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TheClaaaw - 2012-08-09 8:58 AM

Since I'm the Rodney King that started this riot, I have to say "can't we all just get along?"

And apparently the answer is.... no. 

lol, I know this sounds weird but I think everyone here gets along really well even though we have a lot of very different opinions on topics such as religion, politics, and such.  What's funny is this isn't even a political forum but I enjoy the political and religious discussions here a lot more than I do on the political type sites.  People are very mean and hateful towards each other on just about every other site I visit.

Maybe its because we all have a mutual interest of trying to take care of ourselves and stay physically active that gives us a common foundation to tie into.  Or maybe its just that we know marmadaddy will lay the smackdown if we get out of line.. lol

So, I think we all get along just fine here.  Certainly different opinions, but we get along.  



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gearboy - 2012-08-09 8:38 AM

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Those who look for insults generally find them. Enjoy your day.

 

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 8:23 AM

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Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

I think it's funny that one person is accusing me of finding insults wherever I look, while another takes insult and accuses me of "suppressing his beliefs".

If you don't see the problem of calling your PUBLIC school party a "Christmas party", then you are part of the problem. I agree, banning an american flag t-shirt is stupid. (Although, if you are old enough, there was a time that having the flag on clothing was seen as disrespectful, since clothes are not treated with the dignity the flag requires. I am old, I remember). But the former is the imposition of a belief system on others, while the latter is not. Unless it is being done in the context of inflamed racial tensions. In which case, it is no different than banning the wearing of gang "colors" in the HS. Why are you suppressing my support of the Crips?

 

Then I admit to being part of the problem...

2012-08-09 9:16 AM
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gearboy - 2012-08-09 8:38 AM

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Those who look for insults generally find them. Enjoy your day.

 

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 8:23 AM

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Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

I think it's funny that one person is accusing me of finding insults wherever I look, while another takes insult and accuses me of "suppressing his beliefs".

If you don't see the problem of calling your PUBLIC school party a "Christmas party", then you are part of the problem. I agree, banning an american flag t-shirt is stupid. (Although, if you are old enough, there was a time that having the flag on clothing was seen as disrespectful, since clothes are not treated with the dignity the flag requires. I am old, I remember). But the former is the imposition of a belief system on others, while the latter is not. Unless it is being done in the context of inflamed racial tensions. In which case, it is no different than banning the wearing of gang "colors" in the HS. Why are you suppressing my support of the Crips?



I intended to use the word "yours" in the general sense, so I wasn't accusing you in the specific sense of anything, nor taking insult. I cited examples where the expression of mainstream beliefs are suppressed to appease those of a very vocal minority, and that I do take exception to.

If we're truly "co-existing" shouldn't we be respecting each other's beliefs and traditions, rather than suppressing them? If there are non-Christians in that public school where the Christmas parties take place, shouldn't we take the opportunity to recognize and learn about their holidays and traditions rather than suppressing all? Wouldn't that be closer to the definition of "co-existing"? Aren't we currently just "co-suppressing"?

Let me cite another local example.

We have two aging public high schools in our community with poorly ventilated gyms with bleacher seats. But up until a couple years ago, they were the only facilities available in which to conduct the graduation ceremonies, making it a rather miserable experience for all involved. Then a local megachurch stepped forward and volunteered its auditorium for that purpose for free. It's a beautiful new air-conditioned facility with comfortable padded pews and great sightlines for all to see. It has a very large permanent wooden cross behind the main stage, but for these public events it was covered nearly entirely by draping. Things went great for the graduation ceremonies for two years until, you guessed it-- an atheist lawyer raised a stink about the ceremonies taking place in a church... even though no religious symbols were visible during the ceremony and even the signage for the facility refers to it only as "The Auditorium".

A lawsuit was filed, a liberal judge agreed with their position, and now the community must go back to the uncomfortable, poorly lit, poorly ventilated gyms. (An appeal is of course pending, at taxpayer expense.)

