lol

    Still makes me sad....but glad to hear you are doing okay in the midst of it all.  By the time a care package of comfort food gets to you it won't taste very comforting cause it will be stale  (((((HUGS)))))
    TWINKIES don't get stale! (Probably because they're 100% artificial everything.) BUT they stopped making Twinkies! So we can't send you those. And it's between season for PEEPS. The xmas ones are definitely stale. And the Easter ones won't be available for awhile.... But if it helps, here's a PEEP show for you. And if that doesn't help, well, we can always bring back the Dancing Cow:
    . I don't see "a" dancing cow, I see identical quadruplets, and I didn't have anything to drink yet.
    2013-01-04 6:46 PM
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    kaqphin - 2013-01-03 4:52 AM

    *Love* the dancing cow!!!!

     

    Cut my hair short, got a fringe AND went even blonder today... even more extreme than I intended but lucked out with my random hairdresser and got someone AMAZING! Really amazing!!!!

    New Hair

    . LOF the "new" look, your Awesome Aussie!! You should post in the BT girls of 2013 thread!
    2013-01-04 6:47 PM
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    sesh - 2013-01-04 8:24 AM

    I'll go out to eat with you Cat!  I just learned how to use a spoon!  

    . That's pretty dang good! I expected a MUCH bigger mess.
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    1stTimeTri - 2013-01-04 7:47 PM

    sesh - 2013-01-04 8:24 AM

    I'll go out to eat with you Cat!  I just learned how to use a spoon!  

    .

    That's pretty dang good! I expected a MUCH bigger mess.


    Give him a few weeks. I'm sure he can improve on his 'artistic skills.'



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    kaqphin - 2013-01-01 5:22 AM

    QueenZipp - 2013-01-01 11:33 AM Happy New Year, Nibbs.....we are far to quiet lately.  What happened?  Yes, holidays and life.....big changes for some of us.....

     

    I guess I better fill in that the engagement is off... 3 days before christmas and ended up down a friends parents WAY out of Sydney... Im back now and staying with friends while I try and pull my life back together...

     

    But for my own safety its for the best.... just so shocking to deal with...

    ::HUGS::

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    sesh - 2013-01-04 9:24 AM

    I'll go out to eat with you Cat!  I just learned how to use a spoon!  

    Aww...cutie!!  Nice to see you again!

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    1stTimeTri - 2013-01-04 7:47 PM
    sesh - 2013-01-04 8:24 AM

    I'll go out to eat with you Cat!  I just learned how to use a spoon!  

    . That's pretty dang good! I expected a MUCH bigger mess.
    Give him a few weeks. I'm sure he can improve on his 'artistic skills.'

    I suggest yogurt + uncoordinated spoon use for biggest mess.  

     

    (why, yes, I am speaking from experience)

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    sesh - 2013-01-04 11:24 PM

    I'll go out to eat with you Cat!  I just learned how to use a spoon!  

     

    What a cutie!!! I will happily take him out

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    It's going to be another VA Nibbs party at Love Rox next month.  Jen is doing the 10K, Kristen and I are in for the half.  Ya'll need to come to Virginia where it's all happening.


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    QueenZipp - 2013-01-12 8:19 PM It's going to be another VA Nibbs party at Love Rox next month.  Jen is doing the 10K, Kristen and I are in for the half.  Ya'll need to come to Virginia where it's all happening.

    All I know is that Judi and Kristen keep making me look like a slacker! 

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    Artemis - 2013-01-13 10:13 AM

    QueenZipp - 2013-01-12 8:19 PM It's going to be another VA Nibbs party at Love Rox next month.  Jen is doing the 10K, Kristen and I are in for the half.  Ya'll need to come to Virginia where it's all happening.

    All I know is that Judi and Kristen keep making me look like a slacker! 

    Don't worry, I'll make you look good.  No running.  LOL

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    So, got the MRI results on my right hip.  Torn tendon.  Now I have to decide if I have surgery or if I can live with it.  I am leaning towards surgery cause even doing nothing hurts.  But need to check into what Drs, etc. 

    So, Jen, any running you do will look awesome next to my none. 

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    kns57 - 2013-01-13 11:34 AM

    So, got the MRI results on my right hip.  Torn tendon.  Now I have to decide if I have surgery or if I can live with it.  I am leaning towards surgery cause even doing nothing hurts.  But need to check into what Drs, etc. 

    So, Jen, any running you do will look awesome next to my none. 

    Oh no!!  That's not good.  I hope they give you good answers to help you decide on the best course of action.

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