Subject: RE: TAN #199: jobs R imporTANt, conTANkulations TANgemelons!Originally posted by Techdiver Alright. so I haven't publicly announced I have been seeing someone she is awesome and I wasn't really ready to commit to a new relationship already. Despite taking precautions. And it wasn't planned. But I am excited anyways. I am going to be a Dad for the first time in my life. I'm going to hope that everything goes great... and this is great for everyone. I would venture to guess that people would have thought I was jumping in too soon if I said THE FIRST girl I would date after my divorce would be my next wife. The rebound is never "the one", right? But since you posted, I guess I have to say that I'm nervous for you. You are just out of your marriage, probably not a lot of dating (again, doesn't always need to happen). Things might have been going good with her but a kid is another story... I personally waited close to 5-6 years before marrying my wife even though I knew she was the one. I just needed more TIME between her and the ex. I'm hoping for the best for you and giving you my full support, but I'm also concerned. Too much too soon, IMO. Good luck. Edited by Kido 2013-05-28 5:15 PM
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