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2008-09-23 9:42 PM
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geauxtri - 2008-09-24 12:39 PM

I actually used the analogy with his manager today that "there's more than one way to butcher a cow and still get a nice piece of meat"  , she laughed

Moo!!! Good thing you get along with her.... any idea what she thinks?



2008-09-23 9:50 PM
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kaqphin - 2008-09-23 8:42 PM
geauxtri - 2008-09-24 12:39 PM

I actually used the analogy with his manager today that "there's more than one way to butcher a cow and still get a nice piece of meat"  , she laughed

Moo!!! Good thing you get along with her.... any idea what she thinks?

Well, considering I'm not the first staff member to have a run in with him....she's likely listening to me...

As well, her and I have been a same committee more than once.  She knows that I'm not a lazy a** and that I know my stuff.  In my rage I kind of missed something I think... but she said something along the lines that "You're one of the most seasoned coordinators in the system" and something about how admin likes my work....  Bottomline.... HER boss is the one that hired me years ago.... pretty much everybody above my boss likes me.... and b/c of the amount of commitment I have to the DIVISION and not just my facility..... my job security is pretty damn good....

2008-09-23 9:55 PM
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Thanks for chatting and supporting me...

I must get 2yo to bed....

2008-09-23 9:55 PM
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geauxtri - 2008-09-24 12:50 PM
kaqphin - 2008-09-23 8:42 PM
geauxtri - 2008-09-24 12:39 PM

I actually used the analogy with his manager today that "there's more than one way to butcher a cow and still get a nice piece of meat"  , she laughed

Moo!!! Good thing you get along with her.... any idea what she thinks?

Well, considering I'm not the first staff member to have a run in with him....she's likely listening to me...

As well, her and I have been a same committee more than once.  She knows that I'm not a lazy a** and that I know my stuff.  In my rage I kind of missed something I think... but she said something along the lines that "You're one of the most seasoned coordinators in the system" and something about how admin likes my work....  Bottomline.... HER boss is the one that hired me years ago.... pretty much everybody above my boss likes me.... and b/c of the amount of commitment I have to the DIVISION and not just my facility..... my job security is pretty damn good....

hmmm oh well at least you can sit down and get some speicifcs from your boss about exaclty WHAT his problem is (probably not in those words) and the address the issues one by one so he feels more comfortable. 

On trick that works really well (at least for me with difficult people) is to first ask for whats bothering them... then ask them if all that went away what the end result would look like... 

Might stop him focusing on the little details and see the big picture... in other words if one thing was: 

- Every event got an x% turnout and particpation rate: then it really doenst matter how you go about it as long as he gets that end result...basically encouraging him to be hands off rather than on!

 

Then again Im still a puppy and maybe am just talking out of turn!!

2008-09-23 9:55 PM
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geauxtri - 2008-09-24 12:55 PM

Thanks for chatting and supporting me...

I must get 2yo to bed....

Night - I hope tomorrow goes well!

2008-09-23 9:58 PM
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g'night nibbs

i'll get more caught up tomorrow



2008-09-23 10:03 PM
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lastcall2003 - 2008-09-23 7:58 PM

g'night nibbs

i'll get more caught up tomorrow

Good night Bethie! 

2008-09-23 10:04 PM
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2008-09-23 10:06 PM
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mchally - 2008-09-24 1:04 PM Hi Cat

Hello  there!

2008-09-23 10:16 PM
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Every one is going to miss the epic post.
2008-09-23 10:17 PM
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Goodnight, Beth and Heather!


2008-09-23 10:17 PM
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Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:16 PM Every one is going to miss the epic post.

Nah - they might just be a little slow in seeing it but it WILL be seen... promise!

2008-09-23 10:18 PM
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Blagels - 2008-09-23 11:16 PM Every one is going to miss the epic post.

Nope.  I'm here.   

2008-09-23 10:18 PM
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Post 1000!!

I LOVE BOOBS!

