regarding height.. on men.. they just have to be taller than me..
It is true that I am more attracted to guys over 6ft..
But one requirement is they have to be strong enough to pick me up. I'm not a small girl but I like to feel like one.
Preach it sista. In high school I used to say they had to be able to beat me up. Which ... they never would DO, just hadda be ABLE to. But your way sounds less psycho.
"I'm not a small girl but I like to feel like one." SOOOOO true. Bout me. I dunno bout you. But since you SAY it, you prolly mean it.
Yeah, kinda like, you want them to be able to pick you up and throw you on the bed.. and be able to save you from the bears. Broad Shoulders.. etc.. But just feeling safe and little..
I'm insecure with guys that are smaller than me. Its not them..
Interestingly enough, my X dumped me for a guy that's 6'1", 175 during racing reason, because he was 'more manly'. But her 1st husband was 5'3", I'm 5'5"... of course, this guy is by FAR the ugliest of the 3 of us... I don't understand the 'guy has to be taller requirement' at all. It honestly baffles me. One's 'manliness" has nothing to do with your height.
I agree that height isn't a contributing factor to manliness, and I have found myself attracted to shorter guys. But I just can't hang, because I feel big. I feel oafish, and too large. And that doesn't make me want sexy times..
OAFISH is the EXACT right word. MAN I hate that. And it matters NONE if anyone else says otherwise...if you feel huge it's like...horrible.