TAN#155: TANkful Yanti's still alive (Page 56)

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Did you bring a banana?

I am not wierd, everyone else is but not me!

In the hair is fine... just not in the eyes.  OUCH! 

guess I popped in at the right time!!!!

JAY MEE SPEE LAY!!!!! {{{MELON PRESS}}}

Gym Sensei Wise One

How are you feeling today? Eat anything good?

Terrible day yesterday.  I'm learning the the physical surgery is FAR easier than dealing with family.  Had to basicallly cut all ties with my sister.

This is AFTER she "paraphrased" items I put on facebook to get my mom worked up and give me a paniced wake up call/lecture at 6:30am.

I called my sister out and said it was not cool.  She then goes on an all day rampage about Facebook and how she was just "looking out" for me and how dare I call her out on over reacting.

I even tried to burry the hatchet, take all the blame and asked to move on.  But that just got her more enraged.  You know those arguements, where you do everything you can to defuse it, give in, agree, whatever, and they get more and more enraged?  A good analogy is a bad marraige.  Where "something" happens, and it ends in pure lunacy.  (Cord has the BEST story about that, but I won't tell it - has to do with Venessa Williams, though).

It finally got to the point that if she didn't stop with the harrassing emails, and that I was NOT going to argue some stupid point, she should stop talking to me completely.  I don't need to waste energy on a stupid arguement, like what color is best, red or blue (the answer is purple, but that's neither here nor there) when I should get positive energy and focus on healing.

Anyway...  Of all the people I fell most abandoned and hurt by in all of this?  Most of my family.  Go figure.  It makes me want to run away and handle this all myself and not update them at ALL.  But then that would be rude and they would keep bugging me.

Can't win.

On to lighter stuff...  bewbies?  I never did get any gmails.  The "date night" I was supposed to have yesterday fell apart.  So it's going to be tomorrow!  so excited.

We started putting up christmas decorations.  THAT's a whole different stress.  The wife was on a tantrum because the stupid lights we bought last year to replace OLD lights that didn't work, don't work.  Christmass lights are a scam.  I should just get new ones every year.

Sup kid! So you will be at home at the endish of Jan?

I nibbled on potato chip crumbs and have a cup of coffee.  Is that good?  I finally saw the pink pop tart commercial.  Now I know what that other thread was about.  You do match pretty closesly!

Not if your comming...

Yeah, should be here.

Ya, I know... I threatened the other day to hang out more.  

I am off for a few days and since I miss the TAN goings on am near a computer figured I would catch up with the good people.  This working in the field that I have been doing since I left the nuke job keeps me from a computer and the TAN on the iphone is clumbsy.

The BT app is cool, however I think there should be a TAN app, thats the type of thing that would make everyones life better!!

Ahhh the much missed mellon press... thanks sweetie

Good idea.  Just add it to the list of items they have.

If that ever happened, we truley did "arrive"

Looking at it.  It was bound to happen.  Going down that path on a particular topic for a LONG time.  Granted, it came at the least opportune time.  I even offered to let her argue and pontificate and soap box all she wants AFTER I get my radiation and back to feeling well.  Apparently, that's too long to wait.

Oh, and she INSTANTLY defriended me and my wife from facebook.  I have to admit, it was sort of shocking, hurtful, but also ammusing in a "can't believe the childishness" kind of way funny.  Know what I mean?

ETA:  This was LONG before I asked her to stop writing all together.  In fact it contributed.  If she didn't want to stay in touch except to fight, then don't bother communicating at all.

And TODAY, she sends another 6 page email.  Mostly applogetic, but always with that "but"...

you know "I'm really sorry I reacted that way BUT, what you said..."  I'm really sorry about doing that BUT I still think my basic opinion was correct...

you know.

Hell, that's as close as I may get to an appology.  Maybe I should take it and run?  Typical of her.

When something like this happens, I have recently taken to singing the chorus of "true colors" to ease my mind.  Really helps and makes me realize that it's that simple.  People just show their true colors.

I have to say, everyone on BT and TAN have been a godsend.  I was surprised by the support.  and thanks to all of you.

ENOUGH about this!

BEWBIES!

You really shouldn't be singing right now. Not with your surgery.... you just can't sing.  

IDK, but maybe if thats as good as it gets for an apology, run with it, down with the negative energy...  seems childish and in the big picture drama you dont need.

on the other hand, did you mention something about Vannessa Williams bewbs?

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