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2008-09-23 10:18 PM
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Wow... That was EPIC!!
2008-09-23 10:19 PM
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Blagels - 2008-09-23 11:18 PM Wow... That was EPIC!!

Thanks for that, Blake.   



2008-09-23 10:19 PM
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Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:18 PM Wow... That was EPIC!!

It was something!!!  

 

All I will say Blakey is that its VERY appropriate!!!

2008-09-23 10:20 PM
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Artemis - 2008-09-23 10:19 PM

Blagels - 2008-09-23 11:18 PM Wow... That was EPIC!!

Thanks for that, Blake.   



Anytime Jen. Always feel free to return the favor.

How have you been?
2008-09-23 10:20 PM
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kaqphin - 2008-09-23 10:19 PM

Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:18 PM Wow... That was EPIC!!

It was something!!!  

 

All I will say Blakey is that its VERY appropriate!!!



I couldn't agree more. Glad I got that off my chest, to be honest.
2008-09-23 10:22 PM
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Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:20 PM
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Blagels - 2008-09-23 11:18 PM Wow... That was EPIC!!

Thanks for that, Blake.   

Anytime Jen. Always feel free to return the favor. How have you been?

Just a question... what would the female equivalent be of returning the favour???  

2008-09-23 10:22 PM
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Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:20 PM
kaqphin - 2008-09-23 10:19 PM

Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:18 PM Wow... That was EPIC!!

It was something!!!  

 

All I will say Blakey is that its VERY appropriate!!!

I couldn't agree more. Glad I got that off my chest, to be honest.

Im sure you are... that would be quite a burden...



2008-09-23 10:23 PM
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kaqphin - 2008-09-23 10:22 PM

Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:20 PM
Artemis - 2008-09-23 10:19 PM

Blagels - 2008-09-23 11:18 PM Wow... That was EPIC!!

Thanks for that, Blake.   

Anytime Jen. Always feel free to return the favor. How have you been?

Just a question... what would the female equivalent be of returning the favour???  



Females, too, can express their love for boobs. And if they really want, I think boob pom pom pictures are always welcome.
2008-09-23 10:25 PM
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Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:23 PM
kaqphin - 2008-09-23 10:22 PM
Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:20 PM
Artemis - 2008-09-23 10:19 PM

Blagels - 2008-09-23 11:18 PM Wow... That was EPIC!!

Thanks for that, Blake.   

Anytime Jen. Always feel free to return the favor. How have you been?

Just a question... what would the female equivalent be of returning the favour???  

Females, too, can express their love for boobs. And if they really want, I think boob pom pom pictures are always welcome.

Whats not to love? They accessorise any outfit... and can be a good distraction from other areas if required... 

2008-09-23 10:25 PM
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Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:23 PM
kaqphin - 2008-09-23 10:22 PM
Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:20 PM
Artemis - 2008-09-23 10:19 PM

Blagels - 2008-09-23 11:18 PM Wow... That was EPIC!!

Thanks for that, Blake.   

Anytime Jen. Always feel free to return the favor. How have you been?

Just a question... what would the female equivalent be of returning the favour???  

Females, too, can express their love for boobs. And if they really want, I think boob pom pom pictures are always welcome.

Oh and Beth... I think Blake is making a request... did you keep the pom poms in the move?

2008-09-23 10:26 PM
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kaqphin - 2008-09-23 10:25 PM

Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:23 PM
kaqphin - 2008-09-23 10:22 PM
Blagels - 2008-09-24 1:20 PM
Artemis - 2008-09-23 10:19 PM

Blagels - 2008-09-23 11:18 PM Wow... That was EPIC!!

Thanks for that, Blake.   

Anytime Jen. Always feel free to return the favor. How have you been?

Just a question... what would the female equivalent be of returning the favour???  

Females, too, can express their love for boobs. And if they really want, I think boob pom pom pictures are always welcome.

Whats not to love? They accessorise any outfit... and can be a good distraction from other areas if required... 



lol... on that note, I am off to bed!
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