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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() mehaner - 2012-11-09 11:13 AM trinnas - 2012-11-09 11:03 AM mehaner - 2012-11-09 10:58 AM trinnas - 2012-11-09 10:54 AM mehaner - 2012-11-09 10:50 AM trinnas - 2012-11-09 10:33 AM mehaner - 2012-11-09 10:21 AM tuwood - 2012-11-09 10:12 AM Personally, I'm 100% pro choice and absolutely support a woman's right to choose. She can choose to engage in behavior that results in the conception of a child or not. That I don't have a problem with. But once a child is conceived I'm on the side of protecting the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness of the innocent child. she doesn't always have a right to choose, actually. (i'm no pro-choicer, but i at least recognize it takes 2 people to make a baby. i am pro-life except in the instance of rape or protecting the life of the mother, for reference.) See this I don't understand. If you believe it is wrong to take the life of a fetus regardless of when you define it as a life how does that change due to the circumstances of conception. The "life" that stands to be lost is wholly innocent of any wrong doing yet you are willing to allow it to be punished for the wrongs committed by another. I understand the life of the mother argument as it is a life pitted against a life it is the same in a self defense argument. In the case of rape it is a life pitted against emotional distress; that would never fly as a self defense argument. So yes the logic of this position escapes me.
agreed. for me personally, i am pretty sure i would not choose an abortion in ANY instance, even rape. i HAVE been in the position to decide whether or not abort a pregnancy that would result in extreme physical deformities if the baby was ever born and did not choose abortion, so i feel pretty confident that for MYSELF, i would never exercise that option. BUT i understand the potential emotional distress of giving birth to your rapist's child and would not take that right away from another woman. make sense? in the terms of a LAW, i would want to leave the option. I understand that it is an emotional argument but Law is supposed to be reason free from passion as it were. Where one person's well being is pitted against another it seems to me that one has way more to lose than the other in this instance. hey, banning abortions wouldn't affect me at all, go for it. keeping them legal up to 15 months doesn't affect me either cause i'll never have one. but i don't need anyone thinking i would be waging war on women. Heh Heh I always thought of you as an Amazon Warrior anyway. there are certainly women out there i want to fight !! Uh Oh I may be in trouble!! |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() GomesBolt - 2012-11-09 9:20 AM Goosedog - 2012-11-09 9:01 AM dontracy - 2012-11-08 10:57 PM For example, formal cooperation is when a politician says that they are personally opposed to abortion but will vote and lobby to keep abortion legal. Formal cooperation is a "grave matter" which means that assuming other conditions apply such as knowledge about what you're doing, and lack of coercion, you are committing a mortal sin. I agree that it seems you have devised a distinction that is incredibly convenient, for you.
His point all along is that the catholics who claim to be catholics and vote for pro-abortion candidates or the politicians who claim to be catholic and vote in-favor of abortion are not catholics in good standing and should not be saying they are catholic. IF that's what Don's point is then I agree 100%. If you don't agree with the Catholic church and it's teachings, don't claim to be Catholic. It's not the same as having the right to disagreeing with your government. From my point of view there really is no wiggle room when it comes to the Catholic church, unless the church itself wiggles (Vatican reforms). That's part of why I haven't identified as Catholic since my teens. I don't buy what they are selling, but have way more respect for Don than I do for "cafeteria Catholics." |
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Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() mrbbrad - 2012-11-09 11:16 AM I don't buy what they are selling, but have way more respect for Don than I do for "cafeteria Catholics." How would the Vatican ever reform anything if not prompted by the disagreement of it's members?
