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 2008-07-17 9:10 PM in reply to: #1538669 |
Expert  3324    central Iowa |  Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time.bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 9:02 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 9:58 PM How about "What should I do with all the ex's stuff since she won't come get it?" bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 8:48 PM Now I know how all the ladies felt during all the car talk this morning.  What would you like to talk about? I can offer you operating systems and smelly kitchens. Then there's the 'would I be crazy to throw out half the junk in my apartment since I never use most of it anyway' topic. How about craiglist, garage sale, ebay, or charity? |
| 2008-07-17 9:11 PM in reply to: #1538675 |
| Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 10:07 PM Found out (I had an idea, but just got proof in May) that she was cheating on me for 4 out of the 5 years we were married. Yes, you read that right. Many a jaw has dropped when I tell the story. Oh jebus...dude, I'm sorry. Well, I'm no expert b/c I've never been married, but definitely don't rush into anything if you're not ready. Not fair to the other chick involved - just tryin' to look out for the other ladies in the world Oh, and just be glad you don't live in Maryland. My poor friend who is my age and is now a single mom to a 2 year old has had to wait TWO YEARS for her divorce to be final. Edited by wurkit_gurl 2008-07-17 9:14 PM |
| 2008-07-17 9:13 PM in reply to: #1538665 |
Expert 3324 central Iowa | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. hoopshot - 2008-07-17 8:59 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 8:53 PM Yeah, it always seems that the tenor section is the smallest. That's probably not true in big professional choirs like the Mormon and Harlem Tabernacle Choirs, but most other choirs, it always seems like tenor sections are the smallest. I sang tenor in our Episcopal church for a while. For some reason the tenor section was huge. Then my wife had our middle kid and I quit going to choir then we quit going to church (especially after the third one). We keep thinking we should go back, but there's always things to do. Interesting. And welcome to TAN. Sometimes it gets a little quiet here at night, but we've got a good crew going today. |
| 2008-07-17 9:16 PM in reply to: #1538683 |
Slower Than You 9566   Cracklantaburbs | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. Oh I'm not jumping into anything just yet. More looking to hang out and have fun, without the air of impropriety, though that's not something I really worry about. Not sure when (if?) I'll be ready to tie the knot again. Another question: Who should be on the list to receive copies of all the scandalous emails? Her parents for sure. Anyone else? Other family members? Co-workers? Most of her friends (by default my friends too) are slowly learning the real deal of what went on from me, instead of the non-story she's told everyone thus far. |
| 2008-07-17 9:17 PM in reply to: #1538695 |
Slower Than You 9566 Cracklantaburbs | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. The actual process has been painless. I'm keeping everything, and it has cost me $83 out of pocket to file the papers. Well that, and the 7 wasted years. |
| 2008-07-17 9:18 PM in reply to: #1538695 |
Pro 4456 Eureka, Ca | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 7:16 PM Oh I'm not jumping into anything just yet. More looking to hang out and have fun, without the air of impropriety, though that's not something I really worry about. Not sure when (if?) I'll be ready to tie the knot again. Another question: Who should be on the list to receive copies of all the scandalous emails? Her parents for sure. Anyone else? Other family members? Co-workers? Most of her friends (by default my friends too) are slowly learning the real deal of what went on from me, instead of the non-story she's told everyone thus far. Nobody... take the high road |
| 2008-07-17 9:18 PM in reply to: #1538695 |
| Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 10:16 PM Another question: Who should be on the list to receive copies of all the scandalous emails? Her parents for sure. Anyone else? Other family members? Co-workers? Most of her friends (by default my friends too) are slowly learning the real deal of what went on from me, instead of the non-story she's told everyone thus far. Ooh...don't be too vindictive. She was sh*tty to you, but be a bigger man and don't be sh*tty to her. It's okay to tell folks, I guess, but don't be nasty about it. Again, never been divorced and never had anyone cheat on me that I know of, just going by instinct. |
| 2008-07-17 9:18 PM in reply to: #1538695 |
| Davenport, IA | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 9:16 PM Oh I'm not jumping into anything just yet. More looking to hang out and have fun, without the air of impropriety, though that's not something I really worry about. Not sure when (if?) I'll be ready to tie the knot again. Another question: Who should be on the list to receive copies of all the scandalous emails? Her parents for sure. Anyone else? Other family members? Co-workers? Most of her friends (by default my friends too) are slowly learning the real deal of what went on from me, instead of the non-story she's told everyone thus far. Ouch. Just got to determine how many bridges are too be burned, knocked down, and the ashes peed on. |
| 2008-07-17 9:19 PM in reply to: #1538701 |
Slower Than You 9566 Cracklantaburbs | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. Yeah, I know I'll end up taking the high road. But it's SO MUCH FUN to think about what I COULD do. |
| 2008-07-17 9:20 PM in reply to: #1538705 |
| Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 10:19 PM Yeah, I know I'll end up taking the high road. But it's SO MUCH FUN to think about what I COULD do. Then just think about it (but don't dwell) and pick one REALLY close friend to dish the details to, someone you trust who won't go slandering her, etc. I mean, you always have to have the one good confidante who knows everything. Chicks do this, anyway. Dudes probably do too, I'm guessing. Edited by wurkit_gurl 2008-07-17 9:20 PM |
| 2008-07-17 9:20 PM in reply to: #1538705 |
