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2008-10-13 10:15 AM
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wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:11 AM

So....does it make me sooooooper-desperate if I decide to put up a profile on Match.com? Just to see, just to get out and meet people. Not banking on "finding a husband" or anything. In 2 years, I've been on a small handful of dates with 1 guy. And that was almost a year ago now...

Based on what YOU told ME about that place, yes.

Get thee out more. It's not as difficult as it seems.


This is a good point. Although, I have thoroughly enjoyed being a homebody recently and taking time from dating. I think I might continue to do this until after IM. Then, I might be ready to really date again. I guess.

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2008-10-13 10:16 AM
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wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 10:11 AM So....does it make me sooooooper-desperate if I decide to put up a profile on Match.com? Just to see, just to get out and meet people. Not banking on "finding a husband" or anything. In 2 years, I've been on a small handful of dates with 1 guy. And that was almost a year ago now...

I dunno if it makes one soooooper-desperate.  I've done the Match.com thing (I think) a few years ago.  Did eharmony a few years ago.  In any case, I ended up soooooper DEPRESSED after those experiences.  I ended up thinking "THIS is what's out there?  THIS is my selection?  SERIOUSLY?"  So...it was good to laugh at stuff at first but then I got depressed and have been "clean and sober" for several years now.  =



Oh, that is a good point as well.
2008-10-13 10:16 AM
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bcart1991 - 2008-10-13 11:12 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:11 AM So....does it make me sooooooper-desperate if I decide to put up a profile on Match.com? Just to see, just to get out and meet people. Not banking on "finding a husband" or anything. In 2 years, I've been on a small handful of dates with 1 guy. And that was almost a year ago now...
Based on what YOU told ME about that place, yes. Get thee out more. It's not as difficult as it seems.

I know I did it once before. But since DC is so transitory, it gets influxes of new people every so often. So who knows.

Besides, I don't do the whole "meet guys at bars" thing. I almost NEVER get hit on at bars, oddly enough.

2008-10-13 10:16 AM
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lvthgme - 2008-10-13 10:14 AM

wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 10:11 AM So....does it make me sooooooper-desperate if I decide to put up a profile on Match.com? Just to see, just to get out and meet people. Not banking on "finding a husband" or anything. In 2 years, I've been on a small handful of dates with 1 guy. And that was almost a year ago now...

I dunno if it makes one soooooper-desperate.  I've done the Match.com thing (I think) a few years ago.  Did eharmony a few years ago.  In any case, I ended up soooooper DEPRESSED after those experiences.  I ended up thinking "THIS is what's out there?  THIS is my selection?  SERIOUSLY?"  So...it was good to laugh at stuff at first but then I got depressed and have been "clean and sober" for several years now.  =



You're too picky. Even short, overweight guys who `loves a chick who can eat 40 Hooters wings and STILL stay awake for NASCAR' need love too.
2008-10-13 10:16 AM
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wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 10:16 AM

bcart1991 - 2008-10-13 11:12 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:11 AM So....does it make me sooooooper-desperate if I decide to put up a profile on Match.com? Just to see, just to get out and meet people. Not banking on "finding a husband" or anything. In 2 years, I've been on a small handful of dates with 1 guy. And that was almost a year ago now...
Based on what YOU told ME about that place, yes. Get thee out more. It's not as difficult as it seems.

I know I did it once before. But since DC is so transitory, it gets influxes of new people every so often. So who knows.

Besides, I don't do the whole "meet guys at bars" thing. I almost NEVER get hit on at bars, oddly enough.



oh we can change that. It's very simple.
2008-10-13 10:17 AM
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ATXtri - 2008-10-13 11:16 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 10:16 AM

bcart1991 - 2008-10-13 11:12 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:11 AM So....does it make me sooooooper-desperate if I decide to put up a profile on Match.com? Just to see, just to get out and meet people. Not banking on "finding a husband" or anything. In 2 years, I've been on a small handful of dates with 1 guy. And that was almost a year ago now...
Based on what YOU told ME about that place, yes. Get thee out more. It's not as difficult as it seems.

I know I did it once before. But since DC is so transitory, it gets influxes of new people every so often. So who knows.

Besides, I don't do the whole "meet guys at bars" thing. I almost NEVER get hit on at bars, oddly enough.

oh we can change that. It's very simple.

Eh, I don't even care about the getting hit on part, I just don't want to meet a guy at a bar.



2008-10-13 10:18 AM
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wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 10:17 AM

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wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 10:16 AM

bcart1991 - 2008-10-13 11:12 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:11 AM So....does it make me sooooooper-desperate if I decide to put up a profile on Match.com? Just to see, just to get out and meet people. Not banking on "finding a husband" or anything. In 2 years, I've been on a small handful of dates with 1 guy. And that was almost a year ago now...
Based on what YOU told ME about that place, yes. Get thee out more. It's not as difficult as it seems.