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() powerman - 2012-11-07 8:47 PM OK I will give my version:I am being 100% sincere when I ask that. I really want to know. Honestly. I completely understand that you (in the general sense) want to vote for someone with your morals and values. I think that is natural. But when it comes to the country and the Federal government, what moral outcome do you hope to gain? If you could have what you want, how would this country look? I mean we already know abortion would be illegal, and gays would not be able to marry. But what does that do for the country, and why is it that alone is the deciding factor when it comes to a vote? Or rather, the other issues are moot until that one is settled? I guess I'm asking what the end game is here? The way I see it, if you give the Federal Government the power to legislate morals, then you give it the power to legislate the ones you do not want when the other guy wins. What is it about voting morals, that living them does not accomplish? A. Abortion only in the case of Rape/Incest/ Health of mother with Dr panel approval. I for one do not in this day and age undertsand abortion as birth control, so I redirect the question back as why do we need abortion as birth control??? AND too add complete BAN of partial birth abortion please tell mehow anyone can be for that??? B. I do not care who marries whom even though Im against gay marriage, what I am against is that it leads to infrnging on my religious freedom because of lawsuits brought to FORCE churches/Pastors to marry people against their beliefs or be sued to bankruptcy, do NOT say it hasnt/wont happen its already happening!! In the let everyone be toleratant why does it feel like its the pot calling the kettle black here? Thats being said I do not think these are nearly as big an issue other than the Media makes them that, outside of that influence I believe most people would put many things above these when worrying about where the country is going. |
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![]() | ![]() mrbbrad - IF that's what Don's point is then I agree 100%. If you don't agree with the Catholic church and it's teachings, don't claim to be Catholic. It's not the same as having the right to disagreeing with your government. From my point of view there really is no wiggle room when it comes to the Catholic church, unless the church itself wiggles (Vatican reforms). That's part of why I haven't identified as Catholic since my teens. I don't buy what they are selling, but have way more respect for Don than I do for "cafeteria Catholics." Joe Biden is a Catholic sacramentally. He's received all of the sacraments of initiation: From what I can tell, he is mostly Catholic theologically: However, he is in dissent regarding a defined teaching; he does not believe in the teaching on abortion. It's a heretical position to take. That's the problem. That's what's facing all such politicians down the line. In the short term, more and more bishops with individually refuse to give Biden other such politicians communion.
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() trinnas - 2012-11-09 10:13 AM crowny2 - 2012-11-09 11:10 AM tuwood - 2012-11-09 10:08 AM mehaner - 2012-11-09 9:58 AM trinnas - 2012-11-09 10:54 AM mehaner - 2012-11-09 10:50 AM trinnas - 2012-11-09 10:33 AM mehaner - 2012-11-09 10:21 AM tuwood - 2012-11-09 10:12 AM Personally, I'm 100% pro choice and absolutely support a woman's right to choose. She can choose to engage in behavior that results in the conception of a child or not. That I don't have a problem with. But once a child is conceived I'm on the side of protecting the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness of the innocent child. she doesn't always have a right to choose, actually. (i'm no pro-choicer, but i at least recognize it takes 2 people to make a baby. i am pro-life except in the instance of rape or protecting the life of the mother, for reference.) See this I don't understand. If you believe it is wrong to take the life of a fetus regardless of when you define it as a life how does that change due to the circumstances of conception. The "life" that stands to be lost is wholly innocent of any wrong doing yet you are willing to allow it to be punished for the wrongs committed by another. I understand the life of the mother argument as it is a life pitted against a life it is the same in a self defense argument. In the case of rape it is a life pitted against emotional distress; that would never fly as a self defense argument. So yes the logic of this position escapes me.
agreed. for me personally, i am pretty sure i would not choose an abortion in ANY instance, even rape. i HAVE been in the position to decide whether or not abort a pregnancy that would result in extreme physical deformities if the baby was ever born and did not choose abortion, so i feel pretty confident that for MYSELF, i would never exercise that option. BUT i understand the potential emotional distress of giving birth to your rapist's child and would not take that right away from another woman. make sense? in the terms of a LAW, i would want to leave the option. I understand that it is an emotional argument but Law is supposed to be reason free from passion as it were. Where one person's well being is pitted against another it seems to me that one has way more to lose than the other in this instance. hey, banning abortions wouldn't affect me at all, go for it. keeping them legal up to 15 months doesn't affect me either cause i'll never have one. but i don't need anyone thinking i would be waging war on women. The issue is most certainly not cut and dry and it's really difficult to write laws that fit. If you purely look at the rights (assuming the baby does have rights) there is almost no circumstance where it's ok. With the life of the mother in danger, there's obviously a lot tougher because at that point legally speaking (if the fetus has rights) they both have the right to live. Another challenge is even with exceptions for rape and mothers life in danger there could be a lot of abuses. For example what level of proof is required for the rape or is it just statement that is made? Technically a mother is at risk of death with the birth of any child (granted its a low risk) so wouldn't the mothers life always be at risk going to full term? Keep in mind, banning abortions won't make them go away. So we should have no laws lest people break them? This is not a viable argument against any law, abortion or otherwise. Not saying it was. Just making a statement. Mainly because there are some (not necessarily here) that think that if you ban them, they will just go away and people will stop having them. |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Goosedog - 2012-11-09 11:22 AM mrbbrad - 2012-11-09 11:16 AM I don't buy what they are selling, but have way more respect for Don than I do for "cafeteria Catholics." How would the Vatican ever reform anything if not prompted by the disagreement of it's members?