Now, I don't know if that lawyer has a "Co-Exist" bumper sticker on his car, but I can argue the case on principal. If we truly want to "co-exist", shouldn't we be able respect each other's beliefs while utilizing each other's resources when offered for the good of the whole community? Isn't that more in keeping with the meaning of "co-exist"?

As an aside, I just got back from driving my kids to summer day camp. On the way down a divided highway, a guy coming toward me hangs a U-turn and pulls right out in front of me, forcing me to hit the brakes hard. What was on his bumper? You guessed it.





2012-08-09 9:21 AM
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I must live a sheltered life, I've need heard or even seen these bumper stickers.

2012-08-09 9:23 AM
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scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

2012-08-09 9:25 AM
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jford2309 - 2012-08-09 8:12 AM
gearboy - 2012-08-09 8:38 AM

DanielG - 2012-08-09 8:05 AM

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Those who look for insults generally find them. Enjoy your day.

 

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 8:23 AM

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Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

I think it's funny that one person is accusing me of finding insults wherever I look, while another takes insult and accuses me of "suppressing his beliefs".

If you don't see the problem of calling your PUBLIC school party a "Christmas party", then you are part of the problem. I agree, banning an american flag t-shirt is stupid. (Although, if you are old enough, there was a time that having the flag on clothing was seen as disrespectful, since clothes are not treated with the dignity the flag requires. I am old, I remember). But the former is the imposition of a belief system on others, while the latter is not. Unless it is being done in the context of inflamed racial tensions. In which case, it is no different than banning the wearing of gang "colors" in the HS. Why are you suppressing my support of the Crips?

 

Then I admit to being part of the problem...

 

I think what he's getting at is, would most people be okay if we replaced all Christmas references in school with Chanukah(sp?). So no more Chistmas parties but we do have Chanukah or Kwanza parties. I think they should just stick with Christmakwanzakah.



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Subject: RE: Seriously - why the mocking of the Co-exist sticker?
jgaither - 2012-08-09 9:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?



So a Christmas tree and Santa Claus are now Christian?


2012-08-09 9:30 AM
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scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:16 AM

I intended to use the word "yours" in the general sense, so I wasn't accusing you in the specific sense of anything, nor taking insult. I cited examples where the expression of mainstream beliefs are suppressed to appease those of a very vocal minority, and that I do take exception to. If we're truly "co-existing" shouldn't we be respecting each other's beliefs and traditions, rather than suppressing them? If there are non-Christians in that public school where the Christmas parties take place, shouldn't we take the opportunity to recognize and learn about their holidays and traditions rather than suppressing all? Wouldn't that be closer to the definition of "co-existing"? Aren't we currently just "co-suppressing"? Let me cite another local example. We have two aging public high schools in our community with poorly ventilated gyms with bleacher seats. But up until a couple years ago, they were the only facilities available in which to conduct the graduation ceremonies, making it a rather miserable experience for all involved. Then a local megachurch stepped forward and volunteered its auditorium for that purpose for free. It's a beautiful new air-conditioned facility with comfortable padded pews and great sightlines for all to see. It has a very large permanent wooden cross behind the main stage, but for these public events it was covered nearly entirely by draping. Things went great for the graduation ceremonies for two years until, you guessed it-- an atheist lawyer raised a stink about the ceremonies taking place in a church... even though no religious symbols were visible during the ceremony and even the signage for the facility refers to it only as "The Auditorium". A lawsuit was filed, a liberal judge agreed with their position, and now the community must go back to the uncomfortable, poorly lit, poorly ventilated gyms. (An appeal is of course pending, at taxpayer expense.) Now, I don't know if that lawyer has a "Co-Exist" bumper sticker on his car, but I can argue the case on principal. If we truly want to "co-exist", shouldn't we be able respect each other's beliefs while utilizing each other's resources when offered for the good of the whole community? Isn't that more in keeping with the meaning of "co-exist"? As an aside, I just got back from driving my kids to summer day camp. On the way down a divided highway, a guy coming toward me hangs a U-turn and pulls right out in front of me, forcing me to hit the brakes hard. What was on his bumper? You guessed it.