I know I did it once before. But since DC is so transitory, it gets influxes of new people every so often. So who knows.

Besides, I don't do the whole "meet guys at bars" thing. I almost NEVER get hit on at bars, oddly enough.

oh we can change that. It's very simple.

Eh, I don't even care about the getting hit on part, I just don't want to meet a guy at a bar.


Yea, I'm with you on that. I've been trying to avoid the bars at the "busy" time in recent months, for that reason.
2008-10-13 10:20 AM
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wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:16 AM

I know I did it once before. But since DC is so transitory, it gets influxes of new people every so often. So who knows.

Besides, I don't do the whole "meet guys at bars" thing. I almost NEVER get hit on at bars, oddly enough.



You gotta broaden your social network a little at a time. Meet people who are friends of friends and such. It happens. Case in point: my current situation. Friend of a friend saw me out hanging with a group watching the UFC fights and asked about me. I had no clue at the time that I was "being watched."

I'm not out there actively trying to meet people, but if it happens it happens.

Oh, I had a hilarious ex-encounter Saturday too.
2008-10-13 10:20 AM
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mr2tony - 2008-10-13 11:16 AM  You're too picky. Even short, overweight guys who `loves a chick who can eat 40 Hooters wings and STILL stay awake for NASCAR' need love too.

thanks for sticking up for my people's needs. 

 

2008-10-13 10:21 AM
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bcart1991 - 2008-10-13 11:20 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:16 AM

I know I did it once before. But since DC is so transitory, it gets influxes of new people every so often. So who knows.

Besides, I don't do the whole "meet guys at bars" thing. I almost NEVER get hit on at bars, oddly enough.

You gotta broaden your social network a little at a time. Meet people who are friends of friends and such. It happens. Case in point: my current situation. Friend of a friend saw me out hanging with a group watching the UFC fights and asked about me. I had no clue at the time that I was "being watched." I'm not out there actively trying to meet people, but if it happens it happens. Oh, I had a hilarious ex-encounter Saturday too.

If I had friends that I did stuff with frequently, it'd be one thing. But I don't. And I'm sick of just swirling around in the same small group of people at my church. Not to mention the fact that after the tri-hottie thing, I DON'T want to date anyone from my specific church. It's too much of a fishbowl.

2008-10-13 10:22 AM
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wurkit...

I'm sorry...  I know you want me, but you have to face the fact that you cannot have me. 



2008-10-13 10:22 AM
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mr2tony - 2008-10-13 10:16 AM


You're too picky. Even short, overweight guys who `loves a chick who can eat 40 Hooters wings and STILL stay awake for NASCAR' need love too.



That's how my wife won me over......


2008-10-13 10:23 AM
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2008-10-13 10:24 AM
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lvthgme - 2008-10-13 10:23 AM

mr2tony - 2008-10-13 10:16 AM
lvthgme - 2008-10-13 10:14 AM

wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 10:11 AM So....does it make me sooooooper-desperate if I decide to put up a profile on Match.com? Just to see, just to get out and meet people. Not banking on "finding a husband" or anything. In 2 years, I've been on a small handful of dates with 1 guy. And that was almost a year ago now...

I dunno if it makes one soooooper-desperate. I've done the Match.com thing (I think) a few years ago. Did eharmony a few years ago. In any case, I ended up soooooper DEPRESSED after those experiences. I ended up thinking "THIS is what's out there? THIS is my selection? SERIOUSLY?" So...it was good to laugh at stuff at first but then I got depressed and have been "clean and sober" for several years now. =)

You're too picky. Even short, overweight guys who `loves a chick who can eat 40 Hooters wings and STILL stay awake for NASCAR' need love too.

HAhahahaha...true.  But they don't need it from me.  =)  Dudes now I'm having flashbacks to all the creativity and such..."I don't usually do this..." "Just a shy guy, looking for a nice girl..."  "Looking for Mr. Right???"  GAAAAAAAH!  AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK! 



Check out Craigslist. Lotsa great men on there, I'm sure.
2008-10-13 10:24 AM
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wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:21 AM

If I had friends that I did stuff with frequently, it'd be one thing. But I don't. And I'm sick of just swirling around in the same small group of people at my church. Not to mention the fact that after the tri-hottie thing, I DON'T want to date anyone from my specific church. It's too much of a fishbowl.