It will never reform core beliefs no matter the disagreement of the members |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() dontracy - 2012-11-09 10:24 AM mrbbrad - IF that's what Don's point is then I agree 100%. If you don't agree with the Catholic church and it's teachings, don't claim to be Catholic. It's not the same as having the right to disagreeing with your government. From my point of view there really is no wiggle room when it comes to the Catholic church, unless the church itself wiggles (Vatican reforms). That's part of why I haven't identified as Catholic since my teens. I don't buy what they are selling, but have way more respect for Don than I do for "cafeteria Catholics." Joe Biden is a Catholic sacramentally. He's received all of the sacraments of initiation: From what I can tell, he is mostly Catholic theologically: However, he is in dissent regarding a defined teaching; he does not believe in the teaching on abortion. It's a heretical position to take. That's the problem. That's what's facing all such politicians down the line. In the short term, more and more bishops with individually refuse to give Biden other such politicians communion.
Don, there was a question earlier about how Ryan is a proponent of the death penalty. Even though the church is staunchly against it. How does that affect his standing in the church? Does it? I ask because I honestly don't know. |
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Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:24 AM . . ., what I am against is that it leads to infrnging on my religious freedom because of lawsuits brought to FORCE churches/Pastors to marry people against their beliefs or be sued to bankruptcy, do NOT say it hasnt/wont happen its already happening!! In the let everyone be toleratant why does it feel like its the pot calling the kettle black here? Thats being said I do not think these are nearly as big an issue other than the Media makes them that, outside of that influence I believe most people would put many things above these when worrying about where the country is going. As to your first point, where are these lawsuits now? Did you see straight non-Catholic couples suing the Catholic church for refusing to marry them? As to your second point, you must not know many gay people.
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Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() crowny2 - 2012-11-09 11:30 AM Don, there was a question earlier about how Ryan is a proponent of the death penalty. Even though the church is staunchly against it. How does that affect his standing in the church? Does it? I ask because I honestly don't know. GomesBolt addressed this earlier, generally. They (abortion/death penalty) are on different "levels" (quotes used not as sarcasm, but because I don't remember the exact term).
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() crowny2 - 2012-11-09 11:28 AM trinnas - 2012-11-09 10:13 AM crowny2 - 2012-11-09 11:10 AM Keep in mind, banning abortions won't make them go away. So we should have no laws lest people break them? This is not a viable argument against any law, abortion or otherwise. Not saying it was. Just making a statement. Mainly because there are some (not necessarily here) that think that if you ban them, they will just go away and people will stop having them. I think those people are only a very small portion of the overall "Pro-Life" group. Most people are more realistic than that. Though it does seem the gun lobby thinks if you ban guns they will go away.
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Goosedog - 2012-11-09 10:32 AM Google its your friend, As for marrying "straight" people wouldnt vioate their faith, however maybe something else would, my point is the church should be allowed to exercise its religious choice as it sees fit, whether that be gay or straight without the fear of lawsuit.PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:24 AM . . ., what I am against is that it leads to infrnging on my religious freedom because of lawsuits brought to FORCE churches/Pastors to marry people against their beliefs or be sued to bankruptcy, do NOT say it hasnt/wont happen its already happening!! In the let everyone be toleratant why does it feel like its the pot calling the kettle black here? Thats being said I do not think these are nearly as big an issue other than the Media makes them that, outside of that influence I believe most people would put many things above these when worrying about where the country is going. As to your first point, where are these lawsuits now? Did you see straight non-Catholic couples suing the Catholic church for refusing to marry them? As to your second point, you must not know many gay people.