That story sucks but the guy is a jack hole. I can say many stories I have of people forcing their religious views on others or persecuting them for not believing the same as them. Also how many bad drivers around here with religious stickers on the back of their cars. My point here is that people are A holes and most of the time that overrides whatever beliefs they have. Just because one Catholic does something or one co-exist does something doesn't make me jump and yell at the whole of the group.

 



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I think what he's getting at is, would most people be okay if we replaced all Christmas references in school with Chanukah(sp?). So no more Chistmas parties but we do have Chanukah or Kwanza parties. I think they should just stick with Christmakwanzakah.

 

 

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jgaither - 2012-08-09 9:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

 

In your example, Congress has indeed made no law.  A local school has a party to celebrate the time of year that coincides with the majority of the population's belief system.  I can also remember having days during the holidays where the Jewish kids brought in dradles and such to teach us about the way they celebrated this time of year.

That's not oppression, and it's not exclusionary.  I certainly wouldn't feel excluded if I found myself in India and was present during their celebrations, nor would I feel compelled to force them to water it down.

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bradleyd3 - 2012-08-09 9:24 AM

Jtiger - 2012-08-09 8:15 AM

bradleyd3 - 2012-08-08 4:10 PM The entire sticker is irony.... C - Islam, wants to kill E (Gender equatlity - LBGT), X (Star of David - Jews), and T (Christianity). If they could achieve this, then I (Pagan/Wicca), and S (Taoism) wouldn't exist. O (Pacifisim) doesn't want anyone to fight (which will never happen) E is the opposition to what C, X, and T stands for....and if anyone speaks ill of E, then it's hate. E is also trying to get X and T out of schools in favor of thier agenda. X's exsitance is directly threatened by C I and S are so small of a percentage that they are mainly there to complete the sticker....other wise it would read COEXT....which doesn't make any sense. T....well....that's who the sticker, IMO, is targeted toward, but....they pose no physical threat to anyone.

 

You drunk?  So-called Christian leaders in the US were talking about striking back at Islam with Iraq and the other Muslims  after 9/11.  A de facto holy war since they believe America is a Christian nation and don't think they didn't have HUGE influence under the previous administration.



Difference is....I'm talking about tennants of religion..... If you follow along, I'm talking about the teachings/philosophy of the religion, not "hey we got attacked, so we're going to wipe Muslims off the face of the earth". The terrorist who attacked during 9/11 hid behind their religion and OBL made tapes and recordings about attacking Christians and Jews.....because that is a belief in their religion.

Never heard my pastor (or any Christian leader) say "Let us go after Church and kill anyone who isn't Christian"






Just stumbled on this video by Bill Maher about picking and choosing which tennets of religion you choose to believe and which you ignore. There's some profanity in it, so view with apporpiate caution.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyYlF3aonho&feature=related

As always, he's a bit over the top, but he makes an excellent point here.


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bradleyd3 - 2012-08-09 7:25 AM
jgaither - 2012-08-09 9:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

So a Christmas tree and Santa Claus are now Christian?

Ummm Brad it says it right in the name lol Christ. Now Santa Clause is just a tool for selling toys and no longer religious IMO.

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twomarks - 2012-08-09 9:33 AM

In your example, Congress has indeed made no law.  A local school has a party to celebrate the time of year that coincides with the majority of the population's belief system.  I can also remember having days during the holidays where the Jewish kids brought in dradles and such to teach us about the way they celebrated this time of year.

That's not oppression, and it's not exclusionary.  I certainly wouldn't feel excluded if I found myself in India and was present during their celebrations, nor would I feel compelled to force them to water it down.

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bradleyd3 - 2012-08-09 9:25 AM
jgaither - 2012-08-09 9:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

So a Christmas tree and Santa Claus are now Christian?

LOL!!!!!  yeah, it's actually christian adaptation to attract and relate to pagans left over from the 1500's.  But yes those traditions are embraced specifically by Christians.

And admittedly us raging consumer atheists who it more appropriately fits.