God (snerk) forbid you did something with people outside your church group. Just sayin'.
2008-10-13 10:25 AM
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mr2tony - 2008-10-13 10:24 AM

lvthgme - 2008-10-13 10:23 AM

mr2tony - 2008-10-13 10:16 AM
lvthgme - 2008-10-13 10:14 AM

wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 10:11 AM So....does it make me sooooooper-desperate if I decide to put up a profile on Match.com? Just to see, just to get out and meet people. Not banking on "finding a husband" or anything. In 2 years, I've been on a small handful of dates with 1 guy. And that was almost a year ago now...

I dunno if it makes one soooooper-desperate. I've done the Match.com thing (I think) a few years ago. Did eharmony a few years ago. In any case, I ended up soooooper DEPRESSED after those experiences. I ended up thinking "THIS is what's out there? THIS is my selection? SERIOUSLY?" So...it was good to laugh at stuff at first but then I got depressed and have been "clean and sober" for several years now. =)

You're too picky. Even short, overweight guys who `loves a chick who can eat 40 Hooters wings and STILL stay awake for NASCAR' need love too.

HAhahahaha...true.  But they don't need it from me.  =)  Dudes now I'm having flashbacks to all the creativity and such..."I don't usually do this..." "Just a shy guy, looking for a nice girl..."  "Looking for Mr. Right???"  GAAAAAAAH!  AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK! 



Check out Craigslist. Lotsa great men on there, I'm sure.


and lots of crazy BCBC


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2008-10-13 10:27 AM
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wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:16 AM

I know I did it once before. But since DC is so transitory, it gets influxes of new people every so often. So who knows.

Besides, I don't do the whole "meet guys at bars" thing. I almost NEVER get hit on at bars, oddly enough.

You gotta broaden your social network a little at a time. Meet people who are friends of friends and such. It happens. Case in point: my current situation. Friend of a friend saw me out hanging with a group watching the UFC fights and asked about me. I had no clue at the time that I was "being watched." I'm not out there actively trying to meet people, but if it happens it happens. Oh, I had a hilarious ex-encounter Saturday too.

Exactly. Just Saturday night I got a message from a friend (girl) that wanted me to come out because HER friend was going to be there. I had other plans, but still. That seems to be the best way. 

I'm also a firm believer of meeting people at the book store. 



Ha. Ooh, I prefer the grocery store.
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Rynamite - 2008-10-13 10:26 AM

bcart1991 - 2008-10-13 11:20 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:16 AM

I know I did it once before. But since DC is so transitory, it gets influxes of new people every so often. So who knows.

Besides, I don't do the whole "meet guys at bars" thing. I almost NEVER get hit on at bars, oddly enough.

You gotta broaden your social network a little at a time. Meet people who are friends of friends and such. It happens. Case in point: my current situation. Friend of a friend saw me out hanging with a group watching the UFC fights and asked about me. I had no clue at the time that I was "being watched." I'm not out there actively trying to meet people, but if it happens it happens. Oh, I had a hilarious ex-encounter Saturday too.

Exactly. Just Saturday night I got a message from a friend (girl) that wanted me to come out because HER friend was going to be there. I had other plans, but still. That seems to be the best way. 

I'm also a firm believer of meeting people at the book store. 



Porn shops are the bom-diggity to meet chicks.
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p>Exactly. Just Saturday night I got a message from a friend (girl) that wanted me to come out because HER friend was going to be there. I had other plans, but still. That seems to be the best way. 

I'm also a firm believer of meeting people at the book store. 



Ha. Ooh, I prefer the grocery store.

Notsomuch at my local Shop & Stab.
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ATXtri - 2008-10-13 10:27 AM

Rynamite - 2008-10-13 10:26 AM

bcart1991 - 2008-10-13 11:20 AM
wurkit_gurl - 2008-10-13 11:16 AM

I know I did it once before. But since DC is so transitory, it gets influxes of new people every so often. So who knows.

Besides, I don't do the whole "meet guys at bars" thing. I almost NEVER get hit on at bars, oddly enough.

You gotta broaden your social network a little at a time. Meet people who are friends of friends and such. It happens. Case in point: my current situation. Friend of a friend saw me out hanging with a group watching the UFC fights and asked about me. I had no clue at the time that I was "being watched." I'm not out there actively trying to meet people, but if it happens it happens. Oh, I had a hilarious ex-encounter Saturday too.

Exactly. Just Saturday night I got a message from a friend (girl) that wanted me to come out because HER friend was going to be there. I had other plans, but still. That seems to be the best way. 

I'm also a firm believer of meeting people at the book store. 



Ha. Ooh, I prefer the grocery store.


Although, I always do my hunting/gathering after a good hard workout. I'm sure the sweat and spandex are really turning them on.
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