I do not know many gay people, but the ones I do know do not have the mindset to FORCE anyone to accept them, they live their lives and move on. |
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:38 AM Goosedog - 2012-11-09 10:32 AM Google its your friend, As for marrying "straight" people wouldnt vioate their faith, however maybe something else would, my point is the church should be allowed to exercise its religious choice as it sees fit, whether that be gay or straight without the fear of lawsuit.PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:24 AM . . ., what I am against is that it leads to infrnging on my religious freedom because of lawsuits brought to FORCE churches/Pastors to marry people against their beliefs or be sued to bankruptcy, do NOT say it hasnt/wont happen its already happening!! In the let everyone be toleratant why does it feel like its the pot calling the kettle black here? Thats being said I do not think these are nearly as big an issue other than the Media makes them that, outside of that influence I believe most people would put many things above these when worrying about where the country is going. As to your first point, where are these lawsuits now? Did you see straight non-Catholic couples suing the Catholic church for refusing to marry them? As to your second point, you must not know many gay people.
I do not know many gay people, but the ones I do know do not have the mindset to FORCE anyone to accept them, they live their lives and move on. try getting married in a catholic church if you aren't a catholic. it absolutely violates their faith. |
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Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:38 AM . . . , whether that be gay or straight without the fear of lawsuit. I do not know many gay people, but the ones I do know do not have the mindset to FORCE anyone to accept them, they live their lives and move on. This is America man, everyone should live in fear of a lawsuit. Would it allay your concern if whatever granted gay couples the right to marry also made it clear that there was no cause of action against a church for refusing to marry a gay couple? The government isn't forcing you or me to marry a woman. So how is the government allowing gay marriage forcing anyone to do anything?
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() dontracy - 2012-11-09 11:24 AM mrbbrad - IF that's what Don's point is then I agree 100%. If you don't agree with the Catholic church and it's teachings, don't claim to be Catholic. It's not the same as having the right to disagreeing with your government. From my point of view there really is no wiggle room when it comes to the Catholic church, unless the church itself wiggles (Vatican reforms). That's part of why I haven't identified as Catholic since my teens. I don't buy what they are selling, but have way more respect for Don than I do for "cafeteria Catholics." Joe Biden is a Catholic sacramentally. He's received all of the sacraments of initiation: From what I can tell, he is mostly Catholic theologically: However, he is in dissent regarding a defined teaching; he does not believe in the teaching on abortion. It's a heretical position to take. That's the problem. That's what's facing all such politicians down the line. In the short term, more and more bishops with individually refuse to give Biden other such politicians communion.
What would happen if the bishops did that? What would happen if the Church really had the balls to excommunicate everyone who by letter of the law should be excommunicated, or at the very least refused the sacraments? I think the church is in a precarious position. Frankly I'd like a harder line drawn. That would cause people to really search their souls and their conscience instead of just feigning agreement. I'd love for the Vatican to call everyone's bluff and force Catholics everywhere to either get in or get out. A modern day Inquisition, except without all the torture and killing and stuff like that there. Maybe then more people would actually think for themselves. |
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Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() mrbbrad - 2012-11-09 11:47 AM Maybe then more people would actually think for themselves. That's not good for business.
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() mehaner - 2012-11-09 10:40 AM Why would you do that? just go to another church if you arent catholic???PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:38 AM Goosedog - 2012-11-09 10:32 AM Google its your friend, As for marrying "straight" people wouldnt vioate their faith, however maybe something else would, my point is the church should be allowed to exercise its religious choice as it sees fit, whether that be gay or straight without the fear of lawsuit.PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:24 AM . . ., what I am against is that it leads to infrnging on my religious freedom because of lawsuits brought to FORCE churches/Pastors to marry people against their beliefs or be sued to bankruptcy, do NOT say it hasnt/wont happen its already happening!! In the let everyone be toleratant why does it feel like its the pot calling the kettle black here? Thats being said I do not think these are nearly as big an issue other than the Media makes them that, outside of that influence I believe most people would put many things above these when worrying about where the country is going. As to your first point, where are these lawsuits now? Did you see straight non-Catholic couples suing the Catholic church for refusing to marry them? As to your second point, you must not know many gay people.