| Davenport, IA | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 9:19 PM Yeah, I know I'll end up taking the high road. But it's SO MUCH FUN to think about what I COULD do. Sending them to random people could be just as much fun. Just type in gmail.com address at random or something. |
| 2008-07-17 9:26 PM in reply to: #1538707 |
Slower Than You 9566 Cracklantaburbs | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. wurkit_gurl - 2008-07-17 10:20 PM Then just think about it (but don't dwell) and pick one REALLY close friend to dish the details to, someone you trust who won't go slandering her, etc. I mean, you always have to have the one good confidante who knows everything. Chicks do this, anyway. Dudes probably do too, I'm guessing. Details have been dished, the story just hasn't broken locally. Friends from college, high school ("family" type friends, not random acquaintances), and others already know the dirt, it's the people here who don't know yet. And that will affect her SO MUCH MORE than it will affect me. From what I hear, her mom is in complete denial that its' rally even happening. She's the uber-WASP southern lady, so that was partly to be expected. I have to sit back and laugh sometimes. Some of it is truly comical. EDIT: <---palindrome post #1331 (yes i am a dork) Edited by bcart1991 2008-07-17 9:28 PM |
| 2008-07-17 9:28 PM in reply to: #1538690 |
Member 71 Austin, TX | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. cami bee - 2008-07-17 9:13 PM hoopshot - 2008-07-17 8:59 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 8:53 PM Yeah, it always seems that the tenor section is the smallest. That's probably not true in big professional choirs like the Mormon and Harlem Tabernacle Choirs, but most other choirs, it always seems like tenor sections are the smallest. I sang tenor in our Episcopal church for a while. For some reason the tenor section was huge. Then my wife had our middle kid and I quit going to choir then we quit going to church (especially after the third one). We keep thinking we should go back, but there's always things to do. Interesting. And welcome to TAN. Sometimes it gets a little quiet here at night, but we've got a good crew going today. Thanks. I need to leave and do my approximation of running. I'm planning on doing my first tri in 2 1/2 weeks and am completely not ready. Later, taters. |
| 2008-07-17 9:29 PM in reply to: #1538717 |
| Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 10:26 PM From what I hear, her mom is in complete denial that its' rally even happening. She's the uber-WASP southern lady, so that was partly to be expected. Ooh, that's probably super-scandalous to her family then. |
| 2008-07-17 9:30 PM in reply to: #1538721 |
| Davenport, IA | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. hoopshot - 2008-07-17 9:28 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 9:13 PM hoopshot - 2008-07-17 8:59 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 8:53 PM Yeah, it always seems that the tenor section is the smallest. That's probably not true in big professional choirs like the Mormon and Harlem Tabernacle Choirs, but most other choirs, it always seems like tenor sections are the smallest. I sang tenor in our Episcopal church for a while. For some reason the tenor section was huge. Then my wife had our middle kid and I quit going to choir then we quit going to church (especially after the third one). We keep thinking we should go back, but there's always things to do. Interesting. And welcome to TAN. Sometimes it gets a little quiet here at night, but we've got a good crew going today. Thanks. I need to leave and do my approximation of running. I'm planning on doing my first tri in 2 1/2 weeks and am completely not ready. Later, taters. Have a good one, and just remember not many people felt 100% ready for their first race. You'll do fine. |
| 2008-07-17 9:34 PM in reply to: #1538725 |
Expert 3324 central Iowa | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. Sprint_DA - 2008-07-17 9:30 PM hoopshot - 2008-07-17 9:28 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 9:13 PM hoopshot - 2008-07-17 8:59 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 8:53 PM Yeah, it always seems that the tenor section is the smallest. That's probably not true in big professional choirs like the Mormon and Harlem Tabernacle Choirs, but most other choirs, it always seems like tenor sections are the smallest. I sang tenor in our Episcopal church for a while. For some reason the tenor section was huge. Then my wife had our middle kid and I quit going to choir then we quit going to church (especially after the third one). We keep thinking we should go back, but there's always things to do. Interesting. And welcome to TAN. Sometimes it gets a little quiet here at night, but we've got a good crew going today. Thanks. I need to leave and do my approximation of running. I'm planning on doing my first tri in 2 1/2 weeks and am completely not ready. Later, taters. Have a good one, and just remember not many people felt 100% ready for their first race. You'll do fine. Well I thought I was pretty much ready, then I did my off road sprint ... yeah. Now I am finally starting to feel really ready and I'm on my fourth one. Try not to stress out and over think it too much. Enjoy your running approximation. |
| 2008-07-17 9:34 PM in reply to: #1534583 |
| Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. All right folks, I'm getting sleepy, so I need to hit the sack. Tomorrow is Friday - yay! It's 5k for Lucy day too, don't forget! |
| 2008-07-17 9:35 PM in reply to: #1538681 |
Champion 6046 New York, NY | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. cami bee - 2008-07-17 10:10 PM bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 9:02 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 9:58 PM How about "What should I do with all the ex's stuff since she won't come get it?" bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 8:48 PM Now I know how all the ladies felt during all the car talk this morning. What would you like to talk about? I can offer you operating systems and smelly kitchens. Then there's the 'would I be crazy to throw out half the junk in my apartment since I never use most of it anyway' topic. How about craiglist, garage sale, ebay, or charity?
