Subject: How are those New Year's resolutions coming along?I didn't really make any specific resolutions, as that doesn't really work for me. But I know several friends who have already fallen down a bit on their goals, and I've dug out this old article to help them keep everything in perspective. I thought I'd share it here too: The Art of the Relapse, from Experience Life Magazine (Jan/Feb 2005 ). "By watching ourselves cycle through periods of commitment, effort, success, faltering and discouragement, and then back into recommitment, we learn what our emotional tendencies and thought processes are in each of those phases of experience. Each time we go through that cycle, we have the opportunity to get smarter, deeper, stronger. We accumulate wisdom and a better sense of what makes us tick." |