I do not know many gay people, but the ones I do know do not have the mindset to FORCE anyone to accept them, they live their lives and move on. try getting married in a catholic church if you aren't a catholic. it absolutely violates their faith. |
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Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:50 AM Why would you do that? just go to another church if you arent catholic??? Well, exactly.
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Goosedog - 2012-11-09 10:42 AM Because it sets in motion the lawsuit thing, like I said I DONT CARE IF THEY GET MARRIED, just dont come suing my church or pastor because he/we wont marry you, case closed, go on your way, dont infringe me and I wont infringe you!!PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:38 AM . . . , whether that be gay or straight without the fear of lawsuit. I do not know many gay people, but the ones I do know do not have the mindset to FORCE anyone to accept them, they live their lives and move on. This is America man, everyone should live in fear of a lawsuit. Would it allay your concern if whatever granted gay couples the right to marry also made it clear that there was no cause of action against a church for refusing to marry a gay couple? The government isn't forcing you or me to marry a woman. So how is the government allowing gay marriage forcing anyone to do anything?
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Champion ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Goosedog - 2012-11-09 11:48 AM mrbbrad - 2012-11-09 11:47 AM Maybe then more people would actually think for themselves. That's not good for business.
Tru dat.
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Veteran ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() Goosedog - 2012-11-09 10:51 AM Thats my exact point to gay couples, there are plenty of churches I hear that will marry them, why sue mine? go to one that will marry you??PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:50 AM Why would you do that? just go to another church if you arent catholic??? Well, exactly.
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Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:52 AM Because it sets in motion the lawsuit thing, like I said I DONT CARE IF THEY GET MARRIED, just dont come suing my church or pastor because he/we wont marry you, case closed, go on your way, dont infringe me and I wont infringe you!! But it seems you do. You are using a hypothetical lawsuit to justify opposing an actual right/privilege/whatever. I'm just not buying this rash of gays v. church lawsuits. As you say, they'll just go to a church that will have them.
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Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() PhilipRay - 2012-11-09 11:53 AM Thats my exact point to gay couples, there are plenty of churches I hear that will marry them, why sue mine? go to one that will marry you?? Alright, sorry if I've been missing the obvious. Is your church being sued by a gay couple?
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Elite ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ![]() tuwood - 2012-11-09 9:12 AM I agree, and I honestly don't think they will ever be banned. I was mostly trying to express the social point of view of us Pro Lifers. So that goes back to my original question. This isn't about where social conservatives stand on a list of issues... we already know that. My question is, how much longer will social conservatives demand legislative stands on their beliefs by those they vote for, when it simply isn't going to happen? I happen to think Romney was always pro life, but he had to be pro choice to get elected in Mass... in order to get the nomination from the GOP, the candidate has to go far right on social issues... yet in the mean time the country burns to the ground... not from legal abortions, but from fiscal iresponsibility and big government. Social conservatisim from a party platform stance is in direct conflict with small government and individual freedom. So how much longer must this county have to choose between granting a fetus rights and not marrying gays, and complete socialisim and economic colapse??? Edited by powerman 2012-11-09 11:00 AM |
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![]() | ![]() Goosedog - crowny2 - Don, there was a question earlier about how Ryan is a proponent of the death penalty. Even though the church is staunchly against it. How does that affect his standing in the church? Does it? I ask because I honestly don't know. GomesBolt addressed this earlier, generally. They (abortion/death penalty) are on different "levels" (quotes used not as sarcasm, but because I don't remember the exact term). Crowny, I don't know Ryan's position on the death penalty well enough to say. I think Trinnas brought up the point that there's a difference between murder and killing. So abortion and the death penalty are on different levels. Direct abortion, meaning that the primary act is the killing of the offspring This is a defined teaching. The death penalty falls under an umbrella of considerations regarding how to treat criminals. So if the death penalty is to be administered it ought to be done only in the narrowest of circumstances. So for example, here in Pennsylvania, I'm satisfied that the penal system will keep my community, my family I remember there was a case in Texas a few years back where a prisoner on death row escaped. So regarding the death penalty, there is room for prudential judgement.
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