ok all the guys were right (Page 5)

probably - the whole thing is well, nuts.

K spill it, what did he send you for V-day today?!?!

Me too. Curious as a ... Cat.

lol.  nothing....yet....

Win!  So unforgettably uncomfortable.

 But please do not write back.

Oh my goodness, I completely forgot about this. This reminds me so much of this guy. Seriously, this is just amazing:

http://www.holytaco.com/the-douchiest-phone-message-in-history/

Classic.   

oh yea... definitely trying to reopen the line of dialog. classic example of wanting what you can't have.

he obviously doesn't know the difference when a woman REALLY isn't interested and when a woman is being a slyly hesitant or coquettish.

he will try to talk with you again. my guess... he will be "just passing by" and show up where he met you and your friend Noah at the swim.

really how could you date someone for three days...not doubting you at all .


   But as a guy I'm always confused when the actual "dating" process starts.   An "ex?" was telling me that we started dating in March since that's when we went to a basketball game together.   I thought we went as friends, and really weren't dating until May when we started seeing and talking to each other on a consistant basis.

opps

Edited by Gaarryy 2011-02-15 9:06 AM

You should reply, telling him that a "friend" took you to that restaurant for V-day.  Go into how you were only friends prior to that evening but that he was right in that it was a very romantic place.  Explain how it has lead to you falling in love with someone you have known for years but never realized was such a perfect man for you.  Hint around about it leading to all sorts of things but make him guess.  He is already struggling with (in his head) the possibility of rejection.  Let's go right for letting him hear that he has all out failed and lost to another man.

That should make his head explode.  I have $10 that it's filled with confetti.

Wait... you mean the relationship broke off right? 

I'm ???j???ust clarifying because there have? been 3 day sessions ?where other things could possibly break off and I think counseling would be warranted.

lmao!!!!

if Dmitri is older part of middle aged, overweight (by a LOT more than 15 pounds) then YES!

Ok here's the background: we'd gone out a few times, he asked me to be his girlfriend, I said yes. Three days into it I realized it wasn't the right thing for me at the moment. He's a good guy, just not right for me, and I didn't want to lead him on, so I told him nicely but firmly it wasn't going to work out. He called that night and asked if we could go see a counselor. Kinda weirded me out, I mean really, three days??? 

I think we should have a contest. I don't know what the prize would be, but o enter you have to write a letter to cat taking on the role of the TriToy Stalker/creep! extra bonus points for using words you have never said in real life.

He asked you to be his girlfriend?  Was this in 5th grade?  Did he send you a note and have you check a box?

OMG, I am crying from laughing so hard... if Dmitri is "one of the few men with nothing wrong with him in SF" then my guess is Olga didn't call back because she decided to cut her losses and become a lesbian.

IronCowgirl is a LOT closer to 5th grade than you are ... just sayin'.

Most people are . 

Now, now ... don't cry ... you dish it out, you gotta take it.

Back to Cat ... what was this guy like in a conversation?!

Oh yeah.. my maturity level is closer to 5th grade than... hey wait a minute!

Checkbox to be a girlfriend LMAO!!!!


Yanti - IRL he was a pretentious conversationalist - but I think he was intimidated by my having gone to Brown/Stanford/Yale so wanted to come off as intellectual and instead just came off as the insane idiot that he is!

who gets to judge the letters???

maybe I should send them to him bwahahaha