TAN #185: Queens of Double EnTANdre (Page 9)

trinnas - 2012-10-15 3:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

that's what i was going to say!

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

then...ignore her text.

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

"Not my problem. Must be with one of your other husbands. Have a nice life!"

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

I can understand that but to do that you have to not let her have a negative effect on you.  Just be 100% businesslike.

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:45 PM

ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:42 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

"Not my problem. Must be with one of your other husbands. Have a nice life!"

haha i like this

OR, send her the wrong SS# (maybe of a person you don't like) and wait and see...maybe she's trying to pull a scam and then you can call the police and...kill two birds with one stone.

Samyg - 2012-10-15 3:58 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:45 PM

ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:42 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

"Not my problem. Must be with one of your other husbands. Have a nice life!"

haha i like this

OR, send her the wrong SS# (maybe of a person you don't like) and wait and see...maybe she's trying to pull a scam and then you can call the police and...kill two birds with one stone.

Why does it matter?  You have moved on and your life is in a better place.  Just let it go.  Being vindictive does nothing for you in the end but acknowledge that that person still has power over your life.

trinnas - 2012-10-15 4:01 PM

Samyg - 2012-10-15 3:58 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:45 PM

ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:42 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

"Not my problem. Must be with one of your other husbands. Have a nice life!"

haha i like this

OR, send her the wrong SS# (maybe of a person you don't like) and wait and see...maybe she's trying to pull a scam and then you can call the police and...kill two birds with one stone.

Why does it matter?  You have moved on and your life is in a better place.  Just let it go.  Being vindictive does nothing for you in the end but acknowledge that that person still has power over your life.

he obviously chose to completely ignore the last time you posted that

trinnas - 2012-10-15 4:01 PM

Samyg - 2012-10-15 3:58 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:45 PM

ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:42 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

"Not my problem. Must be with one of your other husbands. Have a nice life!"

haha i like this

OR, send her the wrong SS# (maybe of a person you don't like) and wait and see...maybe she's trying to pull a scam and then you can call the police and...kill two birds with one stone.

Why does it matter?  You have moved on and your life is in a better place.  Just let it go.  Being vindictive does nothing for you in the end but acknowledge that that person still has power over your life.

Yes, but it will be funny.

For men, when it comes to a choice between funny and rational, rational doesn't stand a chance.

Fart jokes anyone?

trinnas - 2012-10-15 4:01 PM

Samyg - 2012-10-15 3:58 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:45 PM

ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:42 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

"Not my problem. Must be with one of your other husbands. Have a nice life!"

haha i like this

OR, send her the wrong SS# (maybe of a person you don't like) and wait and see...maybe she's trying to pull a scam and then you can call the police and...kill two birds with one stone.

Why does it matter?  You have moved on and your life is in a better place.  Just let it go.  Being vindictive does nothing for you in the end but acknowledge that that person still has power over your life.

Because some of us find the tiniest bit of happiness in a little revenge - or at least dreaming about it. I do especially when I feel that the other person never suffered the way they should have for what they put me through.

I never claimed to be a really good person. But I am reasonable, so most of these things just remain fantasies.

mehaner - 2012-10-15 3:40 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

then...ignore her text.

or just ignore it to begin with

mehaner - 2012-10-15 4:02 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 4:01 PM

Samyg - 2012-10-15 3:58 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:45 PM

ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:42 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

"Not my problem. Must be with one of your other husbands. Have a nice life!"

haha i like this

OR, send her the wrong SS# (maybe of a person you don't like) and wait and see...maybe she's trying to pull a scam and then you can call the police and...kill two birds with one stone.

Why does it matter?  You have moved on and your life is in a better place.  Just let it go.  Being vindictive does nothing for you in the end but acknowledge that that person still has power over your life.

he obviously chose to completely ignore the last time you posted that

True, so be it.

ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 4:04 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 4:01 PM

Samyg - 2012-10-15 3:58 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:45 PM

ratherbeswimming - 2012-10-15 1:42 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:39 PM

trinnas - 2012-10-15 1:36 PM

trmat79 - 2012-10-15 3:32 PM Here's a good one for tan..... I get a text 10 minutes ago from my ex wife saying that she was never taken out of the military system when we got divorced. So she wanted me to send my full social security # so she can get it fixed.... well here are a couple of the problems with this: 1) if you don't have my social still .. so sorry 2) the only reason you would need to get back into the military system was because she married someone in the military (which I find funny since we got divorced because she couldn't handle the military lifestyle) 3) SHe never writes/calls etc So I called the people that run the system and find out that she has been listed as divorce so now what should I write her back and say..... TAN DISCUSS!!!

Simple: I checked with (whoever the agency is) and they have you listed as divorced.  What is it exactly you need done?

Concur.. I just want her to disappear forever.... haha

"Not my problem. Must be with one of your other husbands. Have a nice life!"

haha i like this

OR, send her the wrong SS# (maybe of a person you don't like) and wait and see...maybe she's trying to pull a scam and then you can call the police and...kill two birds with one stone.

Why does it matter?  You have moved on and your life is in a better place.  Just let it go.  Being vindictive does nothing for you in the end but acknowledge that that person still has power over your life.

Because some of us find the tiniest bit of happiness in a little revenge - or at least dreaming about it. I do especially when I feel that the other person never suffered the way they should have for what they put me through.

I never claimed to be a really good person. But I am reasonable, so most of these things just remain fantasies.

Or because maybe he knows that is the right thing to do, and what he will do, but asking TAn for ideas is always fun filled and entertaining

BTW, remind me never to mess with Elaine. And if I do and end up missing, you know who to ask first...

yeah we already get that she's a bee yotch.  being a bee yotch back changes nothing.  if you want her to disappear, just ignore her.  she'll go away.

Yep this.

The opposite of love is not hate it is indifference and indifference is the best revenge.

And don't worry TRM I know you weren't ignoring me. 

I had a boyfriend break up with me for seemingly no reason. A few hours later, I was in the car headed somewhere, and he sent me a text saying "By the way, I cheated"

He didn't want to stand up and face me after what he did.

I may have fantasized about slashing tires and leaving flaming bags of poo on doorsteps and similar acts. Never did anything. I'm not that stupid.

I've since moved on, and I'm quite happy (which is the best revenge, right?) but if our paths were to cross again, I'm sure I'd have some evil ideas. But I'd never act on them. Can't help it, it's the way my brain functions.

man, i've never been called that before.