bonfire |
| 2008-07-17 9:36 PM in reply to: #1538724 |
Slower Than You 9566 Cracklantaburbs | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. wurkit_gurl - 2008-07-17 10:29 PM bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 10:26 PM From what I hear, her mom is in complete denial that its' rally even happening. She's the uber-WASP southern lady, so that was partly to be expected. Ooh, that's probably super-scandalous to her family then. I've heard she refuses to even speak about it. Doesn't deny it, just clams up and refuses to talk. That's bad. Wait till she sees those emails. Oof. Sad thing is, her brother and I are really good friends. Hopefully that won't change too much, but I can't imagine it not changing. Good thing is he lives in Houston, not here. I can NOT type lately... |
| 2008-07-17 9:37 PM in reply to: #1538742 |
| Davenport, IA | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. TriToy - 2008-07-17 9:35 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 10:10 PM bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 9:02 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 9:58 PM How about "What should I do with all the ex's stuff since she won't come get it?" bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 8:48 PM Now I know how all the ladies felt during all the car talk this morning. What would you like to talk about? I can offer you operating systems and smelly kitchens. Then there's the 'would I be crazy to throw out half the junk in my apartment since I never use most of it anyway' topic. How about craiglist, garage sale, ebay, or charity?
bonfire Cathartic, but wasteful. |
| 2008-07-17 9:38 PM in reply to: #1538746 |
Slower Than You 9566 Cracklantaburbs | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. Have a good night. wurkit wurkit wurkit wurkit wurkit  EDIT: Yeah, just think of all the cool tri gear I could get with the proceeds from the ebay/craigslist sales... Edited by bcart1991 2008-07-17 9:38 PM |
| 2008-07-17 9:39 PM in reply to: #1538740 |
| Davenport, IA | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. wurkit_gurl - 2008-07-17 9:34 PM All right folks, I'm getting sleepy, so I need to hit the sack. Tomorrow is Friday - yay! It's 5k for Lucy day too, don't forget! Night, wurkit. |
| 2008-07-17 9:40 PM in reply to: #1538746 |
Champion 6046 New York, NY | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 10:36 PM Sad thing is, her brother and I are really good friends. Hopefully that won't change too much, but I can't imagine it not changing. Good thing is he lives in Houston, not here. I can NOT type lately...
my best friend is my ex's stepsister- we have stayed friends she was one of the people who told me to leave him. After the separation her husband called me to tell me that they were keeping me in the divorce. And now I have gotten him in to triathlons....not sure if I will ever get Deb into them but she can come cheer us on.... |
| 2008-07-17 9:40 PM in reply to: #1538748 |
Champion 6046 New York, NY | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. Sprint_DA - 2008-07-17 10:37 PM TriToy - 2008-07-17 9:35 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 10:10 PM bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 9:02 PM cami bee - 2008-07-17 9:58 PM How about "What should I do with all the ex's stuff since she won't come get it?" bcart1991 - 2008-07-17 8:48 PM Now I know how all the ladies felt during all the car talk this morning. What would you like to talk about? I can offer you operating systems and smelly kitchens. Then there's the 'would I be crazy to throw out half the junk in my apartment since I never use most of it anyway' topic. How about craiglist, garage sale, ebay, or charity?
bonfire Cathartic, but wasteful.
catharsis is a good thing in this case |
| 2008-07-17 9:45 PM in reply to: #1538756 |
Slower Than You 9566 Cracklantaburbs | Subject: RE: TAN 34 - We'll behave this time. My run improvrment is catharsis enough. |
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