2012-08-09 9:56 AM
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jgaither - 2012-08-09 9:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

Not specific to Christmas parties, but related to the government recognizing Christmas as an official paid holiday.  Yes Christmas is a Christian holiday/event, but it has become so secularized in the US and world that it's really not a religious holiday anymore (legally speaking)

Ganulin v. United States (1999)
On December 7, 1999, U.S. District Judge Susan Dlott ruled against Richard Ganulin, rejecting his claims that Christmas should be considered by the government a religious holiday and, hence, ineligible for official government recognition. She did accept Ganulin's premises about the basic religious nature of Christmas Day, but she reached a different conclusion, arguing that it has now become very secular in nature.

This decision follows a long line of precedents which have held that, so long as the government is able to articulate an acceptable secular purpose for its actions, it may adopt a fundamentally religious holiday as an official state holiday for all government employees. For accommodationists, this has been treated as a victory, establishing that such actions do not violate the separation of church and state and demonstrating that the government can and should accommodate religion.

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jgaither - 2012-08-09 10:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

while i understand what you are getting at, eating cookies and singing about santa claus are not practicing Christian beliefs.



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mehaner - 2012-08-09 8:58 AM
jgaither - 2012-08-09 10:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

while i understand what you are getting at, eating cookies and singing about santa claus are not practicing Christian beliefs.

Then what is celebrating the birth of Christ?

2012-08-09 10:06 AM
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twomarks - 2012-08-09 9:33 AM
jgaither - 2012-08-09 9:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

 

In your example, Congress has indeed made no law.  A local school has a party to celebrate the time of year that coincides with the majority of the population's belief system.  I can also remember having days during the holidays where the Jewish kids brought in dradles and such to teach us about the way they celebrated this time of year.

That's not oppression, and it's not exclusionary.  I certainly wouldn't feel excluded if I found myself in India and was present during their celebrations, nor would I feel compelled to force them to water it down.

twomarks

A point of clarification.  This was not my example, it was scoob's.

In the real world you have two options that I can think of.  You can either force upon others yours and others religious beliefs (AKA celebrate all of them), or you can celebrate no particular named one (AKA holiday party).  One is obviously more practical than another when you have to fit in studies and actual time considerations.  But with public schools being a government institution, it does act in a way as to the "establishment of religion".  Correct, there is no law, but there are implications.

 

2012-08-09 10:08 AM
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I brought up my kids with Christian upbringing but I have no problem with the public school calling it winter break and not Christmas break. I think we should be tolerant of other people’s views but that also goes against people making a big stick or suing over stupid stuff just because.

2012-08-09 10:10 AM
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powerman - 2012-08-09 8:03 AM
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scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

while i understand what you are getting at, eating cookies and singing about santa claus are not practicing Christian beliefs.

Then what is celebrating the birth of Christ?

While I understand what you are saying Santa really has nothing to do with the birth of Christ anymore.

2012-08-09 10:12 AM
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tuwood - 2012-08-09 9:56 AM
jgaither - 2012-08-09 9:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

Not specific to Christmas parties, but related to the government recognizing Christmas as an official paid holiday.  Yes Christmas is a Christian holiday/event, but it has become so secularized in the US and world that it's really not a religious holiday anymore (legally speaking)

Ganulin v. United States (1999)
On December 7, 1999, U.S. District Judge Susan Dlott ruled against Richard Ganulin, rejecting his claims that Christmas should be considered by the government a religious holiday and, hence, ineligible for official government recognition. She did accept Ganulin's premises about the basic religious nature of Christmas Day, but she reached a different conclusion, arguing that it has now become very secular in nature.

This decision follows a long line of precedents which have held that, so long as the government is able to articulate an acceptable secular purpose for its actions, it may adopt a fundamentally religious holiday as an official state holiday for all government employees. For accommodationists, this has been treated as a victory, establishing that such actions do not violate the separation of church and state and demonstrating that the government can and should accommodate religion.

That's good stuff.  I learned something today.  Thanks.  (no sarc font)



2012-08-09 10:19 AM
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jgaither - 2012-08-09 9:48 AM

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jgaither - 2012-08-09 9:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

So a Christmas tree and Santa Claus are now Christian?

LOL!!!!!  yeah, it's actually christian adaptation to attract and relate to pagans left over from the 1500's.  But yes those traditions are embraced specifically by Christians.

And admittedly us raging consumer atheists who it more appropriately fits.



Secular vs. Religion.

A Christmas tree is now secular....non-christians or non-practicing have them in their homes. It's a stretch to call an evergreen with lights on it a "religous symbol".

I don't think it's appropriate to take this away from kids.....the kids, man....the kids!

It's not like their saying the Lords Prayer or a prayer before coloring a tree. If they did, I would hope the prayer would be:

"Lord baby Jesus, 8 pounds 6 ounces... new born infant jesus,don't even know a word yet. lyin' there in your ghost manger, just lookin' at your Baby Einstein developmental videos, learnin' 'bout shapes and colors."


2012-08-09 10:22 AM
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twomarks - 2012-08-09 10:33 AM
jgaither - 2012-08-09 9:23 AM

scoobysdad - 2012-08-09 7:23 AM  Great, so why suppress my beliefs in the name of yours, even if you choose to believe in nothing? If we're embracing the idea of "co-existing" then we and our beliefs should be able to exist side-by-side, right? It's co-exist, not suppress the mainstream. Instead, what we get thanks to the co-exist crowd are bannings of Christmas parties in our public schools and the inability to wear American flag t-shirts in an American school on Cinco de Mayo. That's not respecting each other's beliefs, it's suppressing them. Big difference.

First amendment: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."

Having a holiday party favors no religion.  Having a Christmas party segregates those non-Christians and/or forces them to celebrate an occasion they do not believe in.  In other words it froces upon those non-Christians, Christian practices and beliefs.

Why do you hate america?

 

In your example, Congress has indeed made no law.  A local school has a party to celebrate the time of year that coincides with the majority of the population's belief system.  I can also remember having days during the holidays where the Jewish kids brought in dradles and such to teach us about the way they celebrated this time of year.

That's not oppression, and it's not exclusionary.  I certainly wouldn't feel excluded if I found myself in India and was present during their celebrations, nor would I feel compelled to force them to water it down.

twomarks

To the first point, you are parsing things awfully tightly. Yes, congress did not make a law. But the local government did. The intent of the amendment is not that local government is free to make laws or engage in practices which have the effect of being a government endorsement of the local religion. Ironically, that wave last year of laws to prevent shari'a laws from being a part of any state or local laws were unnecessary for this very reason - the government cannot use religious grounds to make laws.

As to the second point, it is a very poor example in that India is not the US, and does not have to follow the laws here. To assume otherwise would be like going to India and complaining that they aren't speaking English (OK, bad example in that many people in India DO speak english, but hopefully my meaning comes through...)

2012-08-09 10:23 AM
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Then what is celebrating the birth of Christ?

While I understand what you are saying Santa really has nothing to do with the birth of Christ anymore.

Saint Nicholas was a Catholic Saint that was know for his gift giving. Let's not get silly about the meaning of Christmas. I have zero problems with it and I am perfectly fine taking a paid holiday if Muslims want a day too. But don't confuse commercialisim with the meaning of the day.

Christmas is the celebation of the birth of Christ. Easter is the celebration of his rebirth as the Son of God. No fat man of fuzzy bunny is ever going to change that.

 



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2012-08-09 10:27 AM
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For those that are offended by a school having Christmas events, does it also bother you that children are given Saturday and Sunday off? The reason that we have the weekend as we know it is that those days are the sabbath for the Jewish and Christian religion. Does this exclude Muslims, for which Friday is their day of prayer?

For me personally, I find ability for some people to mangle the concept of separation of church and state to be truly impressive. I have a five year old cousin who has a very large birthmark on his face. It is very noticeable and draws many comments. My grandma was with him the first time he noticed it himself and she explained it to him as that was where he was kissed by an angel. Last month a kid in his kindergarten class asked him what was on his face and that is what he told him. The teacher called in his parents to inform them that he couldn't say that at school because some kids may not believe in angels. Now I am in no way religious myself, but that is one of the most ridiculous things I have ever